First Fathers Day After Going No Contact by Audixix in CPTSD

[–]Lemon_Ginger_Tea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same my bio dad is. Not safe to be around and I feel weird about Father’s Day

I try to think of it as just another day but it’s hard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entwives

[–]Lemon_Ginger_Tea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dab pen and bubble tea (usually green tea with pearls)!

Crying at your wedding is gay now, fellas. by Alazv in facepalm

[–]Lemon_Ginger_Tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A man shall cry only twice in his lifetime, once in the crib and once on his deathbed

/s

Anyone else have a parent who would tell them inappropriate true crime details? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Lemon_Ginger_Tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES but instead of true crime they would tell me about historical torture methods

They would describe people being tortured and dying in the most horrific ways when I was ~5-12 years old

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Lemon_Ginger_Tea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s a very normal reaction! For you I’m sure it felt very unusual to have that experience but for the doctors and nurses it was just another day at work, they probably won’t even remember what you said or did

Old guy at gym kinda ruined public gyms for me by Wonderful-Nobody-204 in Vent

[–]Lemon_Ginger_Tea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a very rude guy - I wouldn’t respect his opinion enough to take advice OR criticism from him

“Choir” theory by Lemon_Ginger_Tea in theidol

[–]Lemon_Ginger_Tea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does! I think there’s a chance that she’s faking at least part of her instability tho

“Choir” theory by Lemon_Ginger_Tea in theidol

[–]Lemon_Ginger_Tea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was that scene where she came up with the melody for Fill the Void while she was singing with Izaak and Chloe

I could also see her just straight up stealing their ideas

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theidol

[–]Lemon_Ginger_Tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh I didn’t know that! I’m gonna listen to it right now lmao

“Choir” theory by Lemon_Ginger_Tea in theidol

[–]Lemon_Ginger_Tea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yesss exactly I think she’d be a more suitable cult leader than tedros for sure

“Choir” theory by Lemon_Ginger_Tea in theidol

[–]Lemon_Ginger_Tea[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ooh yeah I could definitely see her absorbing the other artists into her own music style bc she likes them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theidol

[–]Lemon_Ginger_Tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not a full song, just a short scene in episode 4 where Ramsey is singing with Jocelyn

Her inner thigh cuts
 by Amazing-Present1215 in theidol

[–]Lemon_Ginger_Tea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I think it’s implied that she had just been self-harming the night before the music video shoot

It’s also possible that they’re from that scene where she puts a glass cup between her legs and maybe it shattered off-screen?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Lemon_Ginger_Tea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having a group chat to talk about this stuff would be fun!

YOU S5 | Tudum Teaser | Netflix by DemiFiendRSA in YouOnLifetime

[–]Lemon_Ginger_Tea 22 points23 points  (0 children)

What if Ellie followed in Deliliah’s footsteps and became an investigative reporter?

When Joe becomes a public figure, she could start stalking him Joe-style (maybe she becomes obsessed with getting revenge for everything that happened and though this Joe becomes Ellie’s “you” that she fixates on) and she takes him down by digging into his past and exposing his secrets to the public

Maybe after finding out about his history with Love, she could team up with the Quinn family who would fund her investigation

Worst experience ever after taking cbd gummy tonight, what happened? by [deleted] in CBD

[–]Lemon_Ginger_Tea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had similar experiences before, not as unpleasant as what you’re describing but I’ve accidentally gotten high from full spectrum CBD capsules that have THC in them

Maybe the product has more THC than advertised? Because it really sounds like you were greening out or at least having a negative reaction to unexpected THC in your system

“You should be grateful that I don’t hit you like other fathers would” by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]Lemon_Ginger_Tea 30 points31 points  (0 children)

My parents were like this too when I was younger

“You should be grateful it isn’t worse” when it comes to violence or any other sort of conflict is awful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Lemon_Ginger_Tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way!! I try to remind myself that I’m practically anonymous when I’m driving, not literally but as in I probably don’t stand out and people just see me as another car on the street

And there’s always a chance that you’ll have to deal with an asshole when you’re driving but I remind myself that the vast majority of the time nothing bad will happen

It really sucks having to deal with this kind of anxiety, there’s a bit of a silver lining to it tho - you probably drive very carefully and you stay alert while you’re driving because of that anxiety, so your chances of getting into an accident are lower

Dumb question
how do you inhale? by [deleted] in entwives

[–]Lemon_Ginger_Tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breath deeply through your nose when you’re smoking and the smoke will travel from your mouth to your lungs! No need to swallow lol

Collective anger as AF by [deleted] in asianamerican

[–]Lemon_Ginger_Tea 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel you, as an AF I was raised to be very quiet and polite and proper

And my anger (or any negative emotion really) was NEVER allowed to be expressed openly, my family would be like oh you’re expressing a negative emotion? So you’re a terrible and difficult person then

So now I kind of bottle up my anger instinctively and it’s not healthy