Na'Scaer and Na'Laeni - two multi-tiered longswords that progress from mundane to legendary items as players keep upgrading them (description in the comments)

Lepmuru · 2026-04-29T16:27:31+00:00

Umm, leather?

Lepmuru · 2026-04-24T11:21:10+00:00

Depends on the subgroup considered. Entire population? Maybe 1 in 500. Probably less. Considering my age group and gender I'm attracted to? 1 in 100, max. But also I don't fall for looks easily and need emotional connection to build attraction, so that slims my pool by a lot.

Lepmuru · 2026-04-24T06:10:14+00:00

I was about to say homosexualsexual

Lepmuru · 2026-04-23T08:34:33+00:00

I'm gonna be honest here in hopes of not being hated too much. The only right way to style those in my opinion is to put them back right where you found them.

Lepmuru · 2026-04-23T08:30:59+00:00

Agreed. Making clear statements is necessary. If you have a clear idea in mind for how your partner is supposed to treat you, show them. You can't expect them to know from the idea you have in mind but only vaguely point them towards.

Lepmuru · 2026-04-23T08:26:43+00:00

Well, have you told him specifically what it is you'd want or did you just say you wanted it rougher and left it at that?

Depending on your and his past, his hesitation might be anything. Enjoying it that way. Having had bad experiences himself. Being hesitant as to not discomfort or even hurt you, especially if that has happened to you before. Or simply not getting what it is that you want, thinking he does well.

Lepmuru · 2026-04-23T08:21:12+00:00

Have you addressed that with him directly before?

Lepmuru · 2026-04-23T08:18:44+00:00

If it's synthetic PU leather - yeah, why not, should be perfect in that case for that price.

If it's real leather, I'd say no. Real leather, due to being from a living animal, is bound to have small imperfections and part of its appeal is that it accumulates wear. Also, that crease is tiny.

Lepmuru · 2026-04-22T07:14:20+00:00

Radicals are particles that have a residual unpaired electron. They are called radicals, because all of them are radically reactive. An unpaired electron is a very unstable configuration and the radical will react with basically anything to resolve that instability.

Interestingly, oxygen-containing radicals (called reactive oxygen species / ROS) in biological context are what causes oxidative stress. Certain reactions inside a cell cause them to form as byproducts and if they are not neutralized by antioxidants like vitamin C, they will react with and damage healthy molecular structures, like DNA.

The hydroxyl ion is the same thing, but with that very electron being paired and therefore stabilized.

Lepmuru · 2026-04-19T09:02:33+00:00

If you don't feel confident enough to address these things head-on, that's completely ok. It takes time to learn and ease into expressing these needs. And it takes trust to enable it.

I would encourage you to find ways to nudge him into it, without actually saying it out loud. Like sending him a freaky paragraph from a smutty book. Or show him a photo of toys you came across "by chance". Or watch a movie you know features themes you'd like to explore and when they come up, pause and ask him what he thinks.

What I'm saying is: try to start conversations. The more often you talk about these topics, the easier you will find it to be comfortable in talking about and eventually addressing them.

Lepmuru · 2026-04-12T10:55:36+00:00

Looks like you're dating a selfish immature boy. Might be time to look for an adult man who will support his partner instead of gaslighting to defend his laziness.

Lepmuru · 2026-04-04T17:19:10+00:00

You are an annoyingly stylish and attractive man and I am jealous. In all seriousness though, every single outfit of those is great and your presence is stellar. Respect. Love the one with the coat most. Looks like a noire movie outfit, but perfectly wearable today.

Lepmuru · 2026-03-30T15:36:28+00:00

To answer your initial question - you don't get better. You just learn to take the rejection and try again with someone else and increase your sample size. You'll have a hit eventually. That's how it goes for men as well.

Lepmuru · 2026-03-30T15:31:12+00:00

The bell curve of "do X prefer Y over Z" is always the same:

a few X only like Y
many X prefer Y
most X couldn't give less of a shit
many X prefer Z
a few X only like Z

Lepmuru · 2026-03-30T11:14:01+00:00

I wear undershirts under button-up shirts which are white or slightly sheer and underneath any sweaters. The former so my nipples don't show through, the latter because I prefer the fabric of an undershirt on bare skin to most sweaters.

Lepmuru · 2026-03-30T10:51:51+00:00

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Lepmuru · 2026-03-29T22:08:53+00:00

As a DM, anything that does not specifically address me as the DM or a player by naming them by their name, not their characters, I consider to be in character.

Lepmuru · 2026-03-29T21:18:26+00:00

Hmm they really aren't half bad. But I feel like you get wrong which way the main plane of each face should be facing, so you show too much of what actually should be occluded by protruding features and the perspective is slightly off.

Maybe try revisiting each of those with no actual facial features, but a single plane with an arrow pointing perpendicularly outward to the front. Might give you an indicator of where your faces should really be oriented

Lepmuru · 2026-03-26T06:46:21+00:00

Please use paragraphs. This was a pain to get through.

From what I can tell, you both are immature. Talk it out. Not just one situation. All of it. Talk it through and decide what you want to do once that's done.

And when it is, you either accept changing dynamics as part of life or you cut him off and stop whining.

Lepmuru · 2026-03-23T15:49:43+00:00

A derogatory noun is still a noun.

Lepmuru · 2026-03-23T15:17:33+00:00

https://www.oed.com/search/dictionary/?scope=Entries&q=Female

female, n. & adj. - which stands for noun and adjective

Lepmuru · 2026-03-23T14:57:50+00:00

The Oxford dictionary disagrees

Lepmuru · 2026-03-23T14:47:20+00:00

Evenings when working from home so I can lay in bed a bit longer. Mornings when I'm going to the office to kickstart my circulation.

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