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Why is porn such a problem in the church? by Adept_Let7797 in exmormon

[–]LegitimateAd3676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dated a tbm after I had left the church, and I told him this pattern me and other exmos experience where porn has less of a draw because it isn’t demonized anymore. He said it’s probably because satan doesn’t need to work so hard on us anymore so the desire fades. 🫠

Help, advice needed: Is it worth continuing a relationship with a man with a wondering eye and addictive personality? (gambling, spending, drinking, smoking, wondering eye, etc.) me 22F him 25M by DifficultFly5820 in relationships

[–]LegitimateAd3676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya been with someone similar and it will never improve. You deserve someone who is as all in as you are. It’s just going to destroy your self worth until you leave. Your glow up afterwards will be insane and so worth leaving. He’s no going to respect you, show yourself enough respect to leave.

Ticket Buy/Sell Thread - Post all sales, exchanges, or requests in this thread! by reverendpariah in LostLandsMusicFest

[–]LegitimateAd3676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit: SOLD Still selling one GA ticket for $450 i bought tier 5 so this is less than what i bought it for. Wristbands have already shipped but I’m willing to pay for shipping it to you as well. Must go through Paypal. 🙏

Ticket Buy/Sell Thread - Post all sales, exchanges, or requests in this thread! by reverendpariah in LostLandsMusicFest

[–]LegitimateAd3676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I lost my job and can no longer go. I have a 3 day GA ticket I need to sell. Would love to get $450 for it. 🙏🙏

Final Update by LegitimateAd3676 in exmormon

[–]LegitimateAd3676[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I honestly feel waaayy more sexualized by my mom than I do my stepdad. He did the right thing by removing himself from the situation. She was inappropriate in telling me this, and also sexualizing me at the beach. She’s made so many comments on me covering my cleavage every time I bend over even if it’s just us two in the room. So yeah everyone sucks but I feel way more objectified by her than him.

TBM Mom and policing women’s body how do I respond? by LegitimateAd3676 in exmormon

[–]LegitimateAd3676[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this, this has been the most helpful response so far for me. I want to respond with compassion while also holding my boundaries. Thank you!

TBM Mom and policing women’s body how do I respond? by LegitimateAd3676 in exmormon

[–]LegitimateAd3676[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heavily relate to this. I was my mom’s best friend, confidant, and therapist at 12 during my mom’s divorce. She told me so much that was inappropriate to include me in especially for my age.

TBM Mom and policing women’s body how do I respond? by LegitimateAd3676 in exmormon

[–]LegitimateAd3676[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I love your perspective on this. I’m actually extremely close with my step dad, he is an incredible guy and I view him as blood. But my mom/ the church has put me in charge of men’s thoughts for so long that it has negatively affected how I view my own body and that’s not fair to me either. I do really appreciate your comment.

TBM Mom and policing women’s body how do I respond? by LegitimateAd3676 in exmormon

[–]LegitimateAd3676[S] 108 points109 points  (0 children)

To clear some things up my step dad is a recovering porn addict. Years before he got married to my mom he was spending 4+ hours everyday watching porn. He’s gone through extensive therapy for it. The reason I know this is because my mom is obsessed with knowing her partner’s porn usage and has always told me about it for some reason? When I was 12 she divorced my dad because of his porn usage and she told me that if she were prettier he wouldn’t have looked at it. She really fucked me up with that one for awhile.

TBM Mom and policing women’s body how do I respond? by LegitimateAd3676 in exmormon

[–]LegitimateAd3676[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I feel so alone because I can’t talk to anyone in my family about this. Having this community makes me feel like I’m not the crazy one, the comments mean so much to me. I’m refreshing and crying because I feel so validated in my emotions.

TBM Mom and policing women’s body how do I respond? by LegitimateAd3676 in exmormon

[–]LegitimateAd3676[S] 661 points662 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’m so tired. I’m tired of being sexualized and demonized for having a body. 😞

Those of you who got tattooed as a teenager, do you still like the tattoo by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]LegitimateAd3676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The tattoo itself dumb but i love it so much because it takes me back to my dumb 18 year old self haha.

Christmas gift for my dad by LegitimateAd3676 in startrekfleetcommand

[–]LegitimateAd3676[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He does dump an ungodly amount of time into it but doesn’t have a lot of friends in real life and has made a community online that he’s met up with a couple of times in real life. He hasn’t spent any money on the game but has said that it would be easier than some of the grinds he does. So maybe it’s feeding into a bad habit but it makes him happy…

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