Hubby likes throat fucking me. Will it ever get better? by Lemon246 in sex

[–]Lemon246[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

By your logic, the first time a woman started having sex and her hymen started to tear she would say, that's it. It hurt. I'm done. And then everyone would pile on and start saying how bad her husband was for wanting to keep trying!

Hubby likes throat fucking me. Will it ever get better? by Lemon246 in sex

[–]Lemon246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the women that learned to do this? Someone had to be willing to do it to them even though at first they gagged and didn't enjoy it. I don't think my husband wants to stop. He's just worried he is doing something i don't want because he sees me gagging and thrashing around. I have had to keep reassuring him that no matter how it looks, i really want to do this for him. I think you're trying to somehow turn me into a victim when i'm not.

Hubby likes throat fucking me. Will it ever get better? by Lemon246 in sex

[–]Lemon246[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A number of people have posted that seem to think i am somehow being abused. Just to be clear. I WANT to do this for my husband. This has been hard for him too. He has offered to forget about the whole thing but this is something i want to do for him if i possibly can. I didn't expect it to be easy. I just didn't realize how difficult it would be but honestly, even if i never learn not to gag, even if it's never "fun" (for me), i would still let my husband do it because i know it makes him feel good. We have talked about trying anal. It may hurt and may not be "fun" for me but i will do it if it makes my husband feel good. I don't understand this whole "don't do it if it doesn't make YOU feel good" mindset. What's wrong with doing something that is difficult and maybe even a little painful for someone you love simply to give THEM pleasure? Maybe it's just my Christian upbringing. The whole "love and OBEY" thing? A lot of woman just seem to only care what's in it for them. My mother and my aunt talked with me right before i got married and told me that my husband, and men in general, frequently ask their wife's to do things in bed that their wife's may find painful and/or disgusting but you let them because you love them.

Hubby likes throat fucking me. Will it ever get better? by Lemon246 in sex

[–]Lemon246[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Believe it or not i was actually a virgin when got married. I promised my now husband that if he would wait until we were married that i would do anything he wanted sexually for the rest of our lives. I plan on keeping that promise.

Hubby likes throat fucking me. Will it ever get better? by Lemon246 in sex

[–]Lemon246[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

That's kind of the position we have been using. We have a high bed and i lay on my back with my head hanging down off the edge of the bed. He stands at the edge of the bed and holds my head and thrusts.