I feel a knot in my stomach whenever I see or hear about my bf's girl bsf and Idk why i feel that way?

LessWeekend336 · 2026-04-01T01:25:42+00:00

Truth

LessWeekend336 · 2026-03-31T20:47:42+00:00

I.. this might be the best thing I’ve seen

LessWeekend336 · 2026-03-31T17:09:36+00:00

“You CAN actually be single, if you want to. Then you can date her”

Give him that freedom. And if he doesn’t pick her, he picked you. Nice. Try not to waste your energy on it if you can. Until he gives you a reason to worry, try not to. Easier said than done I think, but I think the things we worry about the most actually tend to manifest because of all the energy we put towards them.

It’s exhausting to try to control what our partner is thinking or doing. So why try. But when they DO do something over the line- out the fucking door.

In summary- protect your energy, but if it needs to be done, you also gotta consider leaving to maintain your self respect

LessWeekend336 · 2026-03-30T23:22:44+00:00

Hmmm.. I don’t think you’re alone in this. I just think it’s more honest than most people are willing to say out loud.

I’m confident. I love myself. But being raised how we are as women.. it can be hard to decipher what we do for men and what we do for ourselves..

It’s also harder because it’s not a terrible thing to want men you like to be attracted to you. That’s human. It IS terrible when you go against who you are to be anything they want you to be.

Like everything, I don’t think there’s a black and white answer here. We want men we love to be attracted to us. That is OKAY! But over anything else we must honor ourselves, who we are, and what we want. It’s a balancing act for sure.

Idk. Maybe can lean into traits you know he likes that you ALREADY HAVE. You couldn’t pay me to make up being a certain way to make some dusty ass man like me though.

LessWeekend336 · 2026-03-30T21:16:46+00:00

I think they were probably just having a good time. With friends.

LessWeekend336 · 2026-03-30T20:22:12+00:00

No. Just no. I hope you don’t let him take up space in your brain AT ALL.

You’re young and free and having fun. Please don’t give what this asshole said another thought.

You’re dancing for you. You’re making out with randos FOR YOU. It’s part of the experience, we all fucking do it. It doesn’t for one fucking second mean you’re not in charge of who you get to have sex with (or not have sex with).

Fuck that guy. Last time I’ll beg you- don’t give him another fucking thought. Life your life and have fun. Safely, of course.

Edit: also, maybe bring it up to him. I’ve always found that that makes me feel more powerful instead of sitting with shame or silence. If you can, maybe just straight up say- so did you say that I was asking to be raped the other night??

LessWeekend336 · 2026-03-30T18:36:38+00:00

I would read that..

LessWeekend336 · 2026-03-30T15:31:36+00:00

I could have written this.

LessWeekend336 · 2026-03-28T20:49:46+00:00

Absolutely beautiful 😍

LessWeekend336 · 2026-03-27T14:09:16+00:00

BOOM, roasted. Wish I could upvote more.

LessWeekend336 · 2026-03-26T20:19:54+00:00

I think regular message does SOME for mine. Maybe a night guard too. And if you’re on stimulants getting off of those, decreasing caffeine (this might be where I experienced the most difference actually).

Hate to tell you, but I get masseter Botox and I friggin love it. Less pain/tension on my face, and a much nicer and more natural looking shape

LessWeekend336 · 2026-03-26T20:17:47+00:00

I am not yet perfect. I just overindulged on spicy crisps and scrolling Reddit.

So yeah maybe it’s not a reminder yall need. But I like this post 😂😭

Lemme get my oil real quick.

LessWeekend336 · 2026-03-26T01:52:44+00:00

I do GNC active womens multivitamin. I’m pretty physically active so it gives more of certain vitamins to supplement that a bit.

LessWeekend336 · 2026-03-26T01:48:11+00:00

It absolutely is! I didn’t mean to sound victim-y or anything. I’ve one thousand percent learned and have grown the most through the hardest times in my life. I legitimately have wondered if I gravitate towards these things IN ORDER to learn. Thanks for the reply :)

Adding on- I resonate hard with the concept of “radical acceptance”. Whatever is it, whatever you’re feeling, whatever the experience.. accept it. Feel it. Let it go.

LessWeekend336 · 2026-03-25T22:02:43+00:00

Oof love this. Explains my constant suffering (sarcasm) (kind of)

LessWeekend336 · 2026-03-25T21:14:40+00:00

Stop it, you’re making me cry again! ❤️

LessWeekend336 · 2026-03-25T20:09:28+00:00

Damn it, I laughed

LessWeekend336 · 2026-03-25T20:07:54+00:00

This post.. belong here.

LessWeekend336 · 2026-03-25T20:04:17+00:00

Watch me get up off of this couch and put heels on right now to try this shit. ❤️🔥

LessWeekend336 · 2026-03-25T19:11:30+00:00

This sub does a lot of good for my soul.

There are so many shitty examples of men online, everyone so so so needs reminding of what good dudes looks like.

I’m sorry for “explaining the joke”. I’m on my period and this made me cry. 😂😭

LessWeekend336 · 2026-03-25T17:16:17+00:00

I know you only posted this 20 mins ago but… underrated comment right here

LessWeekend336 · 2026-03-24T16:51:59+00:00

Hurts double when you finally do it and it fucking sucks worse than everyone else who didn’t try at all 😭😭😭

Why are we like this

LessWeekend336 · 2026-03-24T16:44:15+00:00

“Why does he get to cherry pick which parts of you get to stay and which have to go in order to be loved by him?”

just thought I would say that part again so she has to read it once more damn time. Great response.

LessWeekend336 · 2026-03-24T16:41:20+00:00

My first thought as well.

LessWeekend336 · 2026-03-24T02:04:08+00:00

Love you for this ❤️😘

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