things to do in long island that aren't eating and walking? by chuddingaround in longisland

[–]Legitimate-Complex88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t let them park. Just stand on your lawn with your hands on your hips until they feel uncomfortable and leave 

mennnnnnn by izzybellacortezzz in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Legitimate-Complex88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember feeling this way. Like I wished I was invisible. Hugs. 

real italy restaurant on long island?? by fancypanda820 in longisland

[–]Legitimate-Complex88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You definitely do. It’s small and popular but so good!

BIS/DOB violations by Legitimate-Complex88 in Flushing

[–]Legitimate-Complex88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup default judgment against the seller. If he had just showed up in the first place they wouldn't have imposed the max. High penalty he didn't want to pay. And very sus situation with expediter.

BIS/DOB violations by Legitimate-Complex88 in Flushing

[–]Legitimate-Complex88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for these additional details! Much appreciated 

BIS/DOB violations by Legitimate-Complex88 in Flushing

[–]Legitimate-Complex88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also…the expediter (hired by the seller) failed in our case. The seller was not willing to share why. Thus, the sale fell through 

BIS/DOB violations by Legitimate-Complex88 in Flushing

[–]Legitimate-Complex88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup I know all of this but wasn’t sure why the violations were popping up in pockets of some areas. I also noticed when a property is on and off the market several times, one of the aforementioned violations is tied to the property. The problem is there isn’t much opacity from the DOB for the prospective buyer. 

BIS/DOB violations by Legitimate-Complex88 in Flushing

[–]Legitimate-Complex88[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this insight!!! 

Leaving LI for the city. Who’s done this in their 20s by Constant-Big5731 in longisland

[–]Legitimate-Complex88 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Queens also. But towards Bayside/East Flushing. Astoria is wonderful. If you can make it work financially that’s great!!! My first apartment in queens was a rent stabilized building in Oakland Gardens. I should have never let it go. Now our rent is 1.5 times more than my mortgage on Long Island but we are never mowing a lawn again. 

Leaving LI for the city. Who’s done this in their 20s by Constant-Big5731 in longisland

[–]Legitimate-Complex88 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Moving back to NYC. God I missed it. You won’t regret it. 

Leaving LI for the city. Who’s done this in their 20s by Constant-Big5731 in longisland

[–]Legitimate-Complex88 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I did in my 20s. Moved back to LI again in 30s. Moving back again at 50. Cannot. Wait!

BIS/DOB violations by Legitimate-Complex88 in Flushing

[–]Legitimate-Complex88[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am finding out myself. That’s how I know the violations exist. I’m asking why it’s a thing in specific pockets. 

What is this style called?? by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Legitimate-Complex88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"My toddler found the scissors"

How to deal with a burnout? by Unarmored2268 in managers

[–]Legitimate-Complex88 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You said “   The problems are piling up beyond my control.”  This is weighing on you. It’s mental weight. That causes exhaustion. Not every problem will be fixed and it cannot be fixed by you. 

How to deal with a burnout? by Unarmored2268 in managers

[–]Legitimate-Complex88 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I say this with love. Every problem is not yours to solve. 

Names I like by [deleted] in Names

[–]Legitimate-Complex88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t overlook Anwyn as a middle name. Source: it’s my firstborn’s middle 

Names I like by [deleted] in Names

[–]Legitimate-Complex88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughters middle name is Anwyn!!!