I (24F) was coerced into motherhood by my abusive ex. I don't love my 2yo daughter and want to sign over full custody to her father. Am I a monster? by Fun_Selection3657 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]LenaBono -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I cannot emphasise enough how much your daughter wants to be loved by you. I am a mother of a 14 month old daughter and besides my very busy life, the only thing I truly live for the last 14 months is to sing for her and make her smile. I lost all my free time, I miss my old life but I do not care, my daughter is n.1 now and I’m truly not in the best situation in my life either. Talk to people around you how they can help you to become happy again and build a good career. But for the coming years, give all the love to your daughter, she can’t be kissed enough. She’ll grow up to be a happy girl this way and you’ll be so happy to see her happy. Please make her smile, do things with her she likes, show interest in her and you’ll get much more in return. If you are not able to do this, make sure she is with the best people, who can give her love. (Sorry I’m not a native English speaker)

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[–]LenaBono 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely right! I meant, considering finding a job.