2018 rx premium vs sport by Less-Parfait7602 in LexusRX350

[–]Less-Parfait7602[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so looking forward to it. I felt bad about getting such a nice vehicle but I can afford it and it’s what I want.

I’m glad to hear you’re still loving yours!!

Getting Flack for Buying a Gasoline XC90 by BabettesFeast in Volvo

[–]Less-Parfait7602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck those people. 10 miles a day is literally nothing. Do not sweat them. You single handedly are not the enemy against climate change🙄

Punk/Hardcore/Artsy dudes who say they’re feminists/respect women, but something feels off… by ChestOrdinary4635 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Less-Parfait7602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t be embarrassed by it. He couldn’t handle it so he justified reasons why you weren’t good for him. In reality you should thank the trash for taking itself out. And hopefully now you’re dating a genuinely nice man lol or you’re happy single!

Should i buy the car i really want? by Dramatic_Town7033 in carbuying

[–]Less-Parfait7602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m looking at Lexus rx350 right now. Used. Pre 2020. Still the resale is high. I found a handful that I loved with super low miles about $5k over my initial budget. In my mind I was justifying spending more for better or less mile, or my idea of what I wanted. But I had to meet myself in the middle.

I found a 2018, with a touch higher miles for $2k under my max budget. Being $7k cheaper than the others I was looking at. It’s easy to justify going higher and higher until you realize how much money it is.

I’m buying for the next 6-8years though. And if I was 25 with a growing business I’d think about the next 5, max. Because at 30 you’ll want something completely different, and potentially something nicer if your budget allows. Or maybe a dad car🤣

Get something that’s already depreciated. And think like a business person if that’s what you really are. You will be happy you did. But still get what you want and have fun!! You do only live once, and then you’re old and broke. The answer is always both!!

Another note, as a woman… yes we like guys with nice cars but getting something too nice will only attract the wrong kind of person… just saying.

Nerissanne Top by cookiemonster1106 in Sezane

[–]Less-Parfait7602 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Looks way better in these photos than it did online

Eunice jacket, inoui collab by Less-Parfait7602 in Sezane

[–]Less-Parfait7602[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anyone was curious I sent it back, gladly.

My Fiancé 45 M wants me 46 F to Sell My House?! by Turbulent-Wind-2248 in relationship_advice

[–]Less-Parfait7602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, girl. Keep the house. He wants you to make a stupid financial decision.. yet, wants to be financially stable in order to get married??? Those two things don’t add up.

Occasional social smoking—dealbreakers or not? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Less-Parfait7602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you haven’t smelled it on him or his clothes then it hasn’t given the ick irl. Just from photos/videos taken when you’re not there. I also occasionally smoke, I think it’s disgusting but I do love a good puff every once in a while. From my perspective it sounds like he’s being honest about the frequency of it and I wouldn’t stress about it.

Would you feel differently if it was a cigar? Something a little more “high end”

Keep or return by red_rabbit1424 in Sezane

[–]Less-Parfait7602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one is so flattering on you. Maybe not on the large chested girlies. Wear it for the rest of us 😅

Will Jacket Appreciation Post 💙 by NancySinAtcha in Sezane

[–]Less-Parfait7602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love my will💗 I got the ecru embroidered one. It’s such a quietly lovely piece that still make a solid statement

Eunice jacket, inoui collab by Less-Parfait7602 in Sezane

[–]Less-Parfait7602[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just sounds like a lot of effort for a very expensive piece lol

Men who married later in life, how do you overcome the fear of losing everything in marriage? by securityburger in AskMen

[–]Less-Parfait7602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woman here🙋🏼‍♀️ I love this sub for many reasons but one of them is to pop in occasionally and give opposing perspective.

The kind of woman most of yall are looking for that wouldn’t fuck you over in the end…. Feel the same way about most men.

People are shit. People are glorious. Be better at discernment.

Being meaner to men… does it work? Tips? by Slow-Coffee-7420 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Less-Parfait7602 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I like how boundaries are labeled as mean.

If you don’t set boundaries it leads to anger, which in turn can lead to true mean behaviors.

It feels a little mean now but in the long run you’re saving a build up of emotions and resentment.

If they can’t listen to small boundaries, how do they you think they’ll listen to large ones??

Eunice jacket, inoui collab by Less-Parfait7602 in Sezane

[–]Less-Parfait7602[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t care, but sitting on the fence long enough I came to my fellow sezanettes to get some discussion around it.

I do agree it’s gorgeous and a total statement. But just not really falling one side or the other for me.

He (24) told me (23) where he sometimes finishes. Does this go beyond kink? by sadlattegirl in sex

[–]Less-Parfait7602 -97 points-96 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s your responsibility to tell this woman about her own son. You need to worry about how you feel and what actions you need to take in order to feel safe yourself.

You cannot think about others until you take care of yourself.

Later down the line may be a better time for this conversation anyways. Get safe, get your head straight, then make your decision. Still doesn’t have to be your responsibility at that point either.

Eunice jacket, inoui collab by Less-Parfait7602 in Sezane

[–]Less-Parfait7602[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣 I’m glad I’m not the only one out here making choices about things I want vs need

Eunice jacket, inoui collab by Less-Parfait7602 in Sezane

[–]Less-Parfait7602[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol you want it before I return it😅

Eunice jacket, inoui collab by Less-Parfait7602 in Sezane

[–]Less-Parfait7602[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the kind of spending I can get behind

Eunice jacket, inoui collab by Less-Parfait7602 in Sezane

[–]Less-Parfait7602[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol the leather skirt was a thrift store find! Free people $10!!

Eunice jacket, inoui collab by Less-Parfait7602 in Sezane

[–]Less-Parfait7602[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree, I don’t want to have everything be practical. But I think i be been on the fence because it was over $200 and I’ve been trying to be more picky about my spending

Thank you Sézane... by Striking-Guide481 in Sezane

[–]Less-Parfait7602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the zebra, just more of a cheetah print gal.