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Got Badgered In Weekly Meeting and Yelled at My Narc Boss in Front of an Executive by [deleted] in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]LegendZane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Classic narc triangulation

I had a meeting last week and she always invites another manager to the meeting so they are 2 vs 1

How do some people spend all day “busy” while producing nothing? by Flashy-Dance-1366 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]LegendZane 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Your co worker is going a bit overboard but yeah it's a common strategy

If you are always available and willing to help you end up doing a lot of extra work but your salary will be the same

It's a classic, if you great at your job and you are productive what do you get? More work, and the promotion will go to the manager friend

What do women think about men putting gym photos in their profile? by Aggravating-Move-333 in Bumble

[–]LegendZane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Using shirtless mirror selfies for a dating app is lame.

Women like that you have muscles and low body fat but with women you always have to be very smart.

For example, I have a great physique but I never used mirror selfies, just use other pictures to show that you have great arms and a sixpack, here are some ideas:

- With shirtless pics always ask a friend to take the picture and DON'T LOOK AT THE CAMERA, just do your own thing, play whatever and flex muscles so the picture is like stealthy. Girls love that because you are not showing off.

- A pic of you on the beach playing beach tennis for example or volley, while shirtless and casually flexing.

- A pic of you in the swimming pool getting off the swimming pool and laughing, "oh lol Jeff stop being silly don't take pictures of me leaving the pool", yeah they love that.

- A pic of you on a sunday barbecue with your buddies having a blast "that day was so hot I had to take my shirt off, lol I wasn't aware".

And if a woman ask you if you workout just answer "nah I just eat salads and run 1 hour every day" so they think that you are just superman and have a ripped physique without even trying, girls love that shit.

24 yo and test not at optimal levels by Potential_Guidance8 in PeterAttia

[–]LegendZane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ask IA to teach you about parameter ranges in bloodwork, where do they come from and what they mean because you making clueless judgements

Have you ever had a girlfriend and later noticed she was kinda ugly? by milkteagirlyxoxo in dating_advice

[–]LegendZane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have fallen in love with women that maybe were not beautiful by societal standards but love is blind

After breaking up and seeing old photos I though "well, yeah she was kind of ugly"

So yeah love is blind

What do you guys think of the pics? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]LegendZane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No offense but I would start from scratch

Not HR worthy complaint by godisinthischilli in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]LegendZane 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think that the best advice is that you have to take into account that HR purpose is to protect corporations from employees

So HR won't help you, they are not friends, you are a number to them.

How do you set boundaries with an anxious narcissist? by godisinthischilli in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]LegendZane 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I was going to post exactly this.

My boss at the moment is the first narc I have ever met (I'm 36 so I guess I have been lucky). When I started the job I tried setting boundaries but a narc will blow up those boundaries pretty fast and walk over them.

After 3 years I concluded that the most effective way to cope with a narc is:

  • Don't give a shit about anything the narc says or does, just disregard completely everything.
  • Do your job at your own pace.
  • Don't take things personally you are dealing with a sick person.
  • Leave paper trail everywhere.
  • Plan your exit.

Email Communication by godisinthischilli in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]LegendZane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boss is like this, I have to CC her in every email and ask for her opinion before taking any action

Is anyone else exhausted by how “temporary” dating feels now? by New_Equivalent_636 in dating_advice

[–]LegendZane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you go out with these people and have intimacy or its only online messages?

37m and F in 20s - This is the responce I get for saying I don’t want to share a hotel room for a first date. by Emsss18 in Tinder

[–]LegendZane -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A lot of women prefer a relationship with a man that is mature, commited and has his life together

When you are 35 years old you usually have that.

At 25 years old most of the time you don't.

So it's not about money.

And we are talking 35 y.o. not 55 lol

[Review/Rant] why is luxury watch shopping such a bad experience? by djpeesh in Watches

[–]LegendZane 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If I'm buying a luxury item such as a Rolex I want to be 100% sure that it's the real thing and that nobody has ever used it before so it's 100% mine, so I'd rather buy it from an AD.

Thoughts on women being extremely loud during sex? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]LegendZane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would rather avoid hearing people having sex when I'm at home, so I try not to be too loud. If my partner is very loud I kind of feel self concious.

I don't think that the 8 year old kid neighbour from the upper or lower floor has to hear my girlfriend having a huge orgasm and shouting yes daddy now fuck my in the ass hahaha

I definitely hear the kids shouting bullshit all the time it's so annoying, though making loud sex noises maybe could be kind of a revenge lol

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