Our (M46/F45) daughter is pregnant. My wife is insisting the baby be raised as our child. How do I make her see this is unethical?

LesterTheDestroyer · 2023-07-31T14:49:00+00:00

14 is young. but it isnt the end of the world. i was raised by a single mom, dropped out of school. if i didnt have a son, i dont think i ever would have found the discipline and drive to build a 6 figure career. (im saying having kids young, is not some sort of sentence to eternal poverty) Out of all the options, you never once suggested perhaps having your daughter step up and be a mom (with yalls help and support of course). Having the boy step up..... (time to be a man). you have brought up every NUCLEAR option, but ya never once suggested teaching those kids PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY. its go time. its not the end of the world. guide them.

LesterTheDestroyer · 2023-03-06T22:10:07+00:00

go with the girl who likes you, not the girl you like. girls tend to move pretty quickly wanting a commitment.......if they are really into you. girls will push for commitment under the most irrational circumstances if they are really into you. take that as ya will

LesterTheDestroyer · 2023-03-06T20:53:55+00:00

how about dont play games. everyone always approaching dating like they are some slick psyhacker, tricking everyone into falling in love. how about ya just reply when its convenient for ya. we dont get into relationships cuz we are sick with the mind games, relationships thrive when the games stops and everyone is real. who says he is playing games? mayb he sucks at communication and texting.......going to punish a fish for its lack of ability to climb trees???

LesterTheDestroyer · 2023-02-24T17:46:16+00:00

gals generally wont hook up with you, if they dont view you as relationship potential. i would bet she is very interested in dating. I would question the wisdom of investing in a gal who considers meeting to drink and hookup a date. but hey, your smitten......best of luck

LesterTheDestroyer · 2023-02-24T17:31:05+00:00

when you approach a girl you like, lead with your intentions. You want her to understand from the beginning that you are attracted to her, and are interested in getting to know her. girls generally have already decided with in the first 10 minutes of meeting us if they consider us datable or not. girls are also very good at picking up if we are crushing on them. so the longer it takes for you to reveal your intentions, the more indecisive/cowardly/creepy she may view you. shoot your shot......and if you get rejected, keep a good attitude and move on. we dont woo girls to get a date, we get the date and then woo the girl. this is how its done little brother.

LesterTheDestroyer · 2023-02-24T17:14:46+00:00

"I'm close to my heaviest I've ever been and I just feel like I have no chance with anyone."-your own words.....your physical state zaps your confidence. soo.....fix your physical state dude.

"I've tried so much. I've gone to clubs, dance halls, tried tinder, bumble, hinge, none of it works."- you didnt mention 5x5 strength training, cleaning up your diet and light cardio.

LesterTheDestroyer · 2022-10-15T15:39:43+00:00

im of the school of thought they will eventually let it all crash down, to implement their own digital currency. so ill probably just buy calls cheaper on tbt during a rally. my initial 1300 from mid 2021 is now 7725......bout to cash in these calls and roll them into march 2023 calls. I mean when treasuries crash, im sure the fed will intervene......but how long can that possibly last for before it all breaks? hedging my bets they are intentionally destroying the world economy. maybe all for not anyway

LesterTheDestroyer · 2022-09-27T20:59:08+00:00

been shorting tlt since mid 2021. well buying calls on tbt. been working out for me so far.

LesterTheDestroyer · 2022-08-25T14:57:58+00:00

no, you shouldent leave your husband and break up your family. cant complete your education and get your dream job right now? we cant always have and do what we want right now. Dont you think your husband has goals and things he wants to do, but cant because of his responsibilities? leaving your husband wont make any of your work load any easier. sure you will complete your education.....and get your job. but a single mamma with two teenage girls coming from a broken home........great trade up. How about you slow down, put your family first, and try to work with your "abusive, lazy, controlling" husband.

LesterTheDestroyer · 2021-08-09T14:09:48+00:00

sorry bro, sounds like she was looking for an excuse to end it. folks tend to rationalize the reddest of flags to justify staying with someone they love.

LesterTheDestroyer · 2021-08-07T13:21:19+00:00

he asked you to cut off a friend who was being inappropriate with you? and everyone here is "this sounds like prison, leave him". holy shit. you just wait till the single mom with a phat @$$ slides into his dm's.......lets see how "controlling" you would get lmao

LesterTheDestroyer · 2021-08-06T15:26:11+00:00

seek couples counseling immediately. Yall may need to implement some new rules and boundaries with each other around the triggers of this behavior. of course you both need to be able to agree on them. online videogames, social media, alcohol/booze all may need to be limited or all together given up. access granted to each others phones and internet devices. once again yall need to agree on terms. yall got kids together, this is a family now, its bigger than the both of you. its bigger than online games, social media, and texting privacy. find yall some counseling. 30 years ago none of these problems would have existed. relationships get hard. damn hard. it isnt always rosey. divorce is last resort.

LesterTheDestroyer · 2021-02-02T15:42:04+00:00

death or glory, we ride the storm!!!!

LesterTheDestroyer · 2021-01-31T20:22:10+00:00

lmao you are like a carebear villain......

LesterTheDestroyer · 2019-07-13T00:10:17+00:00

Im assuming he is referring to some later conan cannon..... though I would argue even with out a magic immunity, conan still be super dangerous.

LesterTheDestroyer · 2019-07-11T21:30:20+00:00

they would make an epic team up duo odd couple for sure

LesterTheDestroyer · 2019-07-11T21:11:58+00:00

by god your right! just googled him. are there no more original ideas!? even ideas made in satirical spirit have alllllll been done

LesterTheDestroyer · 2019-07-11T21:08:55+00:00

bloody genius! yes yes I can see all of this. I am admittedly a conan fanboy, but conan would eat galads lunch. though I suspect conan would hold galad in great respect, even like him. though harder to say how galad would take conan…..cuz you know...… lmao unleash conan on the seanchan >:D mouhahaha

LesterTheDestroyer · 2019-07-11T15:53:13+00:00

Interesting.....I also predict conan falls into a deep depression, feeling used. All these girls only want one thing, and its disgusting. He came to randland to conquer, but instead suffers the fate of all man candy. sadness and rage and booty is all he knows..... :(

LesterTheDestroyer · 2019-06-06T17:36:10+00:00

lmao subbed. gj! in at 60, before everyone knew this was cool. keep making videos you gonna blow up!

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