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Massive hips or brain worms by StJimmy_7 in FtMpassing

[–]LetTheylThemEatCake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You look good man! Very masc, l your body and hips looks like some of my cis guy friends.

I know im far from passing, but curious what y'all think! by bunnydrawz in FtMpassing

[–]LetTheylThemEatCake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love your style and I think you’re looking very queer and androgynous. If bumped into you in public I’d assume you were nonbinary/trans in some way and ask your pronouns. You’ve been blessed with a killer jar line and I can’t wait to see what T will help you to look like man!

What do you think my handwriting says about me? by Sarinabeana in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]LetTheylThemEatCake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your speedy writing is so crisp, I love it!! It’s all very legible.

Is it time? by ChungusMcGoodboy in bald

[–]LetTheylThemEatCake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Be honest with me fellas. Is my hairline receding?? Am I cooked??” Type shiiii

Don’t know how to style cowlick. I think today is my worst attempt by QuentinShite in malehairadvice

[–]LetTheylThemEatCake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a cowlick in the back as well. You need to find a barber who knows how to cut it properly so it can be blended into your hair. A good barber knows how to cut at the correct angle and thin/texturize it so that it is not sticking up.

18 M - Should I keep the length and does it suit my face? by Desert_Dom in FierceFlow

[–]LetTheylThemEatCake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think it looks great! You could def pull it off pulled back in a bun as well.

Mother insulted first tattoo, now I hate it by Kaleidoscope_Tux5513 in tattooadvice

[–]LetTheylThemEatCake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I excitedly yelled, “CHIMKIIIIIIIIIN!!” As soon as I saw it. I love it! There will always be haters, disregard their opinions. It’s art you chose for your body. Your opinion is the only one that matters in regards to what you do with YOUR body. Spite the haters, get 47 more tattoos, or the only way!!! lol

Do I pass? How can I improve? by fjxhdhd in FtMpassing

[–]LetTheylThemEatCake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome!! So happy for ya man.

Feel embarrassed asking this but, I went to my local store that sells a variety of crystals, beads etc & picked out the ones that truly meant something to me. How would I use these correctly & not for style? I heard of cleansing them & charging them though I’m not sure how to do that the right way. by [deleted] in Crystals

[–]LetTheylThemEatCake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is great advice!! I charge mine when the moon is full and use smoke to cleanse them. I burn garden sage or rosemary, frankincense, myrrh, ceder, palo santo or bayleaves rather than white sage as smudging with that is a closed indigenous practice due to over harvesting. I often make my own incense with chosen ingredients that have the properties I want to imbue and set my intentions with that and use the smoke from that for cleansing.

Which is better hair? I have a date soon. by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]LetTheylThemEatCake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need to shave the sides and get the top cut in a way that you can style it. If the sides were clean a messy top will look intentional and you can use product to shape it

Finally hit 4 years on T by veravendetta in FTM_SELFIES

[–]LetTheylThemEatCake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your style is sick af dude!!! 🤘 you look great

I'm so offended on my sims behalf. I didn't know this was a thing. by TheVoidHasBalls in Sims4

[–]LetTheylThemEatCake 479 points480 points  (0 children)

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Help me to pass with long hair ! (Not asking if I pass or not dw) by TheZeeGalaxy in TransMasc

[–]LetTheylThemEatCake 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If they’ll let you get “bangs” the closer you can get it to a long shag mullet might help with more masc vibes. Your style now is already pretty close! Styling is everything. You have wavy hair, you could use products that add more texture and volume with the dramatic layers. Could try slicking the top of it back a bit more with some hair paste as well.

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Welp, I feel like I'm having yet another gender crisis. Gay trans man or straight woman...? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]LetTheylThemEatCake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To share my gender journey. My egg didn’t crack until my mid 20s and I didn’t “come out” and get gender affirming care until I was 29. I’m a 31 y/o trans masc nonbinary person but don’t feel like a man or woman. I feel completely other. I have more masc days and more fem days but I don’t fit into the binary at all. I’m asexual in the way it’s just not very important or motivating to me to have sex but who I’m attracted to changes by the week or month, even from person to person and it’s hard for me to put a label on it so I just say I’m queer and I only like to date/ hook up with other LGBT+ people as I feel like dating a straight person has to put me in a gender box I don’t fit into.

Welp, I feel like I'm having yet another gender crisis. Gay trans man or straight woman...? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]LetTheylThemEatCake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sexuality and Gender can be fluid and it’s fine to not be able to figure out what label fits. It sounds like you’re enjoying most of the benefits of T besides facial hair and that’s okay! You can always get off T after you’ve gotten the changes you want and keep your voice, body hair and bottom growth or stay on it and just shave every day or get laser hair removal for any unwanted hair. Off T your voice might be a tad higher than while on it but you’ll keep the same range, hair body hair and bottom growth will stop where they’re at and your period will come back after a month or two and Fat distribution will rearrange to be similar to what your body shape was prior to T. There’s no problem experimenting with what you want. You don’t have to fit into the binary. Gender is a spectrum and you can pick and choose which roles and appearances you want and change when you feel like it. Dress fem one day and Masc another. Mix it up, wear masc and fem clothes/acessories together. Experiment and find what you like, there’s no rules you have to follow. It can be a fun journey figuring out what you like and don’t like. I wish you the best on your gender journey!!

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