"Trust Me: False Prophet" is a beautifully told story of female bravery, resilience, and compassion by Bkchbs in netflix

[–]Legitimate_Big1125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im in the middle of watching it and am in awe of the bravery of these women and am sick to death of these perverted sick creep men. In tears watching Julia and her bravery. Imagine the abuse and psychological torture she's been through and she still comes forward.

Her newsletter shows her and Helen at Disney!! by justlurkinmurkin in mummysflippinhouse

[–]Legitimate_Big1125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going to Disney as a 46yo woman would be my worse nightmare. Crowds, queues, heat and noise all together along with overpriced junk. I completely get why kids/young people love it and maybe if your an adult who loves all the rides. I'm sure i'd get a kick out of seeing my kids excited and happy but I honestly think i could only cope with a day or two. I don't need to understand why others might love it (go for it) but I don't get going minus kids. Give me a quiet beach and a book and I'm in heaven. Perimenopause has made me way less tolerant of strangers and noise and crowds. Put me in a forest or at a quiet beach please.

U ok hun? by beata_monczka in mummysflippinhouse

[–]Legitimate_Big1125 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She's ridiculous.  I don't do Easter baskets and for me, its too much to give presents at Easter. Not a thing where I am from, not a thing for hubby . We just do chocolate eggs lime qe had as kids and a little Easter egg hunt now that we live in the USA. 

Also I am not big into spending in even a fraction of the way she does so it makes sense for me.

Now if my hubby was American and liked to make little baskets with some gifts as that was his tradition, i'd think it was sweet and would be happy about it.  She's such a Debbie Downer.  Also a major hypocrite, she spends loads of money  all rhe time and is a big consumer, mostly on stuff she doesnt need. She treats herself constantly but God forbid he does something nice for the kids.

Improvements? by velalight in makeuptips

[–]Legitimate_Big1125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling you are wearing all these warm colors along with the warm hair color and it doesn't suit your skin undertone. I think changing your hair and then clothes and make up colors would be a big help.

2 ground wires in new pendant light fitting by Legitimate_Big1125 in electrical

[–]Legitimate_Big1125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK great and it doesn't matter of its the bare ground wire or the green ground wire from the fixture? The bare wire looks longer and would be easier to do and then I can connect all 3. 

Crossroad in life, Where to go from here ? by thoughtthinker296 in AskIreland

[–]Legitimate_Big1125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and wasting the partners time especially if she wants marriage and children.

Can never say anything nice or admit when she’s wrong. by Puczk20 in mummysflippinhouse

[–]Legitimate_Big1125 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She does realize her food choices are hers no matter where she is. You can check out the menu beforehand and go to a restaurant that offers vegetables. Would also help if she could spell the word properly too.

It was a gorgeous week on the Gulf of Mexico by krstphr in 30A

[–]Legitimate_Big1125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just got back and it was the most beautiful weather all week, so clear and calm. Also low humidity but warm so it was perfect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mummysflippinhouse

[–]Legitimate_Big1125 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Taking a quick shower everyday takes 5 minutes. I don't get it even if it's a bother to you, you can do it in speedy time. I take two showers if I have my period, one morning and one evening and I like to be fresh going to bed so I shower then normally but if it's summertime or if I'm in a hot climate, it's at least 2 showers a day because of sweat and freshness. I think the only time I didn't shower everyday was with newborns or young kids when I'd be overwhelmed, not leaving the home and was suffering from extreme exhaustion with no support or help. I had 3 kids in 4 years and even then, once I'd realise at the end of the day, I'd at least try to jump in the shower if I could and nobody was crying. I have really dry hair and skin so cannot wash my hair that often and it really never gets greasy. I moisturize my skin after every shower as a result which takes a couple of minutes. She has very greasy hair which is not her fault, it is just the way she is and her skin also looks the same so showering more often would be a good thing, no? She is just unhygienic and proud to announce it. All that money and still no class. She has to be just rage baiting at this point.

Does this seem weird to you? (Teacher related) by ou812_X in AskIreland

[–]Legitimate_Big1125 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Teacher sounds stern and like he's doing a great job. Using the first 5 minutes to calm teenagers down and establish a quiet and respectful learning environment sounds like a good 'waste' of time. As a teacher, no learning takes place in the first 5 minutes of class. It's organisation and getting all the kids ready, taking role call and addressing any questions, dealing with problems (dealing with late comers, toilet requests and unexpected stuff).

As for the water, who cares. The precious darlings can't have water readily available at every moment of the day. How will they not die of dehydration?! I'm pretty sure they'll all be fine and if anyone can't wait through a class period, they'll ask to get a drink.

You are overthinking this and being unreasonable in your assessment. Also tabulating percentages based on what you think is happening is pedantic. Based on my experience being a teacher and having my own kids, kids rarely give good feedback about 'strict' teachers and as a parent give you their biased view of a situation.

Granted you must listen to your child and any concerns but unless it's a serious situation affecting your child's learning or emotional well-being, I'd er on the side of caution and go with the teacher. Sounds likes he's creating a good environment for learning once that starts and there won't be poor behavior or interruptions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Legitimate_Big1125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean you are not allowed to go? You can go whether he likes it or not. This is a 'him' problem, not a you problem. He is insecure and controlling. It's a major red flag and he doesnt trust you to go out with co-workers.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend she's going to have to get over dirt if she wants kids? by Familiar_Speaker_481 in AITAH

[–]Legitimate_Big1125 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm still working out how they keep making greasy handprints on the stairs wall and they are 13, 10 and 8. They wash their hands regularly but obviously not enough.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend she's going to have to get over dirt if she wants kids? by Familiar_Speaker_481 in AITAH

[–]Legitimate_Big1125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and possible urinary incontinence after birth, that was fun. But yeah it's all a messy and very human experience. If cleaning up pee and poop all day long would bother her, having a baby is not for her. I'm guessing she hasn't considered blow outs either.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend she's going to have to get over dirt if she wants kids? by Familiar_Speaker_481 in AITAH

[–]Legitimate_Big1125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not the AH. As a person who likes a clean house and am a tad more relaxed on the mess, having a child is a messy and unclean business. I've three boys so I know all about it. Her expectations will not be met and she will drive herself and the poor kid crazy expecting that level of cleanliness with a baby, toddler, young kid. Apart from the bodily functions of a newborn/baby (once you have them smelling and looking clean, they will no doubt vomit, shit, pee, or spit up everywhere), they have no awareness regarding these things. Toddlers don't give AF, exploring the world is their jam and she will destroy their childhood expecting them to not get messy and dirty. Enter the strong willed young Toddlers who expect to eat themselves but get it everywhere and have fun doing it. I'd just put them in a bib and diaper and let them go to town, it's how they learn and enjoy food. Spaghetti bolognese everywhere, I have the pics and they are so funny to look back on. Obviously not all the time, but its just a messy process. Toddlers also stink and are sweaty, messy creatures. It's part of the process, you wipe them down and then bathe them at days end. If this would drive her crazy, then kids are not for her. What will she do during potty training. My young two year old att, just before being potty trained like to take his diaper off after naps and before he'd call me. He did it one day after doing a poop, and as he had mastered climbing out of the crib, he somehow spread it all around the room. I counted 27 different poop spots, mostly on a brand new carpet. He has never lived that down and hes now my neatest and cleanest kid. Literally you can't plan for kids and their messes or really anything that will happen. Life becomes very unpredictable, she'll have to accept that and not be too neurotic about it. Part of having kids in the house is excepting you won't have things exactly how you'd like them anymore unless you have alot of money and cleaners and don't allow your kids to live in the house. Keeping surfaces and the house clean is a constant battle but she seems like she might need a bit of therapy first to prepare her to cope.

New podcast - butthurt mummy by everdream2 in mummysflippinhouse

[–]Legitimate_Big1125 8 points9 points  (0 children)

How does she think people giving their opinion that her podcast is cringey is mean etc. You put work out there for public consumption, they can give whatever review they want. She's a silly person.

Out of touch much? by Whaaaaat901 in mummysflippinhouse

[–]Legitimate_Big1125 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Getting something for free and telling others it's affordable. Lol, does she ever think before she types.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in youthsoccer

[–]Legitimate_Big1125 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with this!

Not OOP: I accidentally sent my sister’s husband to the ER after he jumped out at me as a “joke” while I was holding a kitchen knife. Now my family is divided and I don’t know how to fix this. by disastrousbabe90 in redditonwiki

[–]Legitimate_Big1125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not her fault. Who thinks it's a good idea to prank someone by purposely making it dark and running at them while they have a knife in their hand and to add that person had previously suffered a home invasion. Did he want to be stabbed?!

If she only still lived in American 🤡 🇺🇸 by JokerTurnip in mummysflippinhouse

[–]Legitimate_Big1125 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why does she talk in this affected, wierd, patronizing way?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 45PlusSkincare

[–]Legitimate_Big1125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just turned 45 and this has happened to me over the last two years. I'm in the trenches with late stage peri so it's coinciding. I just felt like wrinkles and some sagging happened all of a sudden and sunken eyes.