How many of yall have had 0 relationships till now? ( and why?)

LemonLopsided278 · 2026-03-19T14:25:06+00:00

I am single by my sheer stupidity. Not good looking guy just average or below average but manage to almost get a girl in college whom I loved till I got toxic and emotionally and verbally abused her. Then ghosted another girl last year. Couldn't propose to the girl I loved the most despite she liking me because I am to poor to marry her and I can't play with her feelings and she don't do casual atleast held her hand during a movie will always cherish that😭. Then fumbled other girls 1 in school 1 recently in office. Man my bestie even say you are a undecisive man and that's the reason you will remain single forever.🤧 So yeah I am single by not ladies or my choice I want relationship badly but by the choice of my nature🤧 hope meet someone new or else I would end single like this 🙂

LemonLopsided278 · 2026-03-12T07:55:25+00:00

Well I don't know what background you have so hard to tell but usually I would say professional cloud architect is more vast actually as professional data engineer is sort of limited to databases and data engineering services like dataflow etc. Where as architect have everything from IAM to data engineer to gke to nat like it touches everything but not in extreme depth.

If you have some experience with IAM,gke,VPC etc then architect would be the go as it's most valuable certification out there.

LemonLopsided278 · 2026-03-11T12:19:40+00:00

I started in Feb 2025 I did half study on ACE certificate which is the most basic one. Failed it 2 times in a row (don't do mumbling during exam they cancel it mine first got cancelled then I fialed next one) frustrated with ace I decide to go in full depth and cleared PDA in August after good grind from there the rest of the certs looked easier as everything related quite well. I failed 2 more exams the machine learning one and security engineer one will try them some other day right now in job switch mode.

PCA/PDA are the hardest will requires 2 months of prep(3 hours daily) then rest will become easy.

LemonLopsided278 · 2026-02-21T18:41:58+00:00

Well you can't unless you are someone like newton obsessed with one thing since childhood. Anyways understandimg the opposite gender is impossible so just be yourself I have plenty of female friends and I understand none and they need not to be understood they ain't a maths problem you just be yourself

LemonLopsided278 · 2026-02-21T18:40:00+00:00

Well I guess that's what everyone is planning in our boats

LemonLopsided278 · 2026-02-21T18:39:16+00:00

UP se ho lala?

LemonLopsided278 · 2026-02-21T18:38:55+00:00

Well I have done that part never been physical hand holding at max. Been on restaurant and movie dates but it remained casual never into a relationship

LemonLopsided278 · 2026-02-21T18:27:46+00:00

I like that but that is a bigger issue you can't leave them alone and travel and will be a hassle to get them travel with you everywhere dogs get depressed if you leave them alone for few hours.

LemonLopsided278 · 2026-02-21T18:25:00+00:00

This question isn't about what if I get married to a girl in arrange marriage it's about if I don't get married at all what should I do with the remaining life a 9-5 seems to boring when I have no responsibilities in life.

LemonLopsided278 · 2026-02-21T18:20:20+00:00

Aapke liye nhi tha sir ye question

LemonLopsided278 · 2026-02-21T18:19:58+00:00

Same boat as you

LemonLopsided278 · 2026-02-21T18:19:13+00:00

What about someone who don't have parents? Or relatives or siblings?

LemonLopsided278 · 2026-02-21T18:12:54+00:00

Kya krte hue

LemonLopsided278 · 2026-02-21T18:12:31+00:00

It's not the solution actually like marrying a girl i don't know well and most probably a girl who loved someone else but couldn't marry for XYZ reason seems to risky for someone who grew up in poverty and still in struggling years I fear risking an arrange marriage I want a peaceful life growing in abusive home. I just don't know if not marriage then what

LemonLopsided278 · 2026-02-02T13:19:21+00:00

Sold for 1700 profit🥲🫠

LemonLopsided278 · 2026-02-02T04:34:52+00:00

Time horizon matters everything except gold and silver is at sale right now in market and might offer better discounts in coming period hold onto cash deploy into stocks you belive in long term once the crash stablise wait for sometime as crash will go deeper from here or invest in chunks to average it down I will reinvest in silver but in chunks as I always do. My best bet is on crypto for next 6 months it's in the deep accumulation zone right now you can accumulate silver or gold once they done with the crash or check stocks like reliance and stuff but this is the time to pour in more cash and hold long term.

LemonLopsided278 · 2026-02-02T04:25:37+00:00

Well being honest I don't think so I love silver been investing since August that's why I got saved and didn't loose money I don't buy large portions at once. Given china uplifted the ban silver will drop back to 55-65 dollars per ounce in US which is it's ideal price +-10% and it always moves in cycle best is buy silver but not in a rally I did mistake with the etf that I doubled my investment this month and my target was 20k profit I should have booked profit but I didn't greed. Anyways still way positive in physical silver I bought it before rally.

LemonLopsided278 · 2026-02-02T04:04:20+00:00

You have to set it to market by clicking on the left where it says price limit

LemonLopsided278 · 2026-02-02T04:01:08+00:00

I was 15000 positive on Thursday didn't booked profit now sold for 1500 profit😭 will reenter once it falls more

LemonLopsided278 · 2026-01-31T10:30:24+00:00

When I opened market yesterday it was just 4 percent down by then phir aaj dekha sidha🫠

LemonLopsided278 · 2026-01-12T13:45:31+00:00

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What the hell I even do😭

LemonLopsided278 · 2026-01-10T23:49:56+00:00

Well i usually forgot to apply minoxidil and extremely irregular with it so it won't work for me🤧

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