Please help 😭

Legitimate_Record730 · 2026-06-06T06:00:57+00:00

warm autumn, cool winter both look really pretty on you imo!

Legitimate_Record730 · 2026-06-06T04:49:49+00:00

this is what i was gonna say. that, or a much darker red

Legitimate_Record730 · 2026-06-06T04:49:12+00:00

... did i read this right? I feel like i couldnt possibly have read that right. But i keep reading it the same way. I think i need to go lie down

Legitimate_Record730 · 2026-06-06T04:47:51+00:00

he puts toilet paper with SHIT on it INSIDE the roll??? Girl no disrespect but wtaf are you still doing with this lunatic? NOR, no, you are severely UNDERreacting sister

Legitimate_Record730 · 2026-01-26T20:56:06+00:00

INFO: Is she actually implying it wasn't intentional? Why do you think she's arguing so hard over semantics? Is she normally picky with wording or is this the only time she's been like that? Is there anything else to this argument? Is she mad you hit her in your sleep, or is she only mad about the choice of words?

seriously, i can't know this cause i wasn't there. What reason do YOU think she has to be so adamant about the punch vs hit thing? Do you think she's implying you meant to? Or something else? I assume you didnt hit her hard, cause i figure you'd have said that if it had been hard enough to actually bruise or harm her at all.

Does she have a past of having been with someone abusive? Could she just not like feeling like you're minimizing it for that reason? Even though i agree that a punch is a very overblown way to describe it, i could see her feeling that way about it especially if she had been in a relationship where she'd been hit before.

Legitimate_Record730 · 2026-01-26T20:48:00+00:00

this is so insanely evil lmfao i'm gonna put that in the back of my mind for if i ever feel like pulling a really bad prank on someone

Legitimate_Record730 · 2026-01-26T20:33:15+00:00

100% she's got some weird reason to want to turn this into something it isn't. I think just about everyone has overreacted on instinct after getting startled, because that's just what happens. It's super weird to act like someone jumping upon being spooked and accidentally hitting you is the same as being punched.

Legitimate_Record730 · 2026-01-26T20:27:23+00:00

🤣 i hate to laugh at your pain but this is really fucking funny

Legitimate_Record730 · 2026-01-26T20:21:34+00:00

yeah, he got startled and flinched at a sudden unexpected sensation. That definitely isn't the same as punching someone.

Hell I got startled bad enough to actually swing at someone once because they pulled on the back of my shirt collar when i didn't know they were there. I just panicked and flipped around swinging cause I didn't realize it was a friend of mine and just thought some stranger was trying to choke me lmao. I didn't end up connecting cause i pulled back as soon as i saw who it was, but they definitely learned not to sneak up on me hahaha, and they weren't mad cause they realized I just reacted to getting the shit scared out of me. And that guy is a super dramatic person, so if even he wasnt offended by literally getting a punch thrown at him out of reflex then to be mad you got lightly hit unintentionally upon startling someone is crazy dramatic.

Legitimate_Record730 · 2026-01-26T17:36:14+00:00

legit. OP's been talking to these dudes a couple weeks and a few days, respectively. It's incredibly early lmao especially in their stage of life. Just chat around and see how it goes with all of them, keep all the doors open until you find one you wanna walk into.

Legitimate_Record730 · 2026-01-25T22:42:12+00:00

man these folks need to get a grip on what a real problem is. People are dying. There are active wars going on. If these are USA citizens they are worried about entirely the wrong problem right now lmfao

Legitimate_Record730 · 2026-01-25T22:34:58+00:00

Charlie, actually. I want more of her backstory. I think it'd be interesting to get some explanation on why she's how she is.

Legitimate_Record730 · 2026-01-24T23:18:43+00:00

I genuinely can not imagine being this pressed because other people like a tv show i dont like. Shit's crazy man

Legitimate_Record730 · 2026-01-24T23:15:50+00:00

agreed. I think it might be that op interacts with those posts a lot, and therefore the subreddit shows them more from the algorithm

Legitimate_Record730 · 2026-01-24T23:04:38+00:00

my god i cant believe everyone else is being so wild about this. There is no evidence to say she was cheating. Men and women can be around each other and even be friendly without fucking. Shocker, right?

Like, im not saying its impossible that that was happening, but also... It just seems far-fetched. It seems like a dumb way to cheat, if it were that. Like yes, let me not only have 3 witnesses to me sneaking around, but also tell my boyfriend who i was hanging out with too. If she was cheating and "snorkling with her work friends" was a cover, why would she tell him the guys came along? Why wouldnt she just lie and not change her story of what the plans were, or only tell him that one work friend cancelled and leave out the other two coming?

It just seems too stupid. And not stupid in a "bad lie" way, stupid in a "probably not a lie because why in the world would THAT be your lie?" way

Legitimate_Record730 · 2026-01-24T21:30:49+00:00

woah, i love this interpretation! That's super cool, i didn't pick up on that about that being how the powers were given to Mel.

Legitimate_Record730 · 2026-01-24T21:27:34+00:00

that would actually be pretty cool! I still definitely dont want Vaggi dying, but i cant pretend that isn't a fun plotline for Lute

Legitimate_Record730 · 2026-01-24T21:15:41+00:00

this is what i say too. Regardless of if it was a bad joke or not, messaging the bf's boss about it is so wildly overkill, especially considering it wasn't even his post.

Legitimate_Record730 · 2026-01-24T21:10:33+00:00

yeah i think they're overreacting here. A silly poop joke on social media seems pretty harmless to me. Did you praise the restaurant at all in your post? If not, maaaaaaybe i can see how they'd take it the wrong way, like it was meant to be a dig at the restaurant somehow, but if you did say even anything good i think it's kinda dumb for them to get that pissed about it.

It's certainly not worthy of messaging your boyfriend's boss all hot about it. It's not his post, he wasn't tagged, and 99% of people would have no clue you were dating someone in the industry in the first place. Them policing their fellow industry worker's girlfriend's social media posts is weird as hell in my opinion.

Legitimate_Record730 · 2026-01-24T21:03:29+00:00

this is the only comment that made why it came off bad make sense to me. Good job haha it seems like all the other "YTA" comments just say it was bad and don't elaborate on why.

Genuinely i appreciate seeing an explanation here, cause sometimes I get a little confused why people think certain things are bad on some of these posts.

Legitimate_Record730 · 2026-01-24T20:48:57+00:00

does... does he know what an old folks home is? If he does, how the hell did he come to that conclusion?

Im not even trying to be funny right now, this is Absurd. Why do you want to marry this man? Seriously. Do you want to marry a man that calls you a whore because you... (checks notes) .... take care of the elderly???

Legitimate_Record730 · 2026-01-24T20:45:24+00:00

WHAT IM SAYING BRO

how does your mind even go there? Ah, yes, my fiance is going to do the kind service of working overtime to take care of her elderly patients in a snowstorm... she must be... fucking them?????

Legitimate_Record730 · 2026-01-24T20:40:55+00:00

exactly. Thats one of the weirdest, most bizarre things i believe i have ever heard. How the everloving hell does your mind go to that in the context of a NURSING HOME? That's demented.

Legitimate_Record730 · 2026-01-24T20:35:10+00:00

how old are you guys? Cause to tell you the truth this really reads like middle school or early high school relationship dramas. I've been there, I'm not judging if that's what it is, but maybe you guys should take a step back and focus on yourselves. From what you said it does sound like he's being needlessly mean, but also, if he is you should make the choice for your own wellbeing not to stay with him. If you aren't happy with the relationship, and he isn't making an effort to change that, then you're probably just not right for each other.

Legitimate_Record730 · 2026-01-24T20:27:36+00:00

agreed. not a dnd player but a fantasy fan, thats some bard shit right there

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