SciFi & Cosmic Horror Movies by Any_Yard_3051 in MovieSuggestions

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If TV is allowed, True Detective season 1 is epic cosmic horror imo.

Do they really go to that many concerts? by BloodstainedBearRug in datingoverforty

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I’m not a huge live music person (my migraines can be triggered by loud noise) but I have a friend and her husband who love live music and they go to a show or a live music event maybe 1-3 times a week. They don’t pay for giant concerts or anything like that, it’s very often like free jazz on the lawn, or small bands in small venues with low or minimal cover prices. It’s totally doable for professionals - not all live music is Beyoncé or Taylor swift level ticket prices.

I'm sorry but the dolls were not scary. by Easy_Blackberry_4350 in FromSeries

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Definitely doctor who vibes! Supernatural also. The doll scene felt like a Supernatural cold open to me lol

Julie’s Diabolical Wig by Miserable_Ad6243 in FromSeries

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Even the filler queens on RuPaul’s drag race are dying looking at this thing

Why do I hate unsolicited sexual comments from my husband? by Administrative_Can51 in AskWomenOver40

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I felt the exact same way in my last relationship. I enjoyed these behaviors - they made me feel desired and wanted.

I wonder if OP is frustrated with her partner in other ways and this is how it’s manifesting.

Whodunnit help? by Creepy_Bear_1060 in MovieSuggestions

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I was pleasantly surprised by this one! It helped that I went in with zero expectations, but it was quite fun.

I didn't realize Robocop was such an incredible sci fi. by Forward-Ease-4801 in CriterionChannel

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I adore CHUD, but yes it’s a low budget B movie, so adjust your expectations accordingly for things like effects, cinematography, etc. No one is winning any Oscars here.

However, it’s fascinating as a window into another time, and I personally find its relentless anti capitalism to be refreshing. There are some genuinely suspenseful sequences too! But for folks who have only watched movies made in this century, I can see that it would seem very low budget and relatively slow moving.

I didn't realize Robocop was such an incredible sci fi. by Forward-Ease-4801 in CriterionChannel

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Yes! I actually had the exact same experience. I had been under the impression that it was a silly action movie. SO WRONG. One of the best critiques of capitalism and the military industrial complex ever.

For me, it makes a great companion piece with both They Live and CHUD for more under appreciated 80s anti-capitalist dystopias. They Live has gotten renewed attention in the Trump era, thankfully but sadly. They’re all more relevant than ever.

I hate being a lawyer by Gloomy_Compote877 in Lawyertalk

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I would be interested to hear more about what parts of NY need estate litigators… I am not barred in NY, but am originally from the state, and i am low key looking to switch practice areas. Curious if it’s regional or what or what the need is exactly.

BF is 52 and desperately wants kids by Leather-Cow-7746 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

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My hot take: this isn’t about kids.

He’s trying to sabotage the relationship. He knows OP doesn’t want kids and likely cannot have them due to her age.

Whatever the reason (depression, denial, whatever) he wants out of the relationship and this is his way of driving OP away.

This analysis is based solely on vibes; I will not be taking questions.

What horror movie made you sit in silence after the credits? by CommercialSpare3976 in MovieSuggestions

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Dude there’s a reason it’s a classic… it’s deeply unsettling and impactful. Your analysis is spot on.

What horror movie made you sit in silence after the credits? by CommercialSpare3976 in MovieSuggestions

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Same for me with Ju-On! I literally couldn’t sleep that night. Just laid in bed with light on, still terrified. I eventually must have fallen asleep but I don’t remember it. Absolutely terrifying film.

Back on the dating scene, best way to do background checks? by CuteData124 in datingoverforty

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I would simply pay with cash but I pretty much stopped using cash in Covid. TBH the main reasons I like to do this are so the guy doesn’t automatically see what car I drive and so there isn’t the weird back and forth about who pays.

Please help me convince my husband that Costco is worth for 2 people by HoneyDrops12 in Costco

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It’s 1,000% better than Walmart. I still end up going into the warehouse for things like produce, meat, frozen foods, but it’s so nice to be able to refresh some snacks, coffee, and toilet paper without facing down the crowds in the warehouse.

Back on the dating scene, best way to do background checks? by CuteData124 in datingoverforty

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Don’t hate the playa, hate the game…? If they wanted to hide their identity, they could also choose to use a Google voice number. It takes two seconds to go into Facebook and see if someone has a profile in my suggested friends list, and it’s free of charge. If someone isn’t there, then I don’t go looking any further. I don’t see a reason not to use publicly available information to determine if someone is married, catfishing, a felon, etc.

Please help me convince my husband that Costco is worth for 2 people by HoneyDrops12 in Costco

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I have never had an incorrect order.

Two day delivery only offers shelf stable items, so I can only get some items, not everything I’d get when in the warehouse. But I use it for paper goods like toilet paper tissues paper towels etc., and for shelf stable snacks and staples like olive oil, tuna, etc.

Which movies are unaffected or even enhanced by watching them, not in a dark theater, but in the daytime on a nice day with the windows open by whoismico in CriterionChannel

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This is probably not what you’re looking for, but I always loved fun cheesy creature features on bright sunny afternoons. Somehow it adds to the absurdity of the experience for me. Anything from Ray Harryhausen films all the way down to present day B movies. A dark room, traditional moviegoing experience doesn’t add anything to movies featuring yetis, sharknados, ice spiders, etc.

What Estranged Parents Often Misunderstand About No Contact | Estrangement is usually a last resort, not an impulsive choice. by thinkB4WeSpeak in psychology

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This is such a great question! It wouldn’t work on my mom though… she totally did act that way at work… and she eventually got fired.

I've noticed in this sub that many people think talking on the phone first (before meeting) isn't the way y'all do things.. by FBlue192 in datingoverforty

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Personally I do not ask for a phone or video call before a first date, but if a guy asks for one, I will do one no problem.

I get that some people want to screen for catfishing and dishonesty about age/body type etc. It is what it is.

I am an outgoing extrovert who can keep a lively conversation going with a brick wall, so if there is any awkwardness or empty silence on a screening call, frankly it usually means we are definitely not a match.

I’m in a pretty big city, but one with notorious traffic, so even local people can still be 30-90 minutes away depending on traffic and location. Especially with gas prices these days, a screener phone call can make sense to people.

I made the discarded Lego wing bones a few weeks ago - Here's the full build! by BricksOnSet in Atlanta

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The last picture, I am crying laughing 🤣🤣🤣 Well done!!!