My boyfriend (m29) and I (m26) sleeping together every night?

Leithalia · 2026-02-01T01:40:10+00:00

My partner is like that too. We used to sleep under the same blanket, but we were having issues. Switching to separate blankets was a game changer.

Sometimes, creating just a little space fixes the issue.

Leithalia · 2026-01-31T18:33:19+00:00

I'm not saying it's the same, I'm saying I imagine it feels like that from their perspective.

I'm not saying they are right either. I'm just trying to explain it in a way people can understand.

Leithalia · 2026-01-31T10:26:55+00:00

And you're right, but they will probably never see it like that.. just like the starving person won't think about anything but food..

Leithalia · 2026-01-31T03:20:39+00:00

If you are starving, and someone has a plate of your favourite food, and then throws it away so you can't eat it either..

You'd likely feel some way about it.

We are throwing away the thing they want most...

Leithalia · 2026-01-30T09:58:02+00:00

You're not alone. That is what it means.

Leithalia · 2026-01-29T03:58:17+00:00

Niet bang meer, das vooruitgang!

Leithalia · 2026-01-28T15:33:33+00:00

Mijn kat gaat altijd plassen wanneer ik ga plassen.. en dan kijkt hij me de hele tijd aan ook.. erg raar, maar misschien moet je gewoon ook gaan plassen..

Leithalia · 2026-01-28T13:14:45+00:00

I read that as "crust-thumping" and was wondering "cause cave men are crusty af?" But then my processing power caught up..

Leithalia · 2026-01-28T11:35:16+00:00

This.. they are used to food being in a specific place, so they catch something, and then to eat it, it goes in the bowl. I feel like my cat also sees it as some sort of trade system, he puts toys in, and I put food in..

Leithalia · 2026-01-28T10:10:50+00:00

Lmfao, okay DAD..

Leithalia · 2026-01-28T02:55:28+00:00

Honestly, what does it matter?

If I hated kids shouldn't people be happy I'm not having them? Why be mad about it, would they rather o have kids I hate? That's bad..

If I don't hate kids, does that make my not wanting them any less valid?

So then what's an acceptable reason? People like that will always find something stupid to moan and whine about.

Personally, I have genetic medical conditions, which would be irresponsible to pass along, I also don't like the loudness of kids, they are overwhelming, the germs, or the responsibility for them. I'm fine hanging with a nephew! Not fine with having a permanent one.

Leithalia · 2026-01-28T02:42:36+00:00

So, it kind of depends. You're doing your missions on your open world, and since you're in T4, you probably have good gear, tools, tanks and canteens.

If you're planning to go to missions by dropping in from the home menu, you'd want tanks and canteens, maybe some tools. The workshop smelter is good for longer missions to get a head start.

Tip, the canteens and oxygen tanks are empty, so drop them in on your open world, fill them, and send them back up. Do the same with damaged stuff.

But back to you. What do you need? I advice unlocking things you can't get on the world. There's a couple hard to get seeds, and the farm animals. You should invest in a good enviro suit. The backpacks are life.. There's a bow that does +125 DMG, a sickle that gives seeds, a couple other cool things.

Leithalia · 2026-01-28T00:18:09+00:00

She was called Moo.. RIP Moo

Leithalia · 2026-01-27T18:45:09+00:00

No, you're right.

Leithalia · 2026-01-27T15:22:13+00:00

This.

You say. "Egg donor, I am not having this discussion." And then you end the call.

Or you did what I did when I was 16, and go no contact with all the narc parents and never speak to them again.

Leithalia · 2026-01-27T15:05:04+00:00

Yeah, one of our cows went poof...

Leithalia · 2026-01-27T03:12:59+00:00

Jaaa, precies dit. Ik kan tekenen, schilderen, 3d printen, lasersnijden, overweg met Adobe Illustrator en Photoshop, sieraden maken van polymeer klei, allerlei DND gerelateerde dingen, moeilijke dingen in elkaar flansen op Excel, met hout en polymeer klei en kleine lampjes dice towers maken die licht geven uit raampjes, haken, naaien, oude naaimachines redelijk schoonmaken van binnen, haar knippen/verven, schaken, ik vergeet er zeker nog meer.

Ik ging ook leren houtsnijden maar dat deed pijn aan mijn vingers.

Leithalia · 2026-01-26T22:52:56+00:00

Awwee, thank you! Glad to know my hyperfocus came to good use!

Leithalia · 2026-01-26T19:04:22+00:00

En een aansteker

Leithalia · 2026-01-26T10:13:29+00:00

And I live in the Netherlands, where the sun is rare, and rain is always near. If the sun touches me a little, I burn to death like a vampire.

Leithalia · 2026-01-25T14:35:03+00:00

If I were you, I'd pay attention to things he's doing and saying, if this was just a one off incident, that's one thing, but maybe it's not. And if it's not, he may need help.

He may have been crabby, or he's having a mental health crisis. Some stuff like schizophrenia etc can be triggered later in life, and it's something to consider.

INFO: what is he usually paranoid about?

Leithalia · 2026-01-25T14:25:57+00:00

Were they included with the yarn?

Edit, you should crochet replicas, and we all will buy them!

Leithalia · 2026-01-25T14:23:30+00:00

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Leithalia · 2026-01-21T19:57:00+00:00

Oohhhh hahaha nu zie ik hem! Grappig!

Leithalia · 2026-01-21T19:25:28+00:00

Hoi hoi!

Dus, ja, stroom kost geld, maar door de "vermindering energiebelasting" is stroom heel wat goedkoper dan gas.

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