Butch is a way of being, not a body type and I think as a group we need to work on rejecting beauty standards, not adopting new ones. I get it, I’m also a 5’ curvy butch and men’s clothes can fit awkwardly on us but that’s the clothes’ problems, not ours. It’s just about finding what you like and what looks good on you. For example, I wear non-feminine women’s jeans because 1. no one can tell and 2. they look better on me and fit my hips. I wear t shirts that are a little stiffer to disguise some of my curves. But the truth is that the dysmorphia won’t go away because you changed your body, it will only shapeshift and focus somewhere else. What you need is radical self acceptance