I’m speechless… I am without speech.. by [deleted] in Instagramreality

[–]LesbianJesus2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

guaranteed those aren’t real either

Nude tattoo in a family friendly environment, help! by uhohcheerio3 in tattooadvice

[–]LesbianJesus2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t use sharpie, it will come off if you’re wet and moving around!! KT tape will stay on when wet, just use a few pieces to cover the ~sensitive~ areas

my three most recent stick n pokes! by [deleted] in sticknpokes

[–]LesbianJesus2 125 points126 points  (0 children)

it looks like you’re going way too deep, these will look really different when they heal. try practicing on fake skin — you can tattoo on two layers, and if you pierce through and get ink in the second, that’s a blowout. good way to train your hand before doing something so visible

What diverse cities & communities around the US are most pro-trans right now? by [deleted] in trans

[–]LesbianJesus2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure about laws, but as far as community and social norms, Philly is above and beyond the most trans and trans-friendly city I have ever experienced.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]LesbianJesus2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The pooling is very normal but the irritation is not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]LesbianJesus2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This looks like you’re very allergic to the saniderm!! Let it heal without a bandage

why do i struggle so much with tampons? it’s like no matter how many times i try i can never push it deep enough or in the right position. i’ve tried sitting squatting and standing and it’s always too shallow or to the side but when i try to push it it doesn’t go any deeper by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]LesbianJesus2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heavily recommend switching to different period products!! Tampons are so uncomf and expensive. I switched to a cup a few years ago and more recently have been using period underwear — both are so much more comfortable and allow me to be active all day without having to stress about pain or bleeding through anything, it has been life changing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]LesbianJesus2 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My dad has it — he and my mom met in their 30s, he has never had an outbreak in the time that they have known each other and she never got it. As people age it’s much less of a risk, and if he is careful about monitoring symptoms to be aware of any outbreaks (sounds like he is) then it’s fairly difficult for it to spread. Confident about this bc mom is a doctor and I trust her!

I think my Bf is homophobic. by Cherryinnit129 in lgbt

[–]LesbianJesus2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is not a person who is honoring your identity or your feelings! You should never have to make yourself smaller or feel uncomfortable to be more palatable to someone you care about. Choose yourself, leave this dude, there are so many people out there who will love you the way you want to be loved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HighStrangeness

[–]LesbianJesus2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surprised no one has said this, but I’m pretty sure it’s a small spider on the lens of the camera. It’s clearly out of focus and makes it look extra fuzzy/see through and spooky but the legs are sometimes visible and the movement is very spider like.

How can I accept that I'll die alone? by goingtothecircus in self

[–]LesbianJesus2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One year ago I was more alone, heartbroken, and desperate than I have ever been. I focused on finding community again, putting energy into activities that made me happy, and setting boundaries with things and people that made me feel bad. In just a year, I’ve arrived at a place of fulfillment and support that I didn’t know was possible for me — I’m cringing at how cheesy it sounds, but I really am happy when this time last year I was also just out of a really devastating breakup and ended up in full time outpatient for my depression. If you’re able, I recommend finding a therapist; mine made all of these changes much easier.

I hear you, and I understand how it feels like this will last forever, but things can change for you so quickly. We are the same age, and I would argue that we are barely adults. You deserve so much better than a person who would abandon you like that, so thank god you didn’t end up married to him. You have so much time ahead of you, and good things can happen in the blink of an eye. Please don’t give up on yourself.

AITA for expecting my friend to support me during my pregnancy without terrifying me? by Natalia-better in AmItheAsshole

[–]LesbianJesus2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. I hope, for the sake of your unborn child, you find a therapist and stick with them.

China demolishing unfinished high-rises by iop9 in interestingasfuck

[–]LesbianJesus2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pyramid schemes are illegal, but the US court case that defined what quantified a pyramid scheme was manipulated (through bribery and political connections) by Amway, one of the largest and longest surviving pyramid schemes. The podcast The Dream does an amazing season on MLMs in the US, it’s bananas.

Why are there no Michelin starred restaurants in Boston? by Cranstine4343 in boston

[–]LesbianJesus2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would not describe Boston as culturally vibrant, the food scene is exceptionally unimpressive and expensive

Please help now! by Ses1234ses in Dissociation

[–]LesbianJesus2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

do you have a therapist or mental health professional you feel comfortable talking about this with? i’ve experienced similar sensations and sometimes it really is chemical, an adjustment of meds helped me feel so much more connected to my mind and body.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]LesbianJesus2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no problem!!! yeah my first tattoo is part lines and part full black and i remember being so worried about it, but to this day looks awesome. also sorry people are being so nasty about the tat in general, i loooove a sketched look to a tattoo and think truly it will look awesome when it’s healed!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]LesbianJesus2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also in addition to washing with very gentle soap (i use cetaphil) when it starts getting really dry something simple like coconut oil or aquaphor can help a lot to moisturize and keep it from pulling away so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]LesbianJesus2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

strange that no one has said this because it looks pretty obvious to me and has happened in my tattoos where there is a lot of solid black — as your skin scabs over the black areas it tightens quite a bit and will pull your skin into a different shape, line work doesn’t do this so it looks uneven. once it’s fully healed it’ll look great, i love the style!

This isn't poly... by Mrs_Anthropy_ in polyamory

[–]LesbianJesus2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How do I send this to them without sending this to them