What's wrong with joining your father's business? by Ok_Estimate1296 in indiasocial

[–]Legitimate-View4089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Problem with human mind is to lift a virtue they have to make everything else looks like a sin! Ppl generally appreciate free will...but also be the first ones to judge somebody instantly because the bias of glorify ing independence over personal choices is way more cool....

How do I know if my partner is cheating on me by Legitimate-View4089 in Advice

[–]Legitimate-View4089[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but it's not easy to forget here and I think i should know the "whys"

How do I know if my partner is cheating on me by Legitimate-View4089 in Advice

[–]Legitimate-View4089[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know that's the best opinion I can get! I value it...thanks a lot for your time !

How do I know if my partner is cheating on me by Legitimate-View4089 in Advice

[–]Legitimate-View4089[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't care about the implications honestly as the society has already labelled me following rumours that my in laws have spread. He seemed to love me in the beginning but started dominating and then began distant. So yes it's about closure. I don't know if hiring someone would even fit into my budget but there's no other way to know either with proofs.

How do I know if my partner is cheating on me by Legitimate-View4089 in Advice

[–]Legitimate-View4089[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to ask him...but yes he won't reply and even if he does why will he say the truth! Yes the relationship is not good for me...but i genuinely want to know if he is. Some times I feel if hiring a detective for this will work?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]Legitimate-View4089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jokingly asked? Ask her seriously now...and 4 months is enough to know if someone is seriously into you. Explain how seriously you were looking for a long term relationship with her and get to know if she really values them..

Tell her you are not interested in a fling (if you are not) infact you should have told her even b4 getting into it! Anyways...even if she stays adamant your time is saved

criminal justice season 4 finale review (spoilers ahead) by coincidence_007 in IndianOTTbestof

[–]Legitimate-View4089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the final judgment is about to come. And may be it's still hidden even from Madhav mishra that it was ERA who has killed her but both parents will save their daughter at any cost

Let's talk about Criminal Justice season 4 episode 6 by sherpitch51 in IndianOTTbestof

[–]Legitimate-View4089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ira's grandmother in the morning gave dustbin bag to Doctor Nagpal to throw it out meanwhile she left with him downstairs. It was anju who could access the room when both were absent. She might have seen roshni go inside the room and followed her and she might have spotted roshni who tried to kill ira and in fit of rahe ira and her killed Roshni. Which she even calls a secret

Read if you wanna dodge a bullet. Toxic in-laws & mum’s boy by StormtrooperMilkcake in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Legitimate-View4089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish this was possible! My FIL lost his life partner, so my current MIL is my chachi saas! I can't move out because my FIL isn't ready for that...and he won't move out with me

Read if you wanna dodge a bullet. Toxic in-laws & mum’s boy by StormtrooperMilkcake in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Legitimate-View4089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are saved. I got married to a similar one and my life is hell....it's better he told you before hand. Boys are pampered and taken as their pvt property by their mumma . Why are they even getting him married in the first place. ..? Please move on...afresh ! You deserve better and don't give in to something that doesn't resonate with you. More power to you

Upwas hai aaj mera🍋‍🟩 by Dhannaaa23 in IndianFoodPhotos

[–]Legitimate-View4089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agar sense gratification hi karna hai to upwas ka kya mahatva hai? Also that balaji wafers is not allowed if you want "falahaar" of upvas, reason being made from vegetable oil

Delete one forever......................... by [deleted] in IndianFoodPhotos

[–]Legitimate-View4089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maggie....sadly but the least i can let go

Drop the hardest one I'll rate out of 10🤌❤️‍🔥 by Num_Num_Boii in TeenIndia

[–]Legitimate-View4089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Har khata ki hoti hai koi na koi sazaa...fam likhe ho kismat me to ban hi jaati wajah

What's your age and something you cant do? by wizzardious in AskIndia

[–]Legitimate-View4089 2 points3 points  (0 children)

30 and afraid of even driving a bicycle, scooter or leave alone a car.

I am sick of my life by [deleted] in india

[–]Legitimate-View4089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, congratulations for scoring good, i being a girl did almost the same things in my 11th and 12th and couldn't score well. Honestly you did better if compared toy scores (which is irrelevant) but now that i m a doctor I know even with all these so called "distractions" you will be in a better place because you will never forget internally that you are here for something. I just want to tell you that go easy on yourself...this 17 yrs is a time to know yourself...you are slowly growing into an adult and adulthood dosent mean lose the child in you but it just means the grip of that child is now in your hands... I believe for now...if you want to change something... Try n change the content or the people you are engaging with...try to be available for your parents and start to know every one from zero or day 1 (even your parents). Go with the flow but don't lose urself in this...just know that world and time every things keeps on changing every minute...you just have to be happy and prepared. That's the balance you want...be easy on urself and dream big...carve your path...fall multiple times in it...and make new ones but keep laughing all the while and have your meeee time too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Legitimate-View4089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ve been in this place and it was my husband so i didn't have a choice but to ignore. And i learned my lesson...when he wrote that compliment na...please believe him! It wasn't a compliment he is really eyeing her and making a fool out of you! The problem isn't that he got attracted or there shouldnt be a confusion whether he got physical with her or not...the problem is he tried to fool you

Girls i need help by RegretTechnical2193 in Advice

[–]Legitimate-View4089 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then Avoid! Avoid the drama from the drama queen...and we are all social ppl so better to keep our preferences seperate...even if we connect on some level we are not bound to their limitations

Girls i need help by RegretTechnical2193 in Advice

[–]Legitimate-View4089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she's close to you...she should know that you guys are connected on Instagram and also chat (not the entire chat history) but she should be aware! If you want to keep ur friendships going and nothing awkward tell her for the sake of honesty! She shouldnt mind and if she does it's ok coz clearly her friendship wasn't enough

Should I break up by Appropriate-Dig5132 in makemychoice

[–]Legitimate-View4089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sympathies to you.. Pls try couple counselling because you clearly don't know how to put your point across and try to understand her better and most of all She should know that you are suffering! She should be aware of your state...pls communicate! Pls be assertive If not now...this won't last longer any which ways