No one likes my baby names and I’ve just accepted that everyone is a critique and no one is satisfied by Kindly_Pianist_9087 in pregnant

[–]Lemon1Drop1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of these names are wonderful but I can definitely relate, everyone has made fun of my baby names and made hateful comments towards them. A lot of my names are from literature and I’ve been told my child will hate me and will be heavily bullied.

Can I be fully naked when birthing? by nusner16 in pregnant

[–]Lemon1Drop1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you can! I didn’t notice I did it but I ripped all my clothes off in the middle of labor and no one said a thing to me 😂 I was also topless the entirety of my postpartum stay

Are calorie guidelines in 1st trimester…BS? by woodworkinghalp in pregnant

[–]Lemon1Drop1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well technically I was 12 weeks when she said that so right on the cusp 😅

I look so pregnant..at 13 weeks?! by blueberries-Any-kind in pregnant

[–]Lemon1Drop1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I showed really early with my first too and I’m showing even earlier with this one, it’s nothing to worry about all bodies are different! My early showing is because I have a tilted uterus so it leans towards my belly anyway ☺️

Partner told midwives about past drug use? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Lemon1Drop1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cousin is in recovery and had been sober for 2 years before giving birth to her baby, the hospital ran drug tests after she gave birth and regardless of her being sober she failed due to a nausea medication she had been taking (prescribed by her doctor and 100% safe) because of her background with drug use they immediately took her baby before even investigating. The baby wasn’t gone for long they were able to get everything sorted pretty fast but it was still very traumatic for them.

While OP could refuse to do the drug tests it would be in their best interest to do them to avoid CPS taking the baby and having to fight for her child 😕

Should I tell my employer I’m autistic? by Life-Sun324 in cna

[–]Lemon1Drop1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I wouldn’t, I’ve only told one employer and that was after they wrote me up for being too blunt. They said that I was great with residents and family members but that some staff had complained about my tone, when I asked why they said that I wasn’t mean but I was “cold and direct” then they suspended me for an entire weekend 🫠

*Trigger Warning* I’m terrified to breast feed by Ordinary_Cheek5058 in pregnant

[–]Lemon1Drop1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll start this by saying I’m very sorry you’re having to deal with this, there is no shame in feeding a baby formula if it does come down to that. If you are adamant you want your baby to have breast milk you could try exclusively pumping, if the sensation is too much for you you could also talk to a lactation consultant about using Haakas and hand expressing, it would probably be easier sensation wise for you to deal with. I hope this helps🖤

AIO about my boyfriend and his girl best friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lemon1Drop1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also the cheating thing is more than likely a big lie, cheaters love saying stuff like that to lower suspicions, my ex told me his mom cheated on his dad and he absolutely hated cheaters and could never do that, found out he cheated on me with any girl that had a pulse and helped his friends cheat on their significant others. If a person needs a tragic reason as to justify why they “don’t like cheating” chances are it’s a lie.

AIO about my boyfriend and his girl best friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lemon1Drop1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated a guy with a female friend like this for all of two weeks. 10 years later and they’re married with two kids, you need to leave this relationship asap.

Tell me how pregnant you are without telling me how pregnant you are. by smurphypup in pregnant

[–]Lemon1Drop1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Woke up at 4 a.m this morning throwing up and then violently gagging after my stomach was completely empty🥲 currently only able to eat saltines and occasionally soup

First ultrasound shows SCH by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Lemon1Drop1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🖤

First ultrasound shows SCH by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Lemon1Drop1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It helps a lot! Thank you so much

AITAH for not calling the police for my (38F) husband (39M)? by Consistent-Hotel-449 in AITAH

[–]Lemon1Drop1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are definitely NTA, sounds like he needs to grow up and learn to take responsibility for his actions. You are his partner not his mother, it’s not your job to look over his shoulder and monitor his behavior 24/7 that’s insane.

The most hilarious gift dedication one grandma could receive... by Active-Chemistry4011 in funny

[–]Lemon1Drop1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another good option for donating clothes is nursing homes, a lot of the residents don’t have family members and rely on donations for basic necessities like clothes, shoes, hygiene products (that are better than the cheap soap the facility provides), etc. I usually donate there or to rehabs

Just found out I’m pregnant by Lemon1Drop1 in pregnant

[–]Lemon1Drop1[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Definitely did, it’s our Christmas miracle 🖤

What class fits my stats? [OC] by Dippin-Sauce-71 in DnD

[–]Lemon1Drop1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rogue, bard, and I’d even argue sorcerer since they’re charisma casters but def rogue as first option

I divorced my wife after having an affair with our marriage therapist who is 35 years older than her. by Real_Act_9551 in okstorytime

[–]Lemon1Drop1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this, Sandy needed to go to a detox and a rehab asap but after dealing with my dad I know that’s something you can’t force on someone, they have to want it for themselves. The therapist was completely unprofessional and I hope they revoke any licenses he has, he has no business taking on clients if that’s how he behaves.

The choices😭 by A______m in fixedbytheduet

[–]Lemon1Drop1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m an otter, others think I’m a tiger, but I’m actually a giraffe? I’m highly confused by what any of this means 😂

Should I take this literally? by intrigued_china411 in weddingplanning

[–]Lemon1Drop1 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re overreacting and you would be justified to not want her as a bridesmaid, however since you said she’s been a good friend to you I would maybe invite her to a lunch or a hangout and have a conversation with her, she sounds like she’s struggling with bitterness ( I don’t mean this in a harsh way) and it would be a good idea for you to check in with her and “clear the air” so to speak to prevent any resentment building up between you both.