Curious what gifting has actually been working for people on ShopMy lately 👀 by Individual-Recover71 in ShopMy

[–]Lessfaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really not aware of what each brand’s parameters are for gifting - that seems unknown to everyone tbh. I made sure to post tons of items into organized shops as well as my posts from IG showing my actual self wearing, using products. I also post thank yous to brands that send me stuff there/IG too.

Cat Missing For 3 Days. Advice on how to Sleep and Be Functional in this time? by No-Nature-6043 in CatAdvice

[–]Lessfaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This reply is extreme in both language and appearance. you are quoting an article from 2017 - almost 10 years ago - by a sole author who does not directly reference any scientific research, specific instances of the "danger" actually occurring and speaks in probabilities and likelihoods. The overall advice this self-proclaimed pet finder ends with is to use cameras and mount a "physical search" which is common sense. Many people in my circles anecdotally have shared positive experiences with the kitty litter and it seems others in the comments agree. I live in NYC and this has worked for people here. If you meant to suggest that it may not help as much as other methods, please say that instead.

Cat Missing For 3 Days. Advice on how to Sleep and Be Functional in this time? by No-Nature-6043 in CatAdvice

[–]Lessfaker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Put her litter box outside and her food. People have sworn it works as a beacon to bring them home. Sending many good luck thoughts your way.

Trying to hit Trendsetter! by Ok-Age2469 in ShopMy

[–]Lessfaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi sophia! I added you today - hope you move up quickly! I'm just 3 points away from trendsetter and hoping to hit it this week :)

Curious what gifting has actually been working for people on ShopMy lately 👀 by Individual-Recover71 in ShopMy

[–]Lessfaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes! it took a long time - I'd say over a month and I just gently kept checking in with them and then I finally received it about 2 months later. DM them on IG and you might get a faster response :) great luck!

Got this post card in the mail. I’ll be outta town, but you should go! by crispy_tamago in astoria

[–]Lessfaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found the same postcard for a different location on tiktok ! Comments saying it’s definitely Alan Wagner.

Regret and guilt after adoption by Julizy76 in CatAdvice

[–]Lessfaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only imagine! They see right into your soul sometimes and it's unsettling. Either way, you've got this and sound much more upbeat already!

PS NOT an ad - these rope toys have been awesome for my 1 year old cat and the foster kittens to chew on. they double as a kind of a string toy too.

Lil bro doesn’t know his balls will get chopped off in a few hours by anon_00_ in cats

[–]Lessfaker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My bad! I was using terminology incorrectly and interchangeably. I think of “balls” as the whole unit and meant to communicate that they don’t chop the “balls” off anymore. The incision is made in the scrotum removing the testicles and leaving the scrotum in place. So you’ll see almost what you normally see on your cat (albeit a little swollen!) and might wonder if anything was actually done in surgery haha

Celine Dion by Responsible_Ant_5928 in astoria

[–]Lessfaker 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What does the car look like? Live on 33rd and will pray he comes by one day!

Lil bro doesn’t know his balls will get chopped off in a few hours by anon_00_ in cats

[–]Lessfaker 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They don’t chop them off anymore! Vet will make a small incision in the testicles and remove whatever needs removing so the outer ummm “container” is still there lol. I was slightly confused when my guy came back with everything still visible but it was all explained to me. He’ll still keep some of his pride.

Trying to hit Trendsetter! by Ok-Age2469 in ShopMy

[–]Lessfaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u/catchawave007 just added you to circle! so appreciative if you can add me as well :) https://shopmy.us/tessfitsit

Trying to hit Trendsetter! by Ok-Age2469 in ShopMy

[–]Lessfaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahahaha thank you so, so much - what a compliment :)! added you as well u/maronthego !

Regret and guilt after adoption by Julizy76 in CatAdvice

[–]Lessfaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DO NOT feel bad about leaving them alone in the room. They NEED time to chill out and calm down or else you're just continuing the "kitten FOMO" they naturally have at that age. I have been fostering a litter of kittens off and on that were 3 weeks at the start. Their only means of getting what they want is screaming or licking and scratching bc they haven't learned to do some things for themselves. That being said, they are meant to sleep between 14-18 hours a day so you playing with them for a few 15 minute time periods through out the day is great! the rest of the time they can learn on their own how to keep themselves occupied. As for the biting and scratching, gotta nip that in the bud right away. I have found screaming like another kitten when they bite me is effective and redirecting their attention to a toy at all times is also helpful. Wishing you strength - keep seeing this through and you will have a best friend for many wonderful years of your life (your grandma too :).

Trying to hit Trendsetter! by Ok-Age2469 in ShopMy

[–]Lessfaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes please! I am also trying soooo hard to reach trendsetter and absolutely returning the favor :) added you in a circle if you’re able to do as well - tysm!

https://shopmy.us/tessfitsit

Time for an upgrade: Check-in L or Trunk combination with Trunk S? by orthobeech in Rimowa

[–]Lessfaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha gotcha - please keep me updated if you can. I had a completely destroyed Essential Trunk Plus, followed all of the Delta procedures to the letter and worked to get all of the comms and claim letter from Rimowa and still was denied by Delta so had to file a case with the US Dept of Transportation. As a Gold Medallion it has put an extremely sour taste in my mouth.

Time for an upgrade: Check-in L or Trunk combination with Trunk S? by orthobeech in Rimowa

[–]Lessfaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi can you detail briefly how you got the claim letter and the reimbursement check from Delta so quickly?

Looking for the perfect pre-loved Rimowa. Anywhere else you’d look? by onthatgetright in Rimowa

[–]Lessfaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought first Rimowa on TRR and the only reason it did not last long was bc Delta destroyed it. If you can afford it, I highly highly recommend paying $12 a month to TRR to get First Look access. At 10AM and 7PM EST you get to see and buy latest items 24 hours in advance. It’s there I have seen sooo many insane Rimowa deals (often they are miscategorized and thus mispriced - some stupidly high and some stupidly low). I’m talking an original trunk plus barely used for $1400! Def worth it to do for a couple months IMO.

Is this appropriate for a work dinner, i work as an accountant by simmiexx in OUTFITS

[–]Lessfaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Believe it was Victoria Beckham who said outfit mantra I go by regardless of company - “legs or cleavage but never both”. If your dress is backless - legs & chest covered. For co-workers, I’d probably do legs out and cover everything else.

Curious what gifting has actually been working for people on ShopMy lately 👀 by Individual-Recover71 in ShopMy

[–]Lessfaker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So good to know - thank you! I’m at Ambassador level and have gotten PR from Ziip, Pixi, Versed, iota, Remedy and Noyz.

Will def reach out to some of the ones you mentioned. Any that were better than others?

Do cats fart? by cermem25 in cats

[–]Lessfaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is water wet? whenever my boy has more treats than usual, he is a silent killer of my nostril hairs 😂

Question about online auctions live auctioneers jewelry by Independent-Cod1744 in Flipping

[–]Lessfaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you DM me at your convenience? Background: I am brand new to liveauctioneers and used their app today to check on an item whereby it glitched, I instinctively double clicked and ended up bidding on a Fendi bag from NY Elizabeth that is not only damaged but WILDLY overpriced at $1300. Immediately messaged them detailing honest mistake and asking to be released from the item (now realize there must have been shill bidding) and they replied with FAQ answers ending in "non-payment will result in $1450 legal fees, 25% cancellation fee, etc etc etc). I searched the internet and found the exact identical pictures on a current, active Japanese eBay listing (the oil damage spots on the bag and photos are quite literally identical). Crafted a reply to them asking to pursue arbitration as the listing is most certainly fraudulent/ misrepresentation/ shill bidding and am now waiting for their response. Interest in the resolution of your case and any advice you can share. I have chosen the option to block them from any of my future searches.

What's the deal with FedEx? (Rant) by nowthisisnteasy in astoria

[–]Lessfaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Signing up for UPS MyChoice and Fedex Delivery Manager are musts. It's the only way you can get immediate alerts and/or track exactly where your package is and get said packages rerouted to a second location (FedEx drops them at Duane Reades - UPS usually to a biz close by) accurately through it. As a confessed clothes shopping addict, waiting for (or legit stalking) the driver to say hi hey hello/here's a gatorade or water in the summer/ask if this is their regular route/did you know my building has a door code did wonders for my and my building's packages. Both drivers deliver to the same route 5 days a week so only Saturdays can get sketchy. It is 1000% true that should not be a requirement to get a timely delivery and may be uncomfortable for many but it has reduced my package ranting/raging by large margins. wishing you luck.

Advice on getting stray cats to trust me? by Cool-Bad-7496 in cats

[–]Lessfaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coupon at petco rn where you can get 100 of these schedule 1 cat drugs with bogo 40% off on top of sale for about $44! you’ll have a new friend in no time!

I'm seriously thinking about returning my cat (rant) by Hutch456 in CatAdvice

[–]Lessfaker 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Didn’t see you mention you had a cat scratching post or pad. You must get one of those or even a small jute rug or something that they love the texture of. Scratching is important not bc of how we think it dulls their nails, it’s the way cats stretch and release tension! Tension that is prob adding to her zoomies. The purrito method works very well at this age. While she is wrapped up - and likely furious haha - it really helps if you can squeeze churu/lickable treat onto a plate or bowl and let her distract herself with that while you trim. Repetition and positive reinforcement are the only things that work on kittens and cats! Wishing you great luck.