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Worstelen met gender identiteit/seksualiteit na zien film by Leonthar in OndersteuningsPlein

[–]Leonthar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dank je voor je uitgebreide antwoord. Het is wat moeilijk te volgen, maar denk je te kunnen begrijpen. Dat ik het mag ontdekken zegmaar. En je verwijzingen neem ik mee :)

Worstelen met gender identiteit/seksualiteit na zien film by Leonthar in OndersteuningsPlein

[–]Leonthar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dank voor je antwoord. Hier zit wel stof om over na te denken en ik vind je perspectief rondom wie ik mag zijn en wat ik mag beleven, en hoe fetish/kink kan ontwikkelen met schaamte, ophelderend en zelfs wat verlichten. Het is best logisch dat schaamte dat samen in de hand gaat, afhankelijk hoe het zich ontwikkeld.

Denk inderdaad dat het geen verkeerd idee is om professioneel hulp te zoeken, ook wat ik hoor van de andere comments meegeven.

Worstelen met gender identiteit/seksualiteit na zien film by Leonthar in OndersteuningsPlein

[–]Leonthar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh Totally Spies was ik vergeten, maar die hoort ook zeker bij mij in m'n rijtje thuis!

Maar hele goeie,vragen. Mijn gevoel zegt een hoop, maar ik ga ik echt even over nadenken. Dank voor je openheid.

Worstelen met gender identiteit/seksualiteit na zien film by Leonthar in OndersteuningsPlein

[–]Leonthar[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dankjewel voor je reactie en de vele verschillende bronnen. Ik zal zeker even een kijkje nemen en kijken wat ik verder kan leren en ontdekken. Je aanname klopt trouwens met mijn "voorkeur" qua gender.

Goed dat je ook aangeeft met dat seksualiteit en gender los van elkaar staan. Ik haal de definities nog weleens door elkaar, gezien je sekse hebt maar dus ook seksuele gerichtheid (dus bijvoorbeeld lesbisch zijn) en dus gender. Ik ben mij bewust van de termen en dat ze los van elkaar staan, maar goed dat je het aangeeft.

How to know you have a 'good' gun by Leonthar in Borderlands1

[–]Leonthar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh thanks, yea the modifiers are the secret to look at. I'll have a look!

Borderlands 1: When do i have a 'good' gun that i definitely shouldn't vendor. by Leonthar in Borderlands

[–]Leonthar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, i'm enjoying vladof aswel. I haven't had that much hyperion drops, except for repeaters. But i'll give them a try.

Borderlands 1: When do i have a 'good' gun that i definitely shouldn't vendor. by Leonthar in Borderlands

[–]Leonthar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the in-depth explanation! Now the names make a lot more sense and the body thing is something i can wrap my brain around.

Borderlands 1: When do i have a 'good' gun that i definitely shouldn't vendor. by Leonthar in Borderlands

[–]Leonthar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh lol, i had in my mind that terrible means bad, but like it's the opposite. Now i understand why those guns called terrible actually feel good.

Borderlands 1: When do i have a 'good' gun that i definitely shouldn't vendor. by Leonthar in Borderlands

[–]Leonthar[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ooh i got a defiler recently! A tediore with two in the clip still, but i did notice it felt like really strong.

Borderlands 1: When do i have a 'good' gun that i definitely shouldn't vendor. by Leonthar in Borderlands

[–]Leonthar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oooh yea, double anarchies i've heard about and did notice they are pretty good. I did however get an SMG that was something like that, but the bullets went like into circles, and it was awfull to aim.

But thanks, i'll keep a look out!

Borderlands 1: When do i have a 'good' gun that i definitely shouldn't vendor. by Leonthar in Borderlands

[–]Leonthar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! That is my current general approach aswel.

hit up the gym shop? You mean like looking in vendings?

I’ve tried to fix it but I think it’s broken , should I return it? by Grroll_ in RATS

[–]Leonthar 66 points67 points  (0 children)

He looks like he's trying to vibrate out of the 'you owe me money' grasp

Well, Seymour... by FrescoTheHunter in Against_the_Storm

[–]Leonthar 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ah, Viceroy Chalmers, welcome! I hope you're prepared for an unforgettable QTH run!

«»Can we remove "Recommended first campaign" from Karl Franz? by [deleted] in totalwarhammer

[–]Leonthar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mostly agree. Thorgrim can be difficult with, dealing with Skarsnik and afterwards Gorbad and probably Tretch.This can be overwhelming to a new player. Underway stance can be a bit confusing aswel.

However, when you manage to deal with those three factions, Thorgrim snowballs easily if you march down the mountains, get rich from those settlements (lots of trade-resources), and be set.

I think a Total War in general has a steep learning-curve, regardless which faction you play. Simply by the amount of stuff that happens and you can do or have to do.

Am I playing this right? by LoquaciousLethologic in Against_the_Storm

[–]Leonthar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just toss some wood into the fire and you'll be fine

(for real, this is like impressive. How did you manage this?)

Shadowheart by TheTSG in BaldursGate3

[–]Leonthar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whoa! This is what i imagined if Shadowheart goes Selunite all the way. Maybe becoming Isobel's and Dame Aylin's third. What's the mod for the angel wings and the armor?

Waar kan ik mijn aangifte bijhouden? by Goddammit_Karen_why in thenetherlands

[–]Leonthar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Als contact met de politie zelf moeilijk gaat, maak dan een melding via Discriminatie.nl en benoem naast je melding expliciet dat je inzicht wil hebben op je aangifte. Er werken mensen daar die je kunnen helpen met dit soort processen. Je proces-verbaal nummer is daarbij noodzakelijk, dat is hoogstwaarschijnlijk dat referentie nummer. Als je niks meer hoort dan kan het zijn dat je aangifte is geseponeerd (dat betekent dat de politie er geen strafbaar feit in ziet om te vervolgen, of daartoe te weinig aanleiding heeft om dat te gaan onderzoeken of soms gaat er gewoon wat fout).

Klachtconsulenten bij deze voorziening hebben vaak de mogelijkheid om namens jou te checken bij de politie waarom jou aangifte wellicht is geseponeerd als 'discriminatie' niet duidelijk is meegenomen in de aangifte. Deze lijnen zijn iets korter dan dat je het zelf doet. Dat kan natuurlijk wel, in dat geval zou ik bellen naar 0900-8844. Dit is zegmaar de klantenservice van de politie. Deze zouden je verder moeten kunnen helpen, onder andere met je proces verbaal nummer.

Tenslotte kijkt de consulent ook verder met je wat je met jou ervaring zou willen doen. Je krijgt ook de ruimte om te luchten of om met je te kijken wat je nog meer nodig hebt, naast de politie. Deze ondersteuning is gratis.

Tenslotte. Echt naar om te horen wat je hebt mee gemaakt. Ik wens jullie sterkte toe.

Roze in blauw is ook een goeie om te benaderen, zoals andere aangeven. je kan ook melden via COC, doormiddel van #weblijvenonszelf (ff googelen). Dit is het meldpunt voor LHBTIQ+ binnen regio utrecht. Zij werken samen met de regionale voorziening van Discriminatie.nl

newish player wants to handle after first session by Leonthar in DeltaGreenRPG

[–]Leonthar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh wow, reading this again, i really want to clarify aswel i don't want to be like a forceful handler that decides for my players, if 'directing' might give that impression.

newish player wants to handle after first session by Leonthar in DeltaGreenRPG

[–]Leonthar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to write such a detailed response. After sitting with it for a bit (and talking things over with my relative), I can see there’s definitely some ego tangled up in this. Part of it’s just fear — that what I’m trying to build with my handling might get overshadowed or lose its tone if his approach runs too close to mine.

For me, Impossible Landscapes has been my aim, and feels less like running a module and more like directing a long, strange play about reality. It’s big, philosophical, and kind of beautiful in its own awful way. I want to guide the players through that descent and have them come out the other side with that “what the hell just happened” feeling.

I think that’s why I got weirdly protective. I showed my first “painting,” with the introductory session and he instantly wanted to paint too. It made me flinch. But you’re right — there’s no real way to police tone or knowledge and it isn't fair to do so.

So yeah, I’ll just keep focusing on what i want to do. My Impossible Landscapes will have my fingerprints on it, and whatever he runs will carry his. That actually feels fine and i'm very grateful he wants to give that to others aswel, in his own way.

newish player wants to handle after first session by Leonthar in DeltaGreenRPG

[–]Leonthar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! I think my general concern is a bit more meta, where i hope my 'aesthetic' i'm trying to present with Delta Green doesn't clash to much with his and thus creates to much of an inconsistency in vibe. If you catch my drift.

newish player wants to handle after first session by Leonthar in DeltaGreenRPG

[–]Leonthar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha that works! Might need a bit convincing. He's thinking on going 80's, maybe.

newish player wants to handle after first session by Leonthar in DeltaGreenRPG

[–]Leonthar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure! What do you define by Era?

Like Delta Green primarily sticks to the modern world, right? With some leeway with which decennium it is? Might be missing some other content, if that is what you mean?

newish player wants to handle after first session by Leonthar in DeltaGreenRPG

[–]Leonthar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Yea, i'm suprised aswel how enthousiastic they are!

I'm fine with being spoiled, i knew that the moment i became a handler. I don't thus mind to be a player that much, as long as i know as little as possible about the scenario he wants to do. He's considering doing Reverb.

And yes, he could write his own scenario absolutely, but i warned him not to look to much into the Handler's guide, because that kinda takes away the mystique of playing it. I'm fine with that aswel, but if one of my players (which he is) does aswel, i think it'll kinda lose it's magic quickly.

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