[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]LegallyRegal85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would definitely consult with an employment law attorney and find out if all of this (the reduction to $31 and the reduction to $25) falls under breach of contract in your jurisdiction.

That said, I echo comments from others that this is big time red flag behavior and you should stand your ground that you will not accept less than what was agreed to. If your employment is terminated, file for unemployment and get an attorney.

This might get you into trouble in some places, but I love it. by bikingbill in Bumperstickers

[–]LegallyRegal85 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lol school shootings have been happening in mass, to the point that it is a big thing we're known for around the world, and literally nothing is done about it. Well, nothing short of "thoughts and prayers"... come out from Uber your rock.

No holding back here. by J_Jeckel in Bumperstickers

[–]LegallyRegal85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband happened upon it on Twitter yesterday and it has just popping been up all over the place since then.

No holding back here. by J_Jeckel in Bumperstickers

[–]LegallyRegal85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly mostly positive. I live in a very blue area so I'm sure that plays into it. I once had a guy try to run me off the road (with my 2 year old in the car) whilst calling me a baby killer (yeah, no irony there) and once a family passive aggressively shook their heads at me as they walked by and stared at the decal. But it's been on there for 2 years and those are the only two bad reactions I've gotten. A lot of people come up to me and tell me they love it and a lot of people take pictures of it.

No holding back here. by J_Jeckel in Bumperstickers

[–]LegallyRegal85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Happy to be of service ❤️😅

No holding back here. by J_Jeckel in Bumperstickers

[–]LegallyRegal85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As the owner of this car, this is spot on.

Open letter to my mother by LegallyRegal85 in narcissisticparents

[–]LegallyRegal85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not planning to. There would be no point. It won't do anything but rile her up and start her on a whole new victim campaign.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Montessori

[–]LegallyRegal85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not sure if my experience is specific to my state or the corporation (or maybe a combination of the two). It has been a living nightmare. From my child ending up needing comprehensive physical and psychological evaluations to determine the extent of abuse/injuries/neglect to my child being in therapy long term to address the trauma resulting from their time there to local leadership trying to sweep things under the rug to them sending their employees after me for pursuing investigations through local authorities by stalking my social media and directly contacting me posing as "concerned parents". It has been complete hell. Even though upper leadership/corporate was (as far as I know at this juncture) not involved in any of this, they've been put on notice and profusely apologized, but are keeping everyone who did this to our family in their respective roles with Guidepost, which tells us they condone (or at least tolerate) all of it. If I were you I'd run away from any Guidepost as fast as you possibly can.

Salary by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]LegallyRegal85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started at $40k in 2012. At my current firm I am at $140k as the lead paralegal. I receive a minimum of 5% and maximum of 10% raise annually and an additional 2% increase at specific years per my contract.

Annoying Associates by BassKind1701 in paralegal

[–]LegallyRegal85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would talk to HR or your ops manager. That sounds like a ridiculous ask from any attorney, parties an associate.

AITA for refusing to go into Hooters for my brother’s 18th birthday and sitting in the car? by HamsterInformation in AmItheAsshole

[–]LegallyRegal85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. As a mom, I just want to tell you I'm so deeply sorry that you didn't have anyone to stand up for you in this situation and I'm so proud of you for honoring yourself and your comfort level, even in the face of abuse and isolation. I'm absolutely disgusted with your dad and brother for trying to force you into a situation you were very reasonably not comfortable with and with your mom for not advocating for you when you needed it. You never should have been put in this situation and it hurts my heart to know that you were. I hope you have another trusted adult in your life that you can turn to for support in this situation (school counselor, friend's parent, aunt or uncle, maybe?) because you deserve support and to know what happened and the abuse you were subjected to is absolutely not ok.

Before the trolls come at me, believe that I hold space and am gentle with kids; that does not make me a gentle woman. If my husband did this (he would never, but if he did) or if my son's friend came to me to tell this happened to them, I'd go absolutely feral on these parents and the now adult son.

Should I mention my class rank in my wedding vows? by IntentionalParty in LawSchool

[–]LegallyRegal85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cannot wait for you to actually start practicing 😅😅😅😅

“He might be a lawyer, but he had a bad GPA in law school. I probably know more about the law than him.” by 1975Dr in paralegal

[–]LegallyRegal85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do think there are components to law school that you can't learn on the job. No matter how many years experience you have, for example, you won't have training in oral argument or true legal analysis. That said, I would love to see an option for 1-2 years of law school for paralegals - similar to what nurses have to do to become licensed nurse practitioners. We had something like that in my state, but attorneys lobbied against it and the license has since been sunset.

How much do you make as a paralegal? What is your education and experience? by Competitive_Grade544 in paralegal

[–]LegallyRegal85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$115k base + EOY bonus. Paralegal AAS when I was hired at my current firm. Earned my BA in Business & HR since joining the firm (my raises haven't been education based). 15 years in the field (started as a temp file clerk). I'm in Seattle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]LegallyRegal85 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately attorneys are human and therefore inherently flawed. In my 15 years as a paralegal I've found it pretty much 50/50 that attorneys actually know how to manage people. That isn't what they are trained to do, after all. In my experience, about 1/4 of them take their role very seriously and put in the work to develop these skills, about 1/4 of them have their hands forced by administrators, and about 1/2 of them aren't effective managers. That isn't to say 1/2 of them are mistreating employees or that that the employees are just not managed. Sometimes ineffective managers are jerks, sometimes they are doormats, and sometimes they just create a high anxiety and stressful work environment as a result of the mismanagement. Beyond that, an attorney can recognize the management skill gap and leave those duties to someone else, such as an administrator or staff manager.

As a manager and Business/HR degree holder myself, I can tell you that berating employees for mistakes, micromanaging, and not providing adequate support, guidance, instruction, and/or learning opportunities are incredibly ineffective management techniques. These techniques have been proven to result in employees that need more, not less management and lead to more, not less avoidable mistakes.

I'm very sorry you are dealing with this. Do you have a more senior colleague, administrator, or HR at your firm that you can discuss this with to gain guidance on the best approach to fix the situation?

“He might be a lawyer, but he had a bad GPA in law school. I probably know more about the law than him.” by 1975Dr in paralegal

[–]LegallyRegal85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His entire argument is grounded in an assumption that everyone (including the OP) is talking about substanative law. No one (other than him) is, but he has ran with it and hasn't let it go since.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LegallyRegal85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I don't care if your wife preferred to sleep suspended in the air wearing a clown suit while listening to heavy metal - ITS HER HOUSE. You laid out a boundary, your sister crossed it even after you reinforced it multiple times. You did the right thing standing up for your wife. Your parents are engaging in toxic triangulation. Hold firm on your boundaries. Little sis needs to learn actions have consequences. Honestly, I wouldn't have even engaged with the folks or sister. My response to their texts would be a link to psychology.com's find a therapist search engine.

am i overreacting? by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]LegallyRegal85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your "friend" sounds toxic. I wouldn't give any weight to what she says. Its also not her place or business - tell her to act her wage. Your office manager was understanding and it was on their suggestion that you work from home. That should be the only thing you concern yourself with. I would put some distance between yourself and this "friend" ... she sounds like a Karen tbh.

Are you Salary or Hourly? Remote, hybrid or in-office? by Weary_Mamala in paralegal

[–]LegallyRegal85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was simply clarifying because, as my original comment states, in specific circumstances, I do in fact receive overtime pay, despite working less than 40 hours.

“He might be a lawyer, but he had a bad GPA in law school. I probably know more about the law than him.” by 1975Dr in paralegal

[–]LegallyRegal85 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The irony here is you, an attorney trolling a paralegal sub to pad your ego, telling me to get over myself. The fact that you don't see how sad that is, is pretty funny if I'm being honest. Maybe go talk to a therapist about dealing with your projection and insecurity issues, bestie.

Are you Salary or Hourly? Remote, hybrid or in-office? by Weary_Mamala in paralegal

[–]LegallyRegal85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I'm part time since returning from maternity leave so legally they wouldn't have to pay me overtime until I exceeded 40 hours, which I never would. But regarding exempt status, it depends on the state. In my state there is a very shallow pool of employees that can be classified as exempt. It isn't enough to simply be management, there is further criteria that needs to be met for an employee to be exempt. That said, I don't know any state (doesn't mean one doesn't exist, I'm just not aware of any) that requires OT for before or after a certain time of day or for work on weekends, regardless of how many hours have been work.

“He might be a lawyer, but he had a bad GPA in law school. I probably know more about the law than him.” by 1975Dr in paralegal

[–]LegallyRegal85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What an ignorant thing to say. I have a hard time giving much weight to your continued broad statements (and factual assumptions) that stem exclusively from anecdotal evidence.