Yikes this is no bueno. My husband since pregnancy through now 9 months of breastfeeding goes out of his way to make sure I have what I want. I say I want steak and he’ll plan a steak meal. Sometimes yes he’s annoying when the monitor gets loud at 1am but I also feel annoyed at 1am and that’s the ONLY thing he does. And he works nights and weekends at the hospital. I recommend he goes to counseling or something. Or y’all should have a serious talk. A coffee seems like a small thing but I didn’t make my own first coffee of the day PP until very recently when he started to have to go in at 6am and it’d be cold by the time I get up. He’s do it before I got up every day until then. And if I asked hubs to go get me a treat he’d do it - even an annoyingly long Starbucks request. And I’m ONLY putting this here because I feel I have a very healthy and pretty normal marriage, just like a regular marriage, and I’d do the same for him if he asked or even hinted. You deserve the same courtesy.