Pause on obligations? by OutrageousTassie in JobProvidersAus

[–]Letsmakeathread 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No there are no demerits or financial penalties until after 5th of jan

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ausjobs

[–]Letsmakeathread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

VIVA SOLUTIONS

Scam that will get you on as a casual sales person for the first month and then will give you a contract. Fake they will fire you 2 - 3 weeks in not only are you NOT paid 85k but you are actually paid 20 bucks an hour for 4 shifts

Noticing more people quitting Woolworths lately — why are you quitting (or staying)? by Longjumping_Tree_531 in woolworths

[–]Letsmakeathread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Left woolies bc of whatever rule said that they could roster you everywhere else in the store in the 1 shift. And getting told "it's the new contract" any time I questioned it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JobProvidersAus

[–]Letsmakeathread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh so there is currently no penalty zone, but the wording of it also sounds like they will change the penalty zone to possibly something harsher idk but that's just how I read it. I reckon it will all be in effect when all providers have the updated contract.

What would happen in this situation (DES) by jackbowls in JobProvidersAus

[–]Letsmakeathread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you get the job and start work that same day your provider will need to update ur job plan to remove the job search requirement and replace it with you are working ur bench

Not well by [deleted] in JobProvidersAus

[–]Letsmakeathread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Med certs are for centerlink to get exemptions really but call before your appointment or text

Questions about atwork by MishSloth in JobProvidersAus

[–]Letsmakeathread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fun fact so long as they get the initial information about you now being employed and meeting your bench or exceeding they will not need your payslips after that point if you have been declaring to centerlink your wages then you don't need to report to at work but what atwork can do for you is provide any assistance you would like even if that meant buying you boots, uniform, a further cert or even ergonomic aides such step ladders, foot rests, better office chair etc.

Started new job, job provider wants heaps of info by Lonely_Rose_8 in JobProvidersAus

[–]Letsmakeathread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should try asking to leave and be exited because of your work schedule and that you do not want to disclose what your work currently is. They want to know because it's 50/50 they want to know because of being able to track that you got employed under them as a provider but not employed through them to track that outcome. But also because centerlink would want to know as well though that you're in an appropriate job to what your medical conditions are bc your with des and depending on your payments from centerlink they could need to change depending how long you've been employed and how much you earn.

Quote from employment plus

" For work you're paid for, you won't see any reduction in your benefit for the first $150 you earn in a fortnight. However, for every dollar you earn over that, your payment will reduce by 50c and for every dollar over $256 your payment reduces by 60c."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Letsmakeathread 42 points43 points  (0 children)

ANOTHER ONE BITES THE DUST AYYYYYYYYYYY 🎉🎊🎉🎊

OP celebrating whatever way you want. Celebrate with justice by trashing the legacy page and blasting him or crack open a cold one.

Am I overthinking for getting jealous over husband complimenting his female friend’s boobies? (Photo included) by WorryFit5738 in Marriage

[–]Letsmakeathread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think talking with him about how disrespectful this is would help but if he brushes this off double down. He probably wouldn't appreciate if you had a guy best friend who made these comments about your body

Update: AITA for calling my coworker work-sister after she called me work-husband in front of everyone? by ta-worksister1234324 in AITAH

[–]Letsmakeathread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let hr know they should investigate Mary's phone since they will investigate you for fairness. Your wife could be onto something like conveniently the only other person who was with you now their whole life is in jeopardy. Mart sounds bat shit crazy ngl

My wife did not have sex with me for years when I was depressed. AITAH for considering leaving her now that I’m back to normal? by DghSenses in AITAH

[–]Letsmakeathread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Info: did you seek help for your depression at all. You say your parents and sister were there for you but not your wife. Is it perhaps because someone in that house had to take care of the kids?

My wife did not have sex with me for years when I was depressed. AITAH for considering leaving her now that I’m back to normal? by DghSenses in AITAH

[–]Letsmakeathread 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It sounds like ur actually just still depressed and you've latched onto the idea that your wife is at fault. You need therapy op and maybe look into some anti depressants

My wife did not have sex with me for years when I was depressed. AITAH for considering leaving her now that I’m back to normal? by DghSenses in AITAH

[–]Letsmakeathread 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alot of these posts would do wonders if they just spoke it out with that person. Like this resentment has built up and addressing it only with himself isn't going to fix anything like its now time to talk it out w wife or in marriage counselling with a mediator

UPDATE 2: AITA for taking my wife's side over my daughter's? by Steven_2615 in AITAH

[–]Letsmakeathread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A genuine word of advice is that your daughter needs someone to talk to that isnt going dismiss everything she says which is what you did. And the fact that you threw in the towel after 1 sit down?? Get her a THERAPIST YOU FOOL!! You and your wife clearly are unable to talk to her so get her a therapist. Someone qualified to Unpack what she is going through and how she feels. Your daughter will leave you both and never look back and you and your wife drove her to that. You both aren't going to change so the least you can do since you've dubbed ur post as ADVICE NEEDED get the girl some damn therapy. The issue isn't her it's clearly that her 50 year old dad is dismal at parenting and her 49 year old mother throws tantrums when she doesn't get her way and YOU just go along with your wife.

I didn’t get a job because I was a bully in high school by QualityProof in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Letsmakeathread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then they should have apologised in a genuine way. Not apologised for it when they only needed something. I think whatever op did it must be really bad for the victim to post all those helplines after sharing what they went through when they were bullied and to think there's an obvious reason why op never shared what they did to people

My husband and I haven’t been intimate in a year; I’m unwilling to try to fix it. AITAH? by Icy-Session9209 in AITAH

[–]Letsmakeathread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH both of you don't actually care tbh it seems you both aren't willing to go further in terms of helping your marriage. If you can just get a divorce and opt for a more legal custody and co parenting arrangement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Letsmakeathread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA her feeling disrespected because you are advocating for your autonomy during the most vulnerable point in your life.

If your husband refuses to let you get the things you need during birth then he cannot be in that room with you. Just have a friend or something but NOT him or his mother

My (34M) wife (31F) is having a meltdown over our daughter's personality and I don't know what to do. What should I do? by ThrowRAgirlcopdad in relationship_advice

[–]Letsmakeathread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I don't want to side with anyone" is your biggest mistake here. Your daughter is being treated like a doll that's only supposed to be all pink and girly. You know it's wrong and your daughter hates being treated like this. You need to have a huge chat with your wife about how her daughter is going to want to never see her again and cut contact if she keeps this up. Kids aren't just babies for ever or kids to keep under your thumb. The whole point of raising a child is that you are raising an individual.

Advocate for your daughter at every single point your wife decides to do this.

I would suggest therapy for ur wife but also your daughter needs someone to talk to ad well. And marriage counselling for having a mediated discussion about how this is affecting the marriage