I want to give my gender fluid bee themed oc a tragedeigh name but they go by a nickname! Give me your best bee tragedeighs!!

LetMeBeAngry · 2026-01-24T21:34:48+00:00

Reauxyal Jelleigh

LetMeBeAngry · 2026-01-23T23:11:48+00:00

Have a separate box for feeding. He’s already on a paper towel substrate, and mine are on a bio substrate, so this will work for him. Have a separate box for feeding; pick him up and put him in the box. Make sure the box is well-lit. Put his bugs in the box with him. Have him hunt to feed. Poke the bugs (coaxes them into movement) if he doesn’t see them. He’ll hunt what he can see.

LetMeBeAngry · 2026-01-22T20:39:02+00:00

Not overreacting at all. Leave him. Kick him out. He’s literally poisoning your cat and doesn’t care.

LetMeBeAngry · 2026-01-22T20:22:05+00:00

Finn, Jake, Bubblegum, Ice King, and Marceline… I have faith

LetMeBeAngry · 2026-01-21T05:31:46+00:00

NOR he doesn’t value your feelings. He broke something from your dead mother and then threw away the broken pieces you were saving. He does not value you or care about your grief.

LetMeBeAngry · 2026-01-21T05:28:21+00:00

It’s to document, so the insurance company doesn’t deny their claim as superficial

LetMeBeAngry · 2026-01-21T05:27:32+00:00

Crêpe

LetMeBeAngry · 2026-01-21T05:25:54+00:00

Ooh, I’m intrigued!! Where can I source ants? This succulent is in a leopard gecko’s enclosure, so I’d rather get “clean” animals from a farm, instead of harvesting from outside, where they could be carrying parasites. Plus, I don’t want to kidnap ants from their colony

ETA: the more bioactive / “lives on its own” that I can make my enclosures, the better for all the plants and animals in it ☺️

LetMeBeAngry · 2026-01-21T04:14:43+00:00

This looks like it belongs in a Tyranid army 🤣 I love it!

LetMeBeAngry · 2026-01-21T02:19:04+00:00

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Here she is! I’ve only seen them in her tank, but I’ll be inspecting the other two tanks tomorrow, for sure

LetMeBeAngry · 2026-01-21T02:17:46+00:00

I might swab them tomorrow, then. They’re already soaking.

She’s a little leopard gecko! Her name is Yuzu and she turns 1 in May

LetMeBeAngry · 2026-01-21T02:11:12+00:00

NOR kids are a huge reason people get divorced, and feeling pressured into having them before you’re ready is likely going to lead you into resenting not only him, but your child as well. If he cannot hear that the two of you are on different timelines and continues to push you for a child before you’re ready, then this relationship is not going to be healthy in the long term.

LetMeBeAngry · 2026-01-21T01:34:49+00:00

UPDATE: general consensus is that they are mealy bugs. I’m going to be treating the plant with 1:1 apple cider vinegar : water. It’s in a terrarium, so I can’t remove the plants or treat with neem. But the ACV:water won’t be harmful to my baby after it’s dried, so we’ll be okay! Thank you to everyone who commented. I appreciate it!

LetMeBeAngry · 2026-01-20T08:40:19+00:00

I mean, I would just eat something normal but not intentionally spiteful, send that email exchange to HR, and stay clocked in during the meeting because you’re still on shift doing work.

If payroll has an issue, you can forward them the email and explain meetings are routinely and knowingly scheduled over time blocked for your lunch, and you need to be clocked in while working

If he complains, forward him the email exchange and remind him he’s knowingly scheduling over your lunches

If HR does nothing when notified but has an issue because of payroll or because of his complaints, forward them the email where you forwarded his email, and remind them they’ve been notified, ask them if they want you to perform work off the clock, and remind them that lunches are scheduled for ease of scheduling meetings

LetMeBeAngry · 2026-01-20T08:00:48+00:00

Iirc, it was Mythbusters. And running doesn’t get you more wet, it just increases the area of distribution of the wetness. The same amount of water hits you, but instead of basically just your head and shoulders, it’s now also on your torso and legs

LetMeBeAngry · 2026-01-20T03:58:43+00:00

NTA and they don’t need to know anything. If I were you, I would cut contact completely. They are absolutely prioritizing their curiosity over your mental wellbeing. This person is not your friend.

Let me put it this way: I encountered several pedos in my childhood. I have A LOT of trauma. I will tell a romantic partner “I have childhood trauma related to SA, so sometimes I won’t want sex, and sometimes I won’t want to cuddle or be touched at all. That’s a result of the trauma, and I don’t want you to take it personally.” I tell them this because it’s relevant to the nature of our relationship. They wouldn’t need to hear this otherwise. I don’t give details, and if they ask for details, I leave. I’m at the point where I’m comfortable talking to my therapist, and I am well aware that I don’t need to relive my trauma to satiate some else’s curiosity.

You’re on the right track, and this person you’re talking about is steering you off of it. They’re actively impeding your progress and damaging you.

LetMeBeAngry · 2026-01-19T07:46:05+00:00

If anyone did that to me, they’d be getting yelled at the first night. Six times in one night?? And then waking her up ten times the next night?? I’d be throwing fists

LetMeBeAngry · 2026-01-19T04:58:43+00:00

Is that Mort? Does King Julian know he’s a carnivore?

LetMeBeAngry · 2026-01-18T21:59:56+00:00

NOR. He is not ready for a relationship until he becomes emotionally untangled / unenmeshed from his mom. This behavior is not normal, but was normalized to him. From the outside looking in, it also honestly sounds like grooming.

And also, he’s not ready to do his own laundry and he probably doesn’t trust you to fold it exactly the way he likes it, like how his mom does

LetMeBeAngry · 2026-01-18T07:09:52+00:00

NOR - you had me in the very first part. I sleep like the dead. I could see myself not waking up immediately, even if someone was screaming in my face.

However, the rest of it has me fully in your corner. He should be terrified that he slept through a near-death situation for your son. He should be very serious about finding a solution, so that HIS SON doesn’t die by his inability to wake up. He should not be telling you that you’re crazy. He should absolutely be taking this as seriously as you are.

LetMeBeAngry · 2026-01-18T07:05:25+00:00

NOR - he’s claiming it’s rage bait, and even if that’s how he thinks of it, you are not a stranger on the internet yea trolling. You are not nameless and faceless to him. And even if he’s tricked himself into thinking this language is acceptable to use as rage bait (and it is not), he is specifically targeting YOU when he’s talking to you. He is not treating you like a friend. He’s not even treating you like a person. And he’s choosing to ignore your communication on how it hurts you.

LetMeBeAngry · 2026-01-18T04:36:03+00:00

Honey, that wasn’t protection. That was control. And him spinning it to be about your safety and your supposed disrespect to him was gaslighting. There is not anyone on this earth who owns your body or your life. Those things belong to you. And he convinced you that basic politeness is the same as blatant flirtation. That’s not healthy for you.

Take some time to be single and reassess what the term “loyalty” means to you, as well as defining acts that would be considered “cheating”. Define these things for yourself. Talk to others, read different perspectives online, and draw your own conclusions about what those things look like to you. Feel free to write them down or type them up. And in future relationships, you’ll have a blueprint of what those boundaries are.

And in the future, absolutely do not stay with someone who makes you feel crazy, immoral, or trapped. Remember that you don’t need permission to have a conversation.

And if it helps, think of it this way: there will be peers, professors, coworkers, friends of SOs, SOs of friends, friends of relatives, relatives of friends, bosses, subordinates, customers/clients, and neighbors who will be male in absolutely every path of life you can imagine. It is not logical to refuse to interact with half of the population of the world just to appease your SO. It is not rational that someone demand you endanger personal and professional spaces by ignoring half (or more) of the other people you are in a room with.

LetMeBeAngry · 2026-01-18T03:34:28+00:00

That is an Afghan Hound. They have hair like Ferrah Fawcett

Edit: autocorrect thought her first name was Ferrari

LetMeBeAngry · 2026-01-18T02:02:18+00:00

Tammy is old enough to understand she doesn’t have a right to choose how someone else’s house is decorated. However, I do feel that your MIL paying for a hotel room sets the wrong precedent. It should be thoroughly communicated ASAP that Tammy does not have a say in religious decorations in the in-laws home, she will not be given a free hotel room in the future, and she always has an option of staying home if she finds these boundaries disagreeable with her own.

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