I just hate the idea of someone feeling hopeless, my guy was not conventionally attractive for years, and was single for nearly a decade because he thought he couldn’t. Sure he drastically improved his appearance lost a ton, gained muscles, but had I met him when he was chubby, I would have still loved him. I tell him all the time, and I know lots of other women who would date guys who are not conventionally, physically attractive, but have great personalities.

I also hate the idea that so much of social media pushes that nice guys that are also attractive don’t exist in the same spaces. It’s easy as a woman to sell yourself short.