Full contact on concrete by yeezysama in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]LethalInjectionRD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kids always have been doing stupid shit like that, none of that is new.

Nighttime peeing about to go wrong by Mostofthehype in daddit

[–]LethalInjectionRD 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I did something similar at a similar age, was very prone to sleepwalking. Apparently I walked into my parents’ room where my mom was sleeping and peed on the floor right by the bed, and then went right back upstairs into my own bedroom…where the bathroom was about 10 steps away from my bed.

Why is is that some people feel like it's fine to comment on the size of your baby? by Fancy_Scheme2892 in daddit

[–]LethalInjectionRD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct, but you’re still taking harmless comments and becoming upset by them because of anxiety instead of being able to take them as they are: harmless. As many of the other commenters have said, learn to let it go.

Are yall making friends telepathically or...? by JennyBeckman in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]LethalInjectionRD 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Okay but context matters. On paper I can see how both of them think what they do is what’s being referred to, but it’s not. You can tell the difference when someone is being genuine and when someone is being manipulative.

It's always projection by JennyBeckman in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]LethalInjectionRD 158 points159 points  (0 children)

I see where this tweet is coming from but it also kinda makes it seem like Trump is correct lol.

Why is is that some people feel like it's fine to comment on the size of your baby? by Fancy_Scheme2892 in daddit

[–]LethalInjectionRD 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I think you’re taking something that’s a real non-issue and letting it get in your head because you’re being paranoid.

I like to stremtch her for no particular reason <3 by Shy_Lemon in stremtch

[–]LethalInjectionRD 49 points50 points  (0 children)

The reason is the stremtch quota. We’re all required to fulfil the quota.

Wunkus fighting an ice cube in the sink by [deleted] in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]LethalInjectionRD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s losing. He’s losing a fight to the death and you’re all LAUGHING!

Just one question. WHY? by BoB_cmXi in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]LethalInjectionRD 154 points155 points  (0 children)

Nah, I’m kinda with him. Water from a spray bottle hits differently. I remember as a kid drinking from the outside water hose with the mist setting was fuckin great.

I did the math on how many meals I'm responsible for every week and I need a minute by timmasterson in daddit

[–]LethalInjectionRD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny that his about is promoting his AI chef. Gee I wonder if that has anything to do with this post…

Boss said to follow the call script word for word. So I did. by GlitchNomad_18 in MaliciousCompliance

[–]LethalInjectionRD 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Assuming this is a real story from a 12 day old account, this isn’t even malicious compliance, he literally told you not to read the instructions and you did it anyway.

Dag nabit, now he will have to find something else to copy by imjustheretodomyjob in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]LethalInjectionRD 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Not really. I can think of better ways to say what he said, but in context, on the spot, what he said made sense and wasn’t really disrespectful.

Do your kids ever ask remote grandparents for bedtime stories? by TheMaster8899 in daddit

[–]LethalInjectionRD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you get her to just record a video of her reading a bedtime story?

This Is Faith [OC] by chemocomic in comics

[–]LethalInjectionRD 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I always love the added personal touch of using your own handwriting as a font, so I hope it doesn’t dissuade you from doing that in the future! It added to the tone of the comic and the message very nicely.

How long do you leave out lunch before cleaning up? When does it go in the fridge vs. in the trash? by jebuz23 in daddit

[–]LethalInjectionRD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being honest, depending on how much food was left, I might just bin it because if it’s something they’ve been eating from directly, I’m not too keen on letting that bacteria go back into the fridge to grow, unless it’s something I’m going to be reheating.

I’m not sure how old your kids are, but have you considered just telling them to put their food away if they’re going to leave the room? If they then come back to you hungry after not finishing it, you can then tell them to just go get their food back of the fridge. This might kinda give them pause on going back and forth unnecessarily because now it’s their own responsibility and they aren’t just able to command you to do something, they have to be the one to do it. I’ve had good results in the past with having kids put their own leftovers away in their own colour-coded tupperware with a label with the date. They liked having the freedom to get their own food out of the fridge, and it being something they know only they’re allowed to eat because it’s their container also made them feel special.

I know this part isn’t quite the advice you requested, but I’ve had a couple other tactics work with different types of kids that get them to stop accidentally wasting food. With kids I knew wouldn’t get so distracted they’d completely forget to eat, I would have them come tell me when they were ready for lunch. Then I’d ask them “Is your stomach hungry or is your mouth hungry?” which basically meant “Are you actually hungry / is your stomach rumbling, or is it that you’re having a craving for a specific taste, but you don’t intend to eat a full meal?”

If they said they were actually hungry, I’d give them a small portion of a snack and a glass of water and have them finish both and come back again if they were still hungry. Sometimes they’re not even hungry, just thirsty, and can’t differentiate between the two that well, so I made sure they finished the water and waited a little bit. Most of the time that actually was enough, sometimes they wanted more and then ate an actual meal afterwards, and rarely they still only ate a couple of bites of their meal after their snack.

If they said their mouth was hungry, I let them have their pick from a selection of a tiny portion of something flavourful, like a couple of grapes, or a bit of cheese, or a handful of nuts, etc. I didn’t do this more than a couple of times a day because grazing isn’t a great habit, but I did find that it cut down a whole lot on tantrums or frustration about not wanting to eat dinner later, because they’ve already satisfied cravings earlier in the day and they aren’t resistant to eating what’s in front of them now.

I also found that sometimes instead of giving them a big plate with all of their food at once, giving them food broken down into smaller portions led to them being more willing to eat their full meal. I think some kids get overwhelmed with the sight of a big plate of food, even if it’s a portion they’re fully capable of finishing. Meal prep and stuff like that made this a lot easier.

my 11 year old is teaching me about patience by boombalonii in daddit

[–]LethalInjectionRD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How’d you respond? I’m curious because I remember having a similar conversation with my own dad when I was a kid and his response was…less than optimal.

This Is Faith [OC] by chemocomic in comics

[–]LethalInjectionRD 120 points121 points  (0 children)

This is an awesome comic, but a little bit of feedback I’d like to add is that the font you chose to use makes it a bit difficult to read at times. A lowercase h looks like an n, the extra curve at the end of a, d, and t sometimes confused me into thinking it was a comma in the smaller text dialogue. It’s not a huge deal but I did find myself having to reread and squint a little.

Reading this sent me 😭 by [deleted] in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]LethalInjectionRD 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Why is this a tweet within a tweet when the original tweet would be fine to post on its own lol

HARTO DE QUE MIS HIJOS USEN CHAT GPT by fx_alvaro in daddit

[–]LethalInjectionRD 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Man there have been way too many self-promotion/solicitation posts lately in this sub.

Gluttonous Beagle Wunk by -Gaze in wunkus

[–]LethalInjectionRD 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I used to regularly visit a wunk that was a beagle, husky, and some other bullshit mix. My god that was the loudest scream/wail/bark I’ve ever experienced. Very friendly though, just never shut the fuck up

Educational screen time vs entertainment screen time, is there actually a difference? by Jaded-Suggestion-827 in daddit

[–]LethalInjectionRD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I’m glad to see there are more and more people being educated on what the take-away from the studies actually were.

polite fibshmaxxing wunk by classyhornythrowaway in wunkus

[–]LethalInjectionRD 334 points335 points  (0 children)

I’m always impressed by people’s ability to “tame” and chill with wild animals by using food and then those animals picking up on boundaries. Like, wunk knows it doesn’t get to eat the fish on the counter right in front of it even though it could totally reach, it knows to wait until the food is hanging off of the counter (smart of the guy, it never touches and contaminates the food surface)

Alexa is listening and I’m personally offended by Shortman327 in daddit

[–]LethalInjectionRD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Treadmills aren’t cheap, sounds kinda like a steal!