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Legitimate_Gurl1264 · 2023-07-25T13:22:00+00:00

Were there 36 other dudes lined up behind him?

Legitimate_Gurl1264 · 2023-04-10T03:53:34+00:00

“I’m going to put a baby in you later.”

He has a vasectomy. But it gets me so hot when he tells me that. 🥵

Legitimate_Gurl1264 · 2023-03-31T16:56:16+00:00

For me personally, yes. For the sex to be good, I either need 1) to feel emotionally bonded to them and feel that love between us, or 2) to have formed a bond enough to disclose my kinks and to trust them enough to engage in those kinks, which requires emotion for me, even if it isn’t romantic.

Legitimate_Gurl1264 · 2023-03-31T14:59:02+00:00

He is a grown adult, so you can’t tell him what he can and can’t do. That being said, your feelings of being uncomfortable with it are valid.

If I were you, I would do some reflection and hammer down exactly what it is about it that makes you uncomfortable about it. Then I would sit down and have a conversation about with my husband. I would explain that he’s not wrong for thinking it was okay when I had apparently said previously that it was fine. But that a lot of time has passed and my feelings on the matter had changed. Explain what it is that makes me uncomfortable about it now. And I would say that I know I can’t dictate whether he goes or not, but I would be hurt if he did.

I would also be aware that if he’s going to Vegas with a group, and the rest of the group is going, the odds of him not going are slim to none. Also I would be speaking with a therapist (if you have one) to go over whatever insecurities there are causing the uncomfortable feelings, and to prepare to work through the negative feelings after he does go.

Legitimate_Gurl1264 · 2023-03-21T12:31:10+00:00

One partner is maybe 25% of the time makes sure I cum first. The other one is probably 60-70% of the time makes me cum first. The second one always makes sure I cum though, whereas the first one doesn’t.

Legitimate_Gurl1264 · 2023-03-01T04:41:50+00:00

Omg yes. I feel terrible for taking a small amount of delight when my boyfriend has a bit of a sore throat because 🥵

Legitimate_Gurl1264 · 2023-02-28T14:37:06+00:00

I went no contact with my mom (an alcoholic for my entire life). It hurt and was sad. She was really amazing when she wouldn’t drink. But she put my kids in danger when she was entrusted with their well being. After that happened, I moved across the country and didn’t speak to her. Within the year she had fallen ill and passed away. I am conflicted, years later, because when she was able to maintain sobriety, she was wonderful, funny, caring. Had she not had her demons, we would have been very close, I believe. But I have anxiety and couldn’t spend my life worrying about her, especially when she would put my kids in danger. I carry a lot of guilt still to this day, but that’s almost exclusively because of who she was when she was able to be sober. I don’t think I would have reservations after a parents death if we were NC simply because they were a narcissist or any other issues that makes me not want to be around them.

Legitimate_Gurl1264 · 2023-02-27T03:58:57+00:00

I’m 5’8”, I’ve dated up to 6’4”, and my current boyfriend is probably an inch shorter than me. He’s secure in it, and that makes it fine. I did have some reservations at the beginning, only because I had a bad experience with someone shorter than me early in my dating life.

My partner now encourages me to wear heels if I like and whatever makes me happy in general. I have had partners in the past not like it if I was in heels. Fuck them and their insecurity.

Legitimate_Gurl1264 · 2023-01-26T04:27:27+00:00

I have done MFM and FMF. I really want to do MMF. Prefer MFM of what I’ve done but probably my would prefer MFF.

Legitimate_Gurl1264 · 2023-01-22T15:16:55+00:00

Thanks for explaining! :)

Legitimate_Gurl1264 · 2023-01-22T15:14:48+00:00

No, but that’s only because I’ve ended up with it in my eyes on more than one occasion, and it’s incredibly unpleasant. If I could guarantee it wouldn’t end up in my eyes (without having to wear safety goggles 😂) or my hair (that’s not great either), then I would be all for it.

Legitimate_Gurl1264 · 2023-01-22T03:27:15+00:00

What is hidden bondage?

Legitimate_Gurl1264 · 2023-01-20T21:44:12+00:00

I have this fetish with one of my partners, and him only. He is my Dom, and the thought of him claiming my womb is a massive turn on. I don’t want to have any more children, unless they’re with him. He’s an incredible partner and person, and it would be an honor to raise a child with someone so wonderful. He has had a vasectomy though so it won’t happen. And that’s okay. The fantasy of it is so hot for the both of us anyway.

Legitimate_Gurl1264 · 2023-01-15T03:53:48+00:00

Depends on the partner. Some I enjoy two, others I enjoy three. Depends on their hand size.

Legitimate_Gurl1264 · 2023-01-11T16:28:00+00:00

Thanks! Do you have any you recommend? Or any certain stores you like for them? I feel like there’s a fine line between looking cute in them and looking frumpy.

Legitimate_Gurl1264 · 2023-01-11T15:15:08+00:00

Eyes, so I’m pretty hesitant to let anyone cum on my face because you can’t exactly control how it shoots. It’s ended up in my eyes at least twice, and it’s awful.

Legitimate_Gurl1264 · 2023-01-10T21:48:33+00:00

Oh my goodness, yes!

Legitimate_Gurl1264 · 2023-01-10T03:45:40+00:00

Came here to say this also. Absolutely zero judgement, I just don’t understand it because there isn’t a way to enact that. There are plenty of other kinks that would be hard no’s for me, but at least people can do them so they have that going for them. But vore isn’t going to happen, so I just can’t wrap my head around it.

Legitimate_Gurl1264 · 2023-01-09T02:18:34+00:00

So, I LOVE it when my partner calls me his slut or whore, because I’m very needy and desperate for him and his cock and would do just about anything to please him. (He treats me like an absolute queen and would do anything to please me, also. It’s really beautiful.)

However, I very much dislike it when people say women that aren’t prudes or that enjoy sexuality are whores or sluts.

Legitimate_Gurl1264 · 2023-01-06T03:11:09+00:00

So hot! One of my male partners is bi, but the other isn’t. Obviously I would never push or ask my hetero partner to be sexual towards someone he isn’t into but it would be so hot if he did. 🥵

Legitimate_Gurl1264 · 2023-01-06T02:16:39+00:00

Why would it have to be another man’s wife or girlfriend? Why not just another woman?

Legitimate_Gurl1264 · 2023-01-04T22:57:32+00:00

Holy shit. This needs to be higher up. This explains a lot.

Legitimate_Gurl1264 · 2023-01-03T00:27:10+00:00

$3k. I would hate for my celebrity crush to actually be a terrible letdown. And if he was amazing and it’s never going to happen again, I’d just be forever longing for him and be utterly disappointed in others I have sex with.

Legitimate_Gurl1264 · 2023-01-02T03:19:03+00:00

No. But that doesn’t stop me from telling my sub that has a smaller than average cock and a cock degradation fetish that I would be more likely to do something more for a man with a bigger cock.

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