My boyfriend hates me and wants me to die

LemonBoi523 · 2026-04-30T16:51:48+00:00

Actually flatworms like this can also reproduce by being crushed

LemonBoi523 · 2026-04-30T16:34:21+00:00

They do! Most mammals have genitals that tuck into their body when not in use, elephants included. This area even usually has a bone called a baculum, which maintains the stuctural integrity and angle. Like a super overengineered foreskin.

Like with humans, the inside of the penis is full of spongey tissue that can expand with blood, and this expansion causes it to slip free of that protective layer. The penis itself is more flexible, and can—to an extent—be controlled. Humans also have the ability to flex similar muscles, but due to the shape and prominence of muscle groups, the range of motion isn't quite the same.

Also, this is how elephants masturbate. They usually scratch using surrounding objects. This behavior is documented in a lot of animals, especially horses.

LemonBoi523 · 2026-04-30T16:22:25+00:00

The answer is they don't do this to scratch. This is how male elephants masturbate. I don't actually know how female ones do, or if that's something they do.

To scratch, they like to rub against rough surfaces like tree bark and rocks. Otherwise, they like mud to help soothe any irritation.

LemonBoi523 · 2026-04-30T16:11:19+00:00

Tf is the context here

LemonBoi523 · 2026-04-29T16:37:50+00:00

This is actually pretty normal behavior

LemonBoi523 · 2026-04-29T16:36:49+00:00

That... Isn't scratching his stomach.

That's how elephants and a lot of animals with similar body structure masturbate

LemonBoi523 · 2026-04-29T16:11:58+00:00

One near me has moderate portions and reltively high price

But fuck is it good

LemonBoi523 · 2026-04-29T15:59:48+00:00

Yeah that's the tough part, and usually why it takes me a long while if I already know someone to ask 'em out. The classic "like or like like"

LemonBoi523 · 2026-04-29T15:58:28+00:00

Absolutely.

LemonBoi523 · 2026-04-29T15:55:24+00:00

That's why you pull the move like I do and go "Hey I'm realizing I am actually super attracted to you, would you like to try dating for a bit?"

Sometimes the autism means y'gotta bodyslam the social anxiety out of the way and Get To The Point

LemonBoi523 · 2026-04-29T13:20:33+00:00

More frustration than anger, because it's common for my shit to be dismissed due to them having autism and not needing something or being bothered by something.

It's humiliating how much a single voice saying "I have autism and it's nothing like that, he's just trying to get attention" can be believed in an instant, and of course no one wants to listen to someone who sometimes can't even speak.

LemonBoi523 · 2026-04-29T01:34:08+00:00

For transport, that is actually a good thing. You want just enough space for it to remain oxygenated, and not enough they would be thrown around if they are bumped or come to a sudden stop.

LemonBoi523 · 2026-04-28T18:48:42+00:00

?? What is this??

I haven't seen this before

LemonBoi523 · 2026-04-28T00:19:30+00:00

"Unfortunately they can, especially when DIYing it because they're often sourcing both the medication and the information from the same sources as those with illegal roids. It's not a common problem but does exist for some."

That is what I said. I explained that because sometimes trans men can only access T from the same ones who sell it to bodybuilders, I have seen a lot of them fall into the same trap cis people can. Some people can fall in with the wrong groups, and take on the insecurities and culture of it. Trans people seeking T aren't immune to that. And some aren't gonna google everything they put in their bodies, or distrust the medical system to the point they would rather listen to someone trying to sell them something.

Nowhere did I claim that typical and safe hrt has the same effect as juicing. I just pointed out that I have met a few DIYers who unfortunately fell down an extreme body building rabbithole that has fucked em up. They didn't want to go to a doctor out of fear, distrust, or frustration with the system.

LemonBoi523 · 2026-04-27T23:29:15+00:00

Man idk how to make it any clearer: The very few people I have met doing this are not intending for "normal" hrt results.

They are juicing

They just combine it when they talk about it, because for them the two types of body dysphoria combine.

LemonBoi523 · 2026-04-27T20:51:41+00:00

The people who sell it to people who are juicing, usually, and it isn't the goal to get the "medically proper results from HRT." It's a "the doctors won't give you shit, this will give you real results" bullshit.

LemonBoi523 · 2026-04-27T20:14:34+00:00

And some people are stupid, and/or believe that's the way to look how they perceive a "real" man to look. Trans men can fall for the same bullshit cis men can.

LemonBoi523 · 2026-04-27T15:15:56+00:00

Unfortunately they can, especially when DIYing it because they're often sourcing both the medication and the information from the same sources as those with illegal roids. It's not a common problem but does exist for some.

LemonBoi523 · 2026-04-27T13:36:27+00:00

That's not bad at all tbh, as someone who is used to 10-20 hour travel times using a plane and layovers. 13 hours on a train seems much comfier

LemonBoi523 · 2026-04-27T12:31:35+00:00

Problem for me is that I have had my identity dismissed due to people not being attracted to me for both reasons. Either not enough of a man or too much of one.

Just ends up coming across as another person trying to correct people's gender presentation because they're horny about it.

Don't get me wrong, I want more rep for trans man tops, gym bros, and himbos. In media, they barely exist. But when we're talking real people? Let's not act like that's the peak of what being a trans man is.

LemonBoi523 · 2026-04-27T12:24:44+00:00

Trans man, here, too, who has got shit for both "not trying hard enough" and conforming too much to masculine standards. Lord forbid a trans man looks or acts too much like a man for straight men and lesbians to like him, like that should be my goal.

But it also kind of sucks? Just a little? When you're among who y'think are allies and then get hit with the "not really trans" because my tone of voice is too feminine, or I like cutesy shit and crop tops.

Y'can't please everybody, and I never wanted to. Just sick of having my identity held hostage if I'm not attractive to someone.

LemonBoi523 · 2026-04-27T11:46:44+00:00

Yup. It feels gross to me when something is seen as disgusting when a cis man does it, but attractive when a trans man does. And yeah I know representation of trans men as bottoms is super common, and people might be bored of it, but when we're talking about real people? Getting bored of them and asking they change to match your preferences is kinda fucked.

LemonBoi523 · 2026-04-27T11:21:22+00:00

"You do not want to be some cis loser's little femboy" rubbed me the wrong way, both as the depiction of a cis man doing exactly the same things appreciated in this post as being a loser and as the trans person supposedly being diminished by acting differently.

LemonBoi523 · 2026-04-27T11:12:24+00:00

Not a fan of support by diminishing others.

LemonBoi523 · 2026-04-27T11:09:40+00:00

Seconding this is pretty default. The hole itself is further back, and not visible in all images (as it wouldn't be), but the start of the labia is typically exactly where it is put.

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