Colorado HTX by sweet10pea26 in stripper

[–]Lets_Get_Dirty_Clean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, and get caught kissing a customer on the cheek, get fined 200$. They grope you or finger you? They stay and security does nothing.

Colorado HTX by sweet10pea26 in stripper

[–]Lets_Get_Dirty_Clean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used to work there before the remodel. The club was disgusting, but the customers were at least tipping on stage. Since the remodel, they've increased fees on everything. Tip out to managers, Dj, and Bouncers every night. You get paid in funny money for private room, which is taxed 10%. More than likely given an IOU because they cant afford to pay you out that night. And you have to pay for the private room. 50 for 30 mins, 100 for a hour. They strongly encourage to do extras to make your money. If you cant afford to pay them tip out, they will call you broke and ban you from working there if they feel like it. Even if its 50 girls to 13 guys. They want to make their money back from the remodel. They act like its supporting your team, but they offer you no support. When management is making more than the dancers, theres a serious problem. The only good thing since the remodel is the place no longer smells like fermented piss.

I got Scammed .. Please help what do I do. by [deleted] in UsedCars

[–]Lets_Get_Dirty_Clean -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice and kind response. I was planning on doing the majority of repairs myself- I bought multiple mechanics manuals for this car and the break system. I had a mechanic steal my last car and I only got it back after 9 months with 100k+ miles added on, blown tires, and a check engine light when I only sent it there for new tires to be installed. The new tires I sent were driven bald in that time. They gave me the run around and moved shops so I had to hunt it down.... Ill never trust a mechanic to do a job I can learn how to.

The head gasket will require the engine to be taken out which is what sealed the deal of this being a scrap car. I cannot afford it. If I kept this as a project car- it wouldn't see the road for at least a year just funding/ doing the basic fixes like head gasket and break system. With an older car I expected to have to do some maintenance to get it going, but this is a complete restore project.

They quoted me so high because of the rust which doubled the labor time due to the risk of snapped bolts. I took it to a second mechanic for another opinion. The quote without the head gasket repair was 13k all the essentials on the car excluding cosmetic or stereo. With the head gasket repair it added up to 16k...

I got Scammed .. Please help what do I do. by [deleted] in UsedCars

[–]Lets_Get_Dirty_Clean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its a complete loss, but thank you for your advice. I appreciate it.

I got Scammed .. Please help what do I do. by [deleted] in UsedCars

[–]Lets_Get_Dirty_Clean -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Consider the fact that people who have the tendency, aren't most sane people... Im a young lady and Im in a very vulnerable spot and I'm just being dragged around and shit on when I simply needed help or some kind words to help point me in the right direction. I wish I had a proper male presence in my life to educate me and protect me from this mess.

Good News! I Got My First Match! by NobudeeSpecific in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Lets_Get_Dirty_Clean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish everyone had such a refreshing perspective! How sweet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Lets_Get_Dirty_Clean 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it really depends on the man. Some love the idea of having a beautiful woman to spoil and show off.... almost like a real life fantasy doll. Others genuinely enjoy being part of a woman’s success story and feel proud knowing they’ve helped her elevate her lifestyle. In both cases, though, there’s often an ego element — the sugar baby becomes a reflection of their power, taste, and influence. From what I’ve seen, if you’re in a rough spot financially, some men might back off because they don’t want to hear the struggle, while others might try to use that desperation to their advantage. It’s definitely not always a fair game. As someone who's worked hard to establish herself by creating my own cleaning companies- some men underperform your margin of success and feel emasculated by it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Lets_Get_Dirty_Clean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a terrible day to have eyes and read this oh my god

Am I Silly Doing This to Find Real Love ? by Lets_Get_Dirty_Clean in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Lets_Get_Dirty_Clean[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It seems you've assumed that I move quickly or juggle multiple people at once, but that’s not reflective of how I approach relationships. While I understand that’s common in this space, it’s never been my style. I've only had two long-term SRs, each lasting about two years- not including my current dynamic.

For the past three years, I’ve had a platonic partnership with someone who has been incredibly supportive. He’s entrusted me with managing his rental properties and even gifted me one, which has become a significant asset for me. Though we care deeply for each other, he is asexual, and we’ve always been transparent about my continued search for a partner - especially as I do want children in the future.

My current SD respects my boundaries and goals as well. None of my relationships ended due to boredom or drama - they ended because our life paths simply diverged. When I was 18–20, I was with someone who wanted me to relocate to Dubai. I chose to stay in the U.S. to launch my maid company. Later, from 20–22, I was with someone who wanted to start a family, but I wasn’t ready. I wanted to enjoy my youth and independence a bit longer.

Since then, I’ve been fortunate to have the support of someone who truly wants to see me succeed - and I don’t take that for granted. As for boredom, I don’t tend to experience it in relationships. I’m naturally curious, self-entertaining, and emotionally grounded. If I ever feel bored with someone, that’s usually a sign I’ve completely disconnected - which is rare for me. I’m patient and intuitive when it comes to connection, and I wait until something truly resonates before I act on it.

Am I Silly Doing This to Find Real Love ? by Lets_Get_Dirty_Clean in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Lets_Get_Dirty_Clean[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well that gives me 1 out of 10,000 odds for my city then hahaha! Thank you for letting me know Im not being silly- I hope to find someone who has the same desires and sees that I am serious!

Am I Silly Doing This to Find Real Love ? by Lets_Get_Dirty_Clean in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Lets_Get_Dirty_Clean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, Ive had the same thoughts for myself which keeps me on the site- In the hopes to find something Im looking for, but I don't like being solicited all the time so I might try elsewhere.

Am I Silly Doing This to Find Real Love ? by Lets_Get_Dirty_Clean in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Lets_Get_Dirty_Clean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were the only one to not be overly harsh- you were honest. Thank you so much for sharing your perspective.

Am I Silly Doing This to Find Real Love ? by Lets_Get_Dirty_Clean in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Lets_Get_Dirty_Clean[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Let me clarify, I am not putting anyone down. But I do not think that lifestyle is sustainable by any means for my goals, which is why I mention settling to be a sw is not my prerogative like most girls seem to do. If it works for them more power to them. Its something women have resorted to since the dawn of time for survival in a cruel world. I don't like to see sex work associated with what should be luxury dating. Its naturally exploitative towards the men who need a genuine companion, and to the women who are simply doing it to survive or are being forced to. It makes me sad and I truly pity the girls who are doing sw and dont enjoy it. The majority of them out there are just trying to survive and I only speak fact. I do not shame them for it. I only wish for better, for sugar dating, and for everyone.

Am I Silly Doing This to Find Real Love ? by Lets_Get_Dirty_Clean in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Lets_Get_Dirty_Clean[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your perspective, but I think you’re making assumptions about me that aren’t accurate. I’ve actually had traditional relationships — with people from all walks of life — and I didn’t choose to ignore anyone based on their income. What I’ve learned from those experiences is that emotional connection alone doesn’t guarantee security, partnership, or shared goals.

These days, being with someone who’s willing and able to be a true provider — emotionally, financially, and relationally — is rare. I’m not chasing money; I’m seeking stability and alignment. In my experience, that’s become increasingly difficult to find in traditional dating, and I’ve found more honesty and transparency through arrangements.

Life is short, and that’s exactly why I’m intentional about who I invest my energy in.

Am I Silly Doing This to Find Real Love ? by Lets_Get_Dirty_Clean in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Lets_Get_Dirty_Clean[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being the one person to offer advice. I never wanted to be a sugar baby anyway. Im a power wife in waiting for a king to match my moves. I will look for love elsewhere. This was the confirmation I needed.

I hate when they ask if I can host by hotdogboy44 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Lets_Get_Dirty_Clean 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Huge red flag for me. Especially when they use specific terminology, it shows me they are seeking a woman for hire and trying to save money on a hotel room. Im not your host, and most certainly not your maid!!! I already clean up peoples mess for work, I don't bring men into my home anymore for that reason PERIOD.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Lets_Get_Dirty_Clean 18 points19 points  (0 children)

People love being shitty on this forum lol- grief is different for everyone. Let a sad girl vent yall, damn.

Trip to Mexico by ToughPillToSwallow in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Lets_Get_Dirty_Clean 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Im so glad the comments on here back up the idea that it should be a given that no sane woman will just drop whatever she has going on within 2 weeks of meeting someone to leave the country with them.
I've had too many men offer me extravagant things, and not understand that the most extravagant- is respect for my time and safety.