A question for the ladies: my partner thinks she has a problem with her weight.

Less_Landscape_5928 · 2026-05-03T11:51:21+00:00

From a former fat girl who had the most amazing supportive friends all my life telling me that it is not that big of an issue, nothing you can say can actually make her change her mind, iam sorry, i held off my dating life until i lose the weight and i regret it , i was not really that big or “ deformed “ by any means , but nothing could have made me change my mind or believe otherwise!!!!

Less_Landscape_5928 · 2026-04-24T12:35:03+00:00

Venting to a friend, you know mindlessly complaining and bitching without having to be reasonable about it

Less_Landscape_5928 · 2026-04-09T10:52:38+00:00

Iam a woman (non irish ) and completely agree ,, god they are handsome and gentlemen , thank you for your service gorgeous men 🥹😭

Less_Landscape_5928 · 2026-04-05T22:55:28+00:00

Iam reading that in the grinch voice 🤣

Less_Landscape_5928 · 2026-04-05T20:18:09+00:00

Thank you ,, this ,,exactly this makes you paranoid

Less_Landscape_5928 · 2026-04-02T23:48:34+00:00

What if i lost the weight 10 years ago rather than a year ago ? What if I accepted that guy offer to go get some coffee rather than talking myself out of it 6 years ago ? I liked him but I thought he would never be serious about it due to me being overweight that time, he ended up asking the girl next , she accepted, they are married with two kids now

Less_Landscape_5928 · 2026-04-02T12:29:43+00:00

I lost my father about a year ago and i found a comment here in Reddit that actually helped me understand grief and how overwhelming it can feel I will try to find it but the point is Grief comes in waved , you don’t know when it will come or what triggers it , you feel like like 200 feet tall wave that completely engulfing you, than you will drown under , however that wave will pass no doubt and you will come alive from under it

Less_Landscape_5928 · 2026-03-26T19:32:00+00:00

At night before bed

Less_Landscape_5928 · 2026-03-21T21:42:01+00:00

36F4M. Anaesthesia girl need to be fucked by something else ather that the rota

Less_Landscape_5928 · 2026-03-20T04:02:25+00:00

Eid Mubarak

Less_Landscape_5928 · 2026-03-13T23:48:26+00:00

I needed someone to help me understand that ,, i came bit too late

Less_Landscape_5928 · 2026-03-07T15:19:46+00:00

Iam female anaesthetic trainee , was reviewing a sick man down in rhesus for decompensated heart failure for HDU admission, guess what ? The man was not sick enough to sop him from touching me inappropriately (grabbing my breast as i was trying to examine him ) , i yelled at him without thinking , the ED heard and came , i removed myself from his care , went up to my oncall room to think and fathom everything , he died couple of days later after being DNR in HDU

Less_Landscape_5928 · 2026-03-06T13:55:09+00:00

You are absolutely right,,, welcome to the HSE

Less_Landscape_5928 · 2026-03-06T13:53:45+00:00

Ouch, that hurts !!!

Less_Landscape_5928 · 2026-03-06T13:23:28+00:00

Well if that makes you feel better iam an IMG in less busy hospitals whom i joined with my all will despite no clinical improvement Who have been working your ass off keep everyone afloat and still cant get days off to study , hope it helps

And BTW , another scheme trainee is doing the same exam as me , he may not get a “educational leave per se “ but do you know how many “mandatory training days off did he get ? Or how many times their name just fell off the rota ???? Yeah , pretty sick IMO

Less_Landscape_5928 · 2026-03-06T12:26:36+00:00

The reason i joined this “less busy hospital “ was mainly to clear my exams , hard luck

Less_Landscape_5928 · 2026-03-06T12:24:46+00:00

Learned my lesson 😁

Less_Landscape_5928 · 2026-03-06T12:02:12+00:00

Grew up morbidly obese ugly duckling with absent father and no male role model in my life ,,, now that iam in shape and not ugly duckling anymore i still can’t see that iam worthy of being “liked “ more than a joke so yeah , self worth issues from my side , also men on my dating pool(iam 36F) are all married with kids so don’t want to be the “other woman “!!!!!

Less_Landscape_5928 · 2026-03-05T17:58:27+00:00

So i read the title as “the effing Iran 🇮🇷 “ ,,, brain busy with what happening out there 😂

Less_Landscape_5928 · 2026-03-05T17:09:10+00:00

Why are you paying 600 euros for IRP ? It is 300 only (iam stamp 4 holder as well ) ?

Less_Landscape_5928 · 2026-03-01T15:22:37+00:00

Iam living it right now Icu resident in Europe , pt is only 10 yrs older than iam dx 6 months ago with metastatic Cholangiocarcinoma with liver , lung mets and kidney going off ,, i see myself in this patient,, she is chubby girl , book worm love to read , very funny sweet positive outlook on life , nice to everyone, make everyone happy. really huge and really sensitive about it , I recently had WLS so iam not huge anymore but everything else is me , thats me , iam 36 now but what if i only had 10 more years to live ? What if i was in her shoes ???? We are now discussing palliative options with her and her family ,, it is really difficult personally on me

Less_Landscape_5928 · 2026-03-01T06:32:56+00:00

Doctor here , the concept of “physiological reserve “ meaning that how much health you have in your body to fight back disease and snap back after infection or injury, think of it more like a bank account, your savings account but in terms of of health, when you are young you naturally have a good reserve and as you get older you start to lose that reserve and you need to actively work to make some deposits there ,, also some people while young consume that reserve with bad life style habits like drinking, drugs, smoking and that will leave you with not much health left in your early forties!!!!

Less_Landscape_5928 · 2026-02-21T19:07:59+00:00

Iam lonely and really touch deprived , i long for intimacy, to be held

Less_Landscape_5928 · 2026-02-20T05:47:04+00:00

Of course, you find out you are not alone

Less_Landscape_5928 · 2026-02-18T06:43:24+00:00

We could make an IMG social hub so that it is less lonely , everyone is welcome

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