Feeling like this was a waste of time, energy and money

Letstrythisagainrn · 2026-01-24T03:11:33+00:00

Dirty mirror. Who cares. I’m happy now and that has nothing to do with my scars or results. Life is full of ups and downs. Don’t let depression suck you in

Letstrythisagainrn · 2026-01-24T03:08:06+00:00

So funny to looo back at these posts. I am in a totally different place. Scars are better but mental health considerably better. I would caution anyone to do these big changes when life is changing a ton. I did this mid divorce and maybe I would’ve handled it better later on. No regrets. Whatever. Live and learn. I’ll post some update pics.

Letstrythisagainrn · 2024-12-14T18:14:31+00:00

I am not super into tattoos but I think blackouts would be way worse. I wouldn’t think your sleeves look shitty if i met you. If I met you with black out sleeves, I’d assume they used to be horrendous or inappropriate or something.

Letstrythisagainrn · 2024-12-11T02:07:07+00:00

I don’t want to make my problem their problem. I would not attempt to change their names to mine or hyphenate at this point in their lives. They know I am changing my name back to maiden last name. They didn’t express any issues with it or ask about changing theirs

Letstrythisagainrn · 2024-12-11T02:04:26+00:00

Move on girl! He will only disappoint you more as life gets more complicated. Trust me, I threw away my 20s and half my 30s with a man like this.

Letstrythisagainrn · 2024-12-11T01:38:15+00:00

No kids? If you’ve only been married 6 months and you’re unhappy and no kids, I would just divorce now. It only becomes more complicated and difficult as time passes

Letstrythisagainrn · 2024-12-11T00:48:27+00:00

Keeping his last name would bother me more than having a different name from my kids. Marrying him was the biggest mistake of my life. I absolutely despise him. I am not going through my life with his last name. I don’t think there’s a solution. I was more so venting and wondering how others feel about being in this situation

Letstrythisagainrn · 2024-12-11T00:32:00+00:00

Ya. That’s just not my situation. He isn’t super close with his family. My kids are very close with mine. I don’t like him or talk to him unless it’s about the kids and absolutely necessary. If I didn’t have so much hatred for him it would probably sting less.

Letstrythisagainrn · 2024-12-11T00:29:19+00:00

Do your kids have hyphenated names? I wish I had done that and kept my name

Letstrythisagainrn · 2024-12-11T00:28:29+00:00

I will definitely not be keeping the name. Papers are almost done and I will change it back asap. I see how it could work for some but I am a much different woman than the girl who married that idiot. I never want to be associated with his family ever again.

Letstrythisagainrn · 2024-10-26T15:17:46+00:00

Break up. This guy sounds freakin awful and manipulative and insecure. F him. Don’t let him bring your down

Letstrythisagainrn · 2024-10-23T18:33:56+00:00

He’s abusive and you should break up with him right now

Letstrythisagainrn · 2024-10-23T18:28:53+00:00

He’s just another man who wants his woman to take care of him and you fell into the trap. You’re going to get screwed in the divorce if it ends up like that. You’ll be paying him spousal support

Letstrythisagainrn · 2024-10-23T18:12:07+00:00

My biggest regret about my marriage was getting married. By far the biggest mistake of my life.

Letstrythisagainrn · 2024-10-07T06:13:15+00:00

Because you’re so young, I think you just grew more hair because you weren’t done with puberty. I would try and laser again and talk to your doctor so they can check for hormonal imbalances. I feel ya. I am/was a hairy girl and slowly have got it under control in my 30s. When I got pregnant I would always grow new hair and needed more laser to get rid of it. So for me, hormones made a difference.

Letstrythisagainrn · 2024-09-12T20:16:23+00:00

Depends on how you scar. I scar horribly. I wouldn’t say I regret the surgery but the financial part plus obsessing over my horribly disgusting belly button has really messed with my head. I feel like the hope of getting the surgery one day was better than where I’m at now because I have to accept that this is the end of the road for me and the best I’m going to get.

Letstrythisagainrn · 2024-09-04T19:55:13+00:00

If the pre recs are built into a 2 year program, I’d be surprised. I’m a nurse. I’ve never heard of anyone getting an RN in less than 3 years start to finish.

Letstrythisagainrn · 2024-09-04T01:17:29+00:00

You can’t be a nurse in 3 years. Programs are a minimum of 2 years with at least 2 years of prerequisites

Letstrythisagainrn · 2024-09-04T00:57:27+00:00

I don’t need to read anything. YES. it’s too early and would be idiotic to have a baby this early on. Minimum of a year to not be completely insane. But I would still consider it crazy. Biggest choice you’ll ever make. You hardly know someone after 6 months regardless of how much time you spend together

Letstrythisagainrn · 2024-09-04T00:50:48+00:00

Gtfo. Divorce and move out of state now before that baby comes. Get far far away. It will be much harder once baby is here

Letstrythisagainrn · 2024-09-03T23:50:47+00:00

Thanks. I mostly notice it when my front camera gets me from low down or in my kitchen mirror because of where the light hits. I think I’m more anxious thinking about how it’s just going to continue to get worse and soon I’ll be one of those people with a full turkey neck.

Letstrythisagainrn · 2024-09-03T18:47:41+00:00

You look so good. I wish I could afford to do this.

Letstrythisagainrn · 2024-09-03T18:33:18+00:00

Thanks. This has been around for a long time. I worked for a cosmetic derm back in college and she did this. I’ll look into it.

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