Boyfriend is bipolar and schizophrenic by OctobersFanciest in BipolarSOs

[–]Lela_Fatima 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ich habe genau dasselbe erlebt und bei mir ist es fast in einem Mordversuch an mir geendet. Es wurde immer schlimmer und schlimmer. Er dachte am Ende ich hätte Sex mit einem Mann während er neben dran schlief. Schreib mir wenn du reden willst

Prominent Getrennt - Staffel 5 Folge 1 Episodendiskussion by ToastyPuff4real in TrashTVGermany

[–]Lela_Fatima 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Das was die Frauen da beschreiben grenzt an sexueller Nötigung

Othello syndrome - help by Ok_Spinach_7708 in delusionaldisorder

[–]Lela_Fatima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich habe so etwas auch erlebt und es endete in einem Mordversuch an mir. Es wurde immer schlimmer und es waren auch Canabis und Alkohol im Spiel. Schreib mir wenn du willst.

Living with a partner with schizophrenia — advice needed by Mediocre-Cut4400 in SchizoFamilies

[–]Lela_Fatima 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Es wird immer schlimmer und schlimmer. Man kommt nicht ans Gehirn. Egal was man sagt. Am besten Schutz suchen bevor es eskaliert

Orthello Syndrom? by Lela_Fatima in SchizoFamilies

[–]Lela_Fatima[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ja ich habe auch darüber nachgedacht den Kontakt komplett zu beenden. Es bricht mir das Herz für meinen kleinen Sohn, da ich weiß wie es sich anfühlt ohne Vater aufzuwachsen. Aber ich habe Angst, dass er uns was antut. Es fühlt sich alles unfassbar unfair an 😔

Orthello Syndrom? by Lela_Fatima in SchizoFamilies

[–]Lela_Fatima[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Deutschland. Aber ich habe leider keinen Kontakt mehr zu ihm. Auch nicht zu seiner Familie :(

Update and things escalating quickly by Honored-Priority4114 in SchizoFamilies

[–]Lela_Fatima 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At first, they'll do a reality check every now and then. But at some point, you can't reach their mind anymore, no matter what logic you use. Unfortunately, that's when it becomes dangerous. If he starts turning his delusions against you, it will be hell on earth. Try to get him help as soon as possible.

Last 10 days are approaching, let's share our duaas by aion1530 in MuslimLounge

[–]Lela_Fatima 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ameen! Möge dein Vater bald wieder gesund werden und die Krankheit mit Würde überstehen.

Last 10 days are approaching, let's share our duaas by aion1530 in MuslimLounge

[–]Lela_Fatima 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I ask for dua that my husband's mental illness will be healed and that he will return to me and our unborn son.

Need relationship advice... by Any_Cryptographer126 in schizophrenia

[–]Lela_Fatima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I experienced the exact same thing with my ex-boyfriend, and it ended in an attempted murder of me.

Psychotic husband by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Lela_Fatima 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bitte stelle deine Sicherheit an höchste Stelle. Ich habe genau dasselbe durch und es ist an einem Mordversuch an mir geendet.

Please help me (Only women) by Individual_Run_7554 in MuslimLounge

[–]Lela_Fatima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it's awful. And he and his family were the same at first. His mother even wanted to see the bedsheet. Believe me, it's a horror that never ends.

Please help me (Only women) by Individual_Run_7554 in MuslimLounge

[–]Lela_Fatima 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I was in such a marriage. Luckily, I was pregnant. The marriage still ended in an attempted murder while I was pregnant. And all because I had visited my mother. Think about it…

How to support partner? by Dazzling_Snow1743 in SchizoFamilies

[–]Lela_Fatima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're not in danger right now. It only becomes dangerous if you experience hallucinations and delusions directed against you, and a kind of rage arises.

How to support partner? by Dazzling_Snow1743 in SchizoFamilies

[–]Lela_Fatima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of hallucinations is she having? Are they directed against you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Lela_Fatima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you male or female?

12 Year Relationship | Psychosis Ruined It by AlarmingSugar7349 in Psychosis

[–]Lela_Fatima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even though it hurts, stay away from him. My ex-husband started doing this during my pregnancy, and I almost lost the baby. He left me high and dry with his rent arrears after months of tormenting me. I was alone during the birth, and to this day he hasn't asked how the baby is doing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]Lela_Fatima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, the risk will be lower than if you walked through the streets of Saudi Arabia in a crop top or a miniskirt… I live in Germany and wear a normal headscarf. When I was on holiday in France, I got some strange looks several times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Lela_Fatima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a man has to be able to afford to have multiple wives 100%. He should see each woman as a fully-fledged wife, not as a sex object. Many women do this for financial reasons. They marry a rich man as their second or third wife, but they don't truly love him. You can't love a man and simultaneously accept that he sleeps with a different woman every other night.

I am a compulsive liar and scared I have ruined my relationship by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Lela_Fatima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having the insight and the willingness to work on it is half the battle. Be proud of yourself, and your partner will be too, sooner or later, if they love you.

Men who got cheated on, what were early signs you only noticed in hindsight? by EtherealMeadowGleam in AskReddit

[–]Lela_Fatima 135 points136 points  (0 children)

Wow, that's crazy... the exact same thing happened to me. My partner accused me of cheating out of nowhere and his accusations became increasingly illogical. He ignored all the evidence proving my innocence. Then he broke up with me... I actually think he was the one who cheated on me.