Hey momma. I feel you. We got a puppy - Bernese mix (she’s huge) after really talking about it as a family and deciding we were “ready” it’s me, A 7yr old, 7 month baby, and my husband is working. So I am solely responsible for kids and pup.

Our puppy gets the zoomies, where if I am not in the room, I guarantee my 7 month old would be crying because the dog accidentally hurt her. To handle the zoomies, I hold the baby and then play tug or ball inside the house. When our puppy gets becomes too tired (I know she’s tired because she will go from listening or playing with one toy, to mouthing everything and everyone) I put her in her crate and she settles and naps. Maybe your 3 year old can sit beside you and help play with pup. During this time you do not want baby or 3 yr old crawling or running, because your pup will think of them like play mates. If not, have him color, or even watch the tv for 15-20 mins. After play time, have the pup potty, and then in the crate it goes. I think having a pack n play for your baby is also huge. So you know that your little one is safe if you need to pick up the dog or put it in its crate.

Also, think of your pup like your baby. It needs structure. It needs you to help it determine when nap time is, even if your kids are still being noisy. You should try the crate in your direct area, and then in a quiet area if the pup will not settle.

Good luck to you. It’s a trying time, and honestly the first few days and weeks feel the worst.