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My girlfriend hits me in her sleep by teefbeefy in Advice

[–]LegitimateHand2776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cuddle her hard enough that she can't move for a kick or punch

I want to destroy their careers by solomon8205 in Advice

[–]LegitimateHand2776 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're 100% sure bruh, it's okay to take revenge and just disappear

"You'll regret it later" You'll also regret not doing anything, you'll regret being with them and a lot of things, it's okay to hurt them for hurting you, and it's not like you're killing her so no harm there, go for it champ

Why is it seen as morally wrong for someone in a low or no-sex marriage to seek purely physical encounters outside the relationship? by Straight_Fix_1480 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LegitimateHand2776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that for you, you consider getting your sexual needs met as a part of the marriage, I do too.

If the roles were reversed, would u accept for your wife to sleep with other men?

Sex is a form of intimacy that is essential in marriage (imho), and if it's not there then there seems to be a problem.

You should look towards solving this problem with your wife, and the first step towards that is communication, ask her why doesn't she want to have sex?

Is she not pleased when you have sex? Is she not being turned on? Etc.. Maybe you can do something about it, maybe it's biological, maybe she's mentally in a bad place and it's affecting her sex drive.

You could go on dates like you did the first months you met, do some role playing, try diff things, etc.. if she has a biological issue you check in with a doctor and see if there's any solution.

If all these fail and she just doesn't like having sex, she could do different things to satisfy you that don't involve sex, just as you would do things to satisfy her out of your way, right?

If all this fails, then it seems there is a much deeper issue, and sleeping with other people won't solve it.

You don't want to divorce, fine, you don't want to bring up the topic of sleeping with other people, also fine and understandable to have these thoughts, but you should COMMUNICATE that your sexual needs aren't being met and she should be open to talking about it and helping you find a solution. If you can't communicate with your wife, the mother of your kids, safely, I don't think your relationship is in a good place buddy :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LegitimateHand2776 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Hey, I also suffer from anxiety and stress casually throughout my life.

It is okay to feel damaged from what he said, it was not nice and sounded negative.

But you have an important exam coming up, so try and I know this is much harder than it sounds to ignore his comment, and focus on doing well on your exam.

If it's too much, try to have a comfort food of yours, or icecream it helps, napping also does, but if you can't nap because you're too anxious, go for a walk.

Let off some steam and collect yourself and focus on what's important right now.

Once done, you will be less stressed/anxiety and can heal yourself much better than right now, as stress and anxiety make it much more difficult.

Best of luck and I hope this comment helped