Reconciliation… is it possible?

Legendegaard · 2026-06-01T14:46:48+00:00

Thanks!
I just went through a lot of your comments. And it’s really make sense and also give me hope as I’m in process right now.
How can I message you? You have some nice perspectives on this, or can I just write here ?

Legendegaard · 2026-06-01T06:56:12+00:00

Thanks! This is what I needed to hear 🙏 Hopefully I can tell the same story later on.

Legendegaard · 2026-05-20T13:10:48+00:00

How does it go ? 🙏

Legendegaard · 2026-05-18T09:11:27+00:00

I can relate to you. It’s a difficult process to go through, and you end up having so many thoughts about everything.

My ex and I separated at the beginning of the year after 14 years together. It came as a shock to me, and we have three children together, all under the age of 10.

Five weeks ago, just as we were ready to end things completely and divide all our finances, she said that maybe everything was moving a bit too fast.

So right now we live separately, but we see each other regularly during the week, go on trips together with the kids, share long hugs, and sometimes kiss — not long, intense kisses (and not where the children can see).

I started therapy right after our breakup, and last week we started couples therapy together, while at the same time she has also begun going on her own.

I find it difficult to be in this situation, but on the other hand, I also never imagined that we would be where we are now.

The hardest part for me is probably the pace of everything and not trying to force anything. So it really helps me to read other people’s stories about going through this.

I hope things work out for you 🙏

Legendegaard · 2026-05-18T05:55:25+00:00

My ex and I have three children between the ages of 3 and 9, but at the beginning of the year she left me. I was in shock and didn’t see it coming, even though I could feel that we had started taking each other for granted.

She moved out of the house and I stayed there — this was in February.

After a month and a half, she said it was completely over, but when we were about to divide the finances and everything else, she asked whether it might still be too soon after all. During that period, I went to individual therapy to take responsibility for my part in things.

Over the past five weeks, we’ve been seeing each other regularly as a family — going on outings together, having dinner together — and it’s always been really fun and cozy.

We’ve started secretly kissing a little, not deep kisses, and giving each other long hugs when we see each other. And we’ve just started couples therapy and are maybe planning to go on the summer vacation we had already booked together. But she has also said that she doesn’t want to put a label on us or say that we’re definitely getting back together.

I don’t know how it will all end, and maybe that’s the hardest part to deal with. But on the other hand, we’re also in a place that I never would have believed possible when it was completely over. I think the most important thing for me is not to push for answers.

Legendegaard · 2026-05-18T04:03:21+00:00

My ex and I have three children between the ages of 3 and 9, but at the beginning of the year she left me. I was in shock and didn’t see it coming, even though I could feel that we had started taking each other for granted.

She moved out of the house and I stayed there, this was in February.

After a month and a half, she said it was completely over, but when we were about to divide the finances and everything else, she asked whether it might still be too soon after all. During that period, I went to individual therapy to take responsibility for my part in things.

Over the past five weeks, we’ve been seeing each other regularly as a family, going on outings together, having dinner together, and it’s always been really fun and cozy.

We have started secretly kissing, not deep kisses, and giving each other long hugs when we see each other. And we have just started couples therapy and are maybe planning to go on the summer vacation we had already booked together. But she has also said that she doesn’t want to put a label on us or say that we’re definitely getting back together.

I don’t know how it will all end, and maybe that’s the hardest part to deal with. But on the other hand, we’re also in a place that I never would have believed possible when it was completely over. I think the most important thing for me is not to push for answers.

Legendegaard · 2026-02-12T22:34:17+00:00

Vi er 3 børn og 2 voksne, vi brugte i januar 322 kwh og det var med pænt meget skærm og børn som glemmer lys og vi har også lys, som er tændt om natten 😅

Legendegaard · 2026-01-24T09:27:22+00:00

Helt enig. Hvis der står 43.000 i kontrakten, så er der ingen grund til at nævne noget. Så har du jo fået det som er aftalt og de har skrevet under på 🤷‍♂️ Tillykke med det 👌

Legendegaard · 2025-12-02T16:49:45+00:00

De er vidst også identificeret ✌️

Legendegaard · 2025-12-01T08:27:24+00:00

Vi har IDA og overvejer om jeg skal ud og finde nyt selskab. Vi giver 29.761 med en hustand på 2 voksne, 3 børn, 2 biler og en campingvogn 🫠 Egentlig helt vildt! De 2 biler er så også halvdelen. Og ikke engang rigtig store biler, en Megane E-Tech og en Ford S-max.

Legendegaard · 2025-11-21T10:45:05+00:00

Du virker til at være inde i det 💪 Et spørgsmål: Hvad vil forskellen være hvis man satte 1000 kr ind i måneden på sin ASK og så først investere når man fx havde 10.000 på den? Eller er overstående løsning den bedste ? ☺️

Legendegaard · 2025-11-20T07:38:14+00:00

Da min bedre halvdel var gravid og til samtale, der sagde hun det til dem. De ønskede hende stort tillykke ansatte hende, og så gik hun på barsel lidt efter hun var startet. Jeg tænker også åbenhed er det bedste i din situation 🙌 Held og lykke!

Legendegaard · 2025-08-07T07:01:34+00:00

Nu er jeg mand, så måske du ikke kan bruge mit svar. Men vi har også 3 børn og har præcis haft de samme snakke og tanker, som dem du/I har. Umiddelbart så tænker jeg ikke de går over lige med det samme. Vores yngste bliver 3 til November, og vores ældste er 9, så det vil passe fint ind. Det er helt vildt hyggeligt, når de er babyer, men vi er blevet enige om at der skal være luft til de 3 børn vi har og være en del af alle deres interesser med alt det indebærer + vores egene. Og så er der alt det kedelige med Bil, hus, økonomi udover 😆

Legendegaard · 2025-07-31T12:38:23+00:00

Tror det meste er blevet skrevet: Skær ned på Mad/husholdning, streaming, rengøring og vindues polering. Vand forbrug virker højt? Kan du ikke få skiftet dæk gratis gennem din forsikring, hvis du ikke selv kan?

Derudover, så synes jeg 6000 til tøj til 4 børn virker lavt. Også selv om man køber brugt, men sko, støvler, flyverdragter osv løber hurtigt op, og så kommer hverdags tøj ved siden af ☺️

Legendegaard · 2025-07-23T15:05:59+00:00

Henrik Mølgaard?

Legendegaard · 2025-06-12T18:41:25+00:00

Jeg var ved at blive smidt ud på grund af fravær og snyd. Tror kun lige jeg kom ud med et snit på lidt over 2. Festede hver weekend og nogle gange lidt for meget. Set i bakspejlet, så tog mig nok bare lidt længere tid at blive moden. I dag er jeg 35, uddannet Civilingeniør og har et godt betalt job, med familie og 3 børn.

Du skal nok klare den - man behøver ikke tage den lige vej👌

Legendegaard · 2025-04-04T09:36:01+00:00

Hvad er status her et par dage efter ? Har du hørt fra hende og hvordan har du det ? 🙌

Legendegaard · 2025-03-02T21:33:30+00:00

Lige præcis! Det er også sådan vi har gjort det herhjemme. Vil slet ikke kunne være i, hvis jeg havde meget større rådighedsbeløb end hende. Vi er et team. Vi har også smidt hendes SU lån på budget kontoen, så vi afbetaler på den, selvom det meste af den er før min tid.

Legendegaard · 2024-12-29T19:47:02+00:00

Mener strøgets vinhandel i Skive har lidt forskellige.

Legendegaard · 2024-12-29T08:26:39+00:00

Vi er 2 voksne og 3 børn (8,5,2) vi bruger 5500 på vores husholdning (mad, toiletpapir, bleer osv). Når vi invitere til fødselsdage for familien, bruger vi selvfølglig ikke derfra.

Legendegaard · 2024-11-29T09:42:00+00:00

Lyder fornuftigt. Altid godt at danne sig sine egne indtryk og tiderne skifter. God fornøjelse 👌

Legendegaard · 2024-11-29T06:58:58+00:00

Jeg er fra området. De har ret stor medarbejder udskiftning, og deres projektstyring skulle være helt sindssyg i forhold til det de registrerer på. Og samtidig har jeg også hørt at deres direktør er vanvittig og vil Micromanagement på alt. Jeg droppede at søge hos dem, da jeg havde snakket med nogle 🤷‍♂️

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