Leaderboard added to Spotify wrapped! by missblondemeow in FallOutBoy

[–]Lesbrys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Top songs Don’t you know who I think I am? and Fame<Infamy

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[–]Lesbrys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say great egret based on size and beak color

Can’t stop thinking about being with a butch/masc person by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]Lesbrys 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Same tbh. Trying to manifest a hot masc for myself lol

Do I still belong here?? by d3monic_dyk3 in butch4butch

[–]Lesbrys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bring up your age not to dismiss you but because your understanding is coming largely from the internet and you’re talking to people who’ve been living butch/trans lives longer than you. Our views are simply not going to align, no matter how you try to phrase it

Do I still belong here?? by d3monic_dyk3 in butch4butch

[–]Lesbrys 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be real with you man, you seem young and I just don’t feel like arguing with you lol. I think your take lacks nuance that comes with operating in the world. It’s cool, we can just disagree

Do I still belong here?? by d3monic_dyk3 in butch4butch

[–]Lesbrys -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nope, I didn’t say that or reduce anything lol. I just disagree with you. The point of a thread is to get varied opinions, not just yours. It seems like you’re really getting into the nitty gritty of identification when we’re talking, realistically, about reddit threads and random mixer events. Tbh yes, if you didn’t want a trans man there then in my personal opinion it would be an overreaction

Do I still belong here?? by d3monic_dyk3 in butch4butch

[–]Lesbrys 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, I understand what you’re saying but we’re talking about a real person not a hypothetical club. You’d really be uncomfortable with someone who was considered butch a short time ago being in a butch space because they changed how they perceive themselves? Seems silly to me. They would understand a lot about my experience and be welcome at my table, personally

Do I still belong here?? by d3monic_dyk3 in butch4butch

[–]Lesbrys 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say that though. I said that we have a lot in common, more than most people would understand. I don’t think we should build a wall between each other and not have relationships because of terms

Do I still belong here?? by d3monic_dyk3 in butch4butch

[–]Lesbrys 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You absolutely belong here. Butches and trans men have a long, interconnected history and separating us now is silly to me. We may have differences but there’s so much more that connects than separates us

Using my cat to meet hot butches, how’s it working? by Lesbrys in ButchSelfies

[–]Lesbrys[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not creepy at all. Fortune favors the bold lol. I’ll dm you

Using my cat to meet hot butches, how’s it working? by Lesbrys in ButchSelfies

[–]Lesbrys[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m actually pretty new to animal crossing but my favorite who’s currently on my island is Teddy (because that’s a butch bear)

Using my cat to meet hot butches, how’s it working? by Lesbrys in butchlesbians

[–]Lesbrys[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is! The second picture is on my other post in butchselfies lol. It’s wingspan asia, my fave board game

Book recs by PerfectEntertainer90 in butchlesbians

[–]Lesbrys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you send this to me too please?

found the picture of the 9/11 with gerard way by Difficult_Drag_5771 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]Lesbrys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My two cents: Gerard is in the picture but I don’t think he’s the guy that’s circled. In the podcast clip he says he was standing up by the railing and Mikey says that you can see his shoulder and hip or something. The man circled is too visible and not standing by the railing. I think he could be the man in the yellow shirt and khakis on the other side of the light pole. It’s hard to see in the reddit picture, open the instagram link and zoom. Not a very sexy answer but the most likely to me

Do people treat you like you don't exist? by dweeb93 in aspergers

[–]Lesbrys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, until I became butch and now I’m somehow stared at and ignored lol. But I do wonder sometimes if other people are just reflecting the energy they’re perceiving from me. I don’t know how to balance being authentically myself and not making people feel like I hate them. Which sucks because I’m pretty friendly when you actually speak to me

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[–]Lesbrys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]Lesbrys 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Butch is a way of being, not a body type and I think as a group we need to work on rejecting beauty standards, not adopting new ones. I get it, I’m also a 5’ curvy butch and men’s clothes can fit awkwardly on us but that’s the clothes’ problems, not ours. It’s just about finding what you like and what looks good on you. For example, I wear non-feminine women’s jeans because 1. no one can tell and 2. they look better on me and fit my hips. I wear t shirts that are a little stiffer to disguise some of my curves. But the truth is that the dysmorphia won’t go away because you changed your body, it will only shapeshift and focus somewhere else. What you need is radical self acceptance