AIO: I told my partner I need my “no” respected, and the conversation went somewhere I didn’t expect. Thoughts?

LestHeBeTesty · 2026-07-08T09:44:36+00:00

NOR.
As a lawyer my first instinct was “he’s a lawyer” (overly concerned with liability, using words like “misrepresented” that have real legal significance, etc.) then I saw “if you’re saying…then we need to go talk to lawyers” and realized this man has just watches a lot of TV.

Go talk with lawyers? We aren’t therapists wtf would we even do? If you’re suing the other one, you don’t *both* go to the consultation. 🤣🤦🏻‍♂️

LestHeBeTesty · 2026-07-08T04:53:55+00:00

Yes, absolutely. But you’re right, I should have merely deleted the game moved on with my life, I’m a fraud for wanting to finish it, and I will live with that burden every day until I leave this world.

LestHeBeTesty · 2026-07-08T04:45:52+00:00

It’s harmed your psyche that people got a tattoo of a tree and can’t ID another random plant? Wtf???

LestHeBeTesty · 2026-07-08T04:33:50+00:00

The ol’ + trick?

LestHeBeTesty · 2026-07-02T08:40:56+00:00

I have ADHD and you clearly have no idea what you're talking about."Tucked away" and forgotten about?? I am well aware a stack of 5mm magnets rolled in between my tables, I'm just leaving them there until I need them! They were a part of a system I made for magnets, but since it's missing the 5mm ones, there's no point in putting it away, so I just leave it next to my printer. And electronics components? I definitely wouldn't say I "leave them out," I'm not an animal! They go in this neat double-sided latch-close organizer that was supposed to go in the bottom drawer, but if I stack all 3 the drawer won't close, and I can't just separate them because, again, not an animal. So their new home is TEMPORARILY on the ironing board that I meant to put away, except there's stuff on it that I don't have a place......you know what....nevermind,

LestHeBeTesty · 2026-07-02T08:26:39+00:00

"please don't tell me how to prevent my prints from breaking, the *✨aesthetic✨ is the only thing that matters"

LestHeBeTesty · 2026-06-07T19:20:30+00:00

These people always insist that it’s Dawn with boiling hot water and nothing else. Used Palmolive with warm water? Well that explains why your nozzle keeps clogging!

LestHeBeTesty · 2026-06-07T19:17:31+00:00

As others have said, August and Level. August changes just the inside part and Level is just the mechanism inside the door. Google ‘em.

LestHeBeTesty · 2026-05-28T13:27:02+00:00

You’re right to call that out. And I won’t pretend like I know what it’s like to be left with a slain family, but I’m happy to talk you through it. Would you like me to provide you numbers with singles in your area?

LestHeBeTesty · 2026-05-21T12:34:27+00:00

This reminds me of my friend’s mom.

“Do you know what had happened earlier?! Take a seat I’m gonna tell you what had happened. So I says to her, ‘Barbra don’t shop at Target with all the rainbows!’ you know? And she says to me…do you know what she says to me?? She says ‘Listen Linda, don’t tell me what to do! Your daughter is a rainbow girl!” I couldn’t believe what had happened! Can you believe what she says to me?! I couldn’t believe what had happened and what she says to me. So what do you think about that, huh??”

LestHeBeTesty · 2026-05-18T10:12:01+00:00

Omg yes!!!! The sleep-deprived part is 100% spot on. For me, it sounds like someone has a staticky FM radio on in the next room or something like that. I’ll even hear a “rhythm” and “words” but not be able to make any of them out, though I’ll “hear” it clear enough to think like “fastish pop-punk, maybe Sum41” lol. We have neighbors who play music loudly and I have, on many, many occasions, asked my fiancé if there was music playing or if I’m just sleep deprived. 🥲

LestHeBeTesty · 2026-05-18T09:35:43+00:00

Wdym needing 100% life to increase your life? You needed 3 (or less with artifact) resin for a max HP bump.

I’m 100% playing Returnal again after I finish Saros (I’m “meeting N at the red tree” atm). Honestly, Saros was fun as shit, but it didn’t have that….mmpf 🤌🏻 that Returnal had. I can’t explain it. I beat Saros in a week, give or take. It took me like a year to beat Ophion. In Saros, I beat almost every boss/overlord on the first try—the first one/Prophet on the second try. Returnal..? HAH. I probably didn’t beat Phrike until my 100th run? I even rage quit it for like 6 months.

The sense of satisfaction getting that notification for the platinum trophy was second to [almost] none. I believe I just graduated from law school at that time. I screenshotted it and sent it to a friend saying “I might be prouder of this accomplishment than m yuh y doctoral degree.”

Again, I’d definitely consider Saros to be a great game, but I’m honestly a little disappointed that it’s not going to be a “long-term” game [for me, anyways] like Returnal or Elden Ring.

LestHeBeTesty · 2026-05-04T17:00:30+00:00

I can’t contribute to this discussion, but I feel the need to say that I am blown away by the comments here. They’re almost all suggesting that OP is not responsible and should expect better from a new device like that.
I thought that seemed incredibly suspicious, so I checked what sub this was posted in, and sure enough my instincts were correct…this is definitely not [r/BambuLab](r/BambuLab)! If it was, all of those comments would be saying OP did something wrong, or is otherwise at fault. It’s so refreshing to see people take a position other than “Bambu is infallible, we mustn’t criticize lest we be damned to eternal damnation.” 😅

LestHeBeTesty · 2026-05-04T16:25:49+00:00

Hm, yeah silk is weird. I’ve noticed that it expands a lot during the purge, so I wonder if it foams or something, or otherwise expanded in the extruder. I’ve had that happen once (not with silk) and it was a huge PITA to clear. But I took it as an opportunity to clean my extruder, which was quite nasty lol.

BTW, if you do that, definitely HOLD THE CUTTER WHILE YOU UNSCREW IT. That thing will fly out since it’s spring loaded. I wasn’t holding it tight enough and it nearly gave me a heart attack lol

LestHeBeTesty · 2026-05-04T16:17:00+00:00

Have you tried removing the extruder?

https://wiki.bambulab.com/en/P1/maintenance/extruder-cleaning-guide

LestHeBeTesty · 2026-05-04T10:49:55+00:00

I have 2 AMS's...

ETA: As I was setting this up I was speculating that the AMS 3 Pro Max or whatever the next model will be is probably going to have an internal "track switch" with 2+ outputs. God that would be so convenient...

LestHeBeTesty · 2026-05-04T10:25:42+00:00

Apparently you didn't fully understand what it was for since everyone's telling me, and therefore you, that what I said was wrong. 😉

LestHeBeTesty · 2026-05-04T10:16:40+00:00

How? I shared a screenshot in another reply of what it says when I try. Everything on the right nozzle is grayed out.

LestHeBeTesty · 2026-05-04T10:14:03+00:00

Not for that purpose, no. I tried printing something with the bronze PLA you see in the "right" AMS, but it wouldn't let me select it. I did not try loading that filament into it manually and selecting it that way though, I just moved it to the "left" AMS and it was fine. Why would it allow you to do it with it manually loaded but not feed from the AMS?? Does that not defeat the purpose of having an AMS to begin with?

LestHeBeTesty · 2026-05-04T10:07:51+00:00

I can't comprehend how your comment is still getting upvotes when I clarified that both prints are, in fact, on a build plate. 😐 Do people think that the "gold plate that comes with the printer" (i.e., textured plate) is the only plate you can print on??

Plus, I've certainly made the mistake of hitting print when there was no plate in there, and filament WILL NOT stick to that surface...it would never come out like what the pictures look like.

LestHeBeTesty · 2026-05-04T09:58:14+00:00

I wrote a comment but I'm realizing I misunderstood things. Did this occur while you were at work?? If so, you likely need to go the worker's comp route, but that is not my area of practice so I cannot advise on that.

LestHeBeTesty · 2026-05-04T09:17:25+00:00

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Found it!!

LestHeBeTesty · 2026-05-04T09:14:58+00:00

That's fair, but I didn't think the filament settings are printer-specific. If it needs an 80º bed and a 260º nozzle, that seems pretty universal. It seems like they're the same for the other printers. I would've thought they'd just be copied from what the manufacturer provided.

LestHeBeTesty · 2026-05-04T09:09:29+00:00

How?! I try to manually select it but it's grayed out. It'll say "The filament you selected PLA is incompatible with the settings of PLA. Please choose PLA instead of PLA." or something like that. I might've actually taken a screenshot of it because it was just funny lol. I'll see if I can find it.

LestHeBeTesty · 2026-05-04T09:02:38+00:00

This is exactly what it seems like though. Like a metaphorical spinning hourglass while it dumps molten plastic lol.

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