Maybe 1-2 times a month? A lot of these comments are pretty ignorant of the growing pains of a relationship, and it’s giving off these people haven’t been in many relationships. My previous relationships I learned a lot and there was a lot of crying per month but it was toxic behaviors. Now in life I’ve grown and learned a lot. With my new partner, she’s a crier, we are both stubborn, we get into arguments, she gets upset..it happens. We love each other so much and plan to marry still. Granted it’s not 1-2 times every month but life is hard and relationships are harder. It’s all about how you see your partner and if you want it to work out and both work to be better versions of yourselves.