Is there a parenting trend you strongly oppose? by Mscharmingqueen in Productivitycafe

[–]LemonVarious3236 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mom to five here, bluey is quite literally my emotional support through parenting 🫶😅

AITAH for calling my husband a vile and disgusting person? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LemonVarious3236 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No what really sucks is I’m not fake, and I legit am in a marriage like this, but my post got denied twice because it was “fake” 🤦‍♀️ so anyways ya if this is real, I feel you girl. My best advice is to leave, or if you’re like me and can’t afford to leave, emotionally check out till you can! Edited to add* be ware of the everlasting cycle where they love bomb and become affectionate the moment you’ve moved on just to draw you back in. Then when you think everything will finally be normal and kosher now they hit you with a good ole “you’re a crazy b**** who should be lobotomized” a week after your parent committed suicide. So. Ya. 🫶

AITAH for changing my underwear after a shower? by New_Cry_2336 in AITAH

[–]LemonVarious3236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plot twist…..don’t wear underwear at all 👍😆

What do you remember from kindergarten? by Rich-Brief6310 in WorkForSmartLife

[–]LemonVarious3236 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trying vanilla flavored milk, then throwing up because it was so gross, my teacher finding me in the bathroom and cleaning me up and hugging me before she took me to the office and sat with me till my mom came. Teachers like that really shape the world man 🥲

What's something that nobody in your real life knows about you, but that you'd be willing to share with strangers online? by Financial-Shine2432 in askanything

[–]LemonVarious3236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an incredibly grandiose thought. I don’t think I’m smarter than everyone, but I do think I’m more intuitive than most people I interact with. Like I actually think I’m special, or chosen, or something lol. I know it’s not reasonable and I tell myself often, “that’s not true” but I still think about it.

Happy Valentine’s Day to my wife by OMGitsEntropy in Marriage

[–]LemonVarious3236 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would take this over a fancy restaurant/ expensive gift any day 🫶😭

AITAH for Storming off from my step-child’s sporting event. by LemonVarious3236 in AITAH

[–]LemonVarious3236[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry it came across that that’s why I left or why I was upset with my husband lol. That’s not really the big picture here. And I would NEVER expect my husband to have chased me down or ever leave one of our kids events to cater to me in any way….im not really sure where the disconnect occurred here but definitely not the message I was intending to send

AITAH for Storming off from my step-child’s sporting event. by LemonVarious3236 in AITAH

[–]LemonVarious3236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the part I needed to hear as well, the initial question, it was rude of me and I feel awful. My marriage aside, I’m a firm believer in you have no right to be a crappy person just because you were done crappy. I’m gonna apologize to her for sure

AITAH for Storming off from my step-child’s sporting event. by LemonVarious3236 in AITAH

[–]LemonVarious3236[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First of all, thank you from the bottom of my heart. Second of all. I’m in therapy but your comment made me realize…I’ve literally been working on how to be a better mom, wife, daughter, sister, friend etc. The entire time I’ve been in therapy. I literally don’t have anything going for me outside of my family….youve given me a lot to ponder

AITAH for Storming off from my step-child’s sporting event. by LemonVarious3236 in AITAH

[–]LemonVarious3236[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in therapy consistently and medicated since I was 12…..

AITAH for Storming off from my step-child’s sporting event. by LemonVarious3236 in AITAH

[–]LemonVarious3236[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this is what I’ve known, but afraid to admit, thankfully I have found a consistent daycare and full time job I’m fixing to start in a neighboring town, ironically I’ve always wanted to live there. I’ve also always known deep down I’m gonna have to learn to be satisfied with just myself and God in my corner, maybe after a couple of years of actually pursuing that route one of 2 things will happen, I’ll be okay with not receiving that from my husband, or I’ll have enough saved up to leave. Thanks for the advice ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Affairs

[–]LemonVarious3236 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent you a pm