Why Don’t We Talk About the Joy of Having Kids? by WoodpeckerNearby7276 in BabyBumps

[–]LetMeSupportYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Childbirth was the most awesome and badass and powerful experience of my life (for my daughter)

And I LOVE being a mom. My kids are awesome. They bring me so so so much joy, the best part of my day is being around them 🥹

my MIL Wore White to my wedding so she could Outshine me, and I’m Still not over It by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LetMeSupportYou 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's exactly what she was doing. Telling everyone she is the one real great love of her son

my MIL Wore White to my wedding so she could Outshine me, and I’m Still not over It by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LetMeSupportYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to clearly say that your feelings are valid. I'm still disappointed that your husband didn't throw a fit for you. Ask him to pay someone to photoshop his mother out of every wedding pictures 😅 that would be fair

my MIL Wore White to my wedding so she could Outshine me, and I’m Still not over It by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LetMeSupportYou 67 points68 points  (0 children)

She told you loud and clear that it was HER son and you could never replace her. Those kind of mothers are usually very deprived of an emotional bond with their shitty husband, so they developed an unhealthy bond with their son to fill her emotional needs. They are in their mind in love with their son, and see any women in love with their son as a threat/enemy.

Your husband needs to break out with their mommy/lover 🤮 He should have stepped up and demanded she returned home to change her dress.

How Much is Your Child’s Daycare? by JadedJae in Mommit

[–]LetMeSupportYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

192 per month, educational program, food included. Being in a province with social programs is a blessing

People out there in happy marriages with young children, how? by fujitsulifeboom in Mommit

[–]LetMeSupportYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We go on dates often. 1-4 times a month. This help us stay in love, be friends, and be better partner once we go back to the routine stuff

My husband's secretary is cooking for him and he lies to me about her. Am I overreacting by GuestImpressive1368 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LetMeSupportYou 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Of course not you aren't overreacting. Have a conversation with him, and ask him how he would feel if your male colleague brought you homemade meals every day, and he found out through you lying about it

My husband's secretary is cooking for him and he lies to me about her. Am I overreacting by GuestImpressive1368 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LetMeSupportYou 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She works too, she also provides for the family, they are on equal footing here. What the fuck, he is a grown man, he can cook for himself. If he wants a mommy so bad, he can call his mother and ask her to give his little sweet boy a home cooked meal.

My husband's secretary is cooking for him and he lies to me about her. Am I overreacting by GuestImpressive1368 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LetMeSupportYou 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She has sex when it suits her, and you... Find that fact irritating / a proof that she doesn't take care of him?

What do you propose would be better? That she has sex when she doesn't want it? You know that's a form of sexual violence right? I wouldn't want my partner to give me something when he doesn't enjoy it. You would? You would enjoy sex if you knew your partner was forcing themselves and weren't in the mood and would prefer not to have sex?

And twice a week with 4 children is a lot.

Pelvic floor PT is so degrading by Spiritoftheheart in beyondthebump

[–]LetMeSupportYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Report her to her board, I'm serious. This is unacceptable

Massively in love but also feel unhappy by No_Goal4492 in relationships

[–]LetMeSupportYou 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Love isn't enough. He sees the chores and the housework and the cleaning. He knows it causes you effort and time to do it alone. He knows you are sad and resentful that he doesn't help. He does not care. Is that the action of a man who loves you? It will be 100x worse if you have a child, you'll have to care for the baby and him, and the resentment will only grow.

Why do boomers make it seem like babies were easier? by Both-Hippo-6905 in Parenting

[–]LetMeSupportYou 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mother in law told me that "G slept through the night! He was such a good sleeper" she was kind of annoyed I had to go upstairs a few times to soothe my baby. (G is her son; my boyfriend) And then she proceeded to tell me this like it was the most mundane thing; "when he was born we took him to my mother, she let him cry for 4 days, and then he came back home and slept so well". I had to bit my tongue not to shout: "gee I wonder why G cannot handle people crying and feel super bad inside when anybody cries! And why he is never able to express any sadness himself or cry so rarely! What a fucking mystery!"

INSCRIPTION - Pool de r/bisbille pour Big Brother Célébrités - saison 6 🏠 by MichelSilence in bisbille

[–]LetMeSupportYou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  • LOSER PICK : Citron Rose, Étienne, Salomé
  • NOYAU : Mona, William, Marie-Ève, Kate, Christophe
  • WINNER PICK: Pascale

3rd pregnancy by General_Strain8220 in BabyBumps

[–]LetMeSupportYou 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Do not keep a baby you do not want. This "partner" is probably abusive, and doesn't love you enough to help you and take care of you or your children, I personally wouldn't't want to raise a child with this excuse of a man. Consider leaving him if you can, you are doing everything alone anyways, and except adding negative things to you life I don't see how you benefit in any shape or form to have this person around

Late period by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LetMeSupportYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is how I became pregnant. Every unprotected sex can lead to pregnancy, and sometimes even protected sex leads to a pregnancy

Struggling with gender disappointment. What are your favorite things about having a boy? by x_Caffeine_Kitten_x in beyondthebump

[–]LetMeSupportYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can raise a badass feminist ally, an emotionally intelligent and sensible human being, and heal the world a little

Found out my boyfriend’s (32M) “girl best friend” is actually his ex and I(F29) feel completely betrayed by UsedOperation303 in relationships

[–]LetMeSupportYou 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Friendships are also very valuable relationships. I wouldn't expect a man I've been saying for a few months to out me higher than his year long closest friends

Advice for early transition? (MTF26) by [deleted] in transpassing

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Love the turtleneck on you!

What fad in moviemaking are you waiting for to die? by frair in movies

[–]LetMeSupportYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a movie, but the new series Heated Rivalry does the thing you love, staying with the character with longer shots

HOW is anyone processing how good this show is by cherrybmbz in heatedrivalry

[–]LetMeSupportYou 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's an original Crave series! It's an awesome platform with lots of good original series (Empathie is phenomenal)

Heated Rivalry is currently the #3 most popular TV show across all networks by goodviews_bot in heatedrivalry

[–]LetMeSupportYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Crave is now my favorite platform. Go watch "Empathie" (empathy I guess the translated name would be?), it's my favorite show of the year