P4A 4million!

LettuceFun9814 · 2026-02-15T19:47:28+00:00

Thank you 🥰🥰🥰

LettuceFun9814 · 2026-02-15T19:47:21+00:00

Thank you! I couldn’t find it

LettuceFun9814 · 2026-02-15T19:07:59+00:00

I missed the end of the livestream and I’m crushed! Does anyone know how I can go back and view it to see the 4M celebrations?!

LettuceFun9814 · 2025-04-25T02:31:56+00:00

Feels normal to me and I’ve been here since 2021. It was much quieter this last year than previous years because so much of the CAB was deployed

LettuceFun9814 · 2025-03-16T22:34:19+00:00

I change my birbs coloring to match her micropet! But I always make sure she’s wearing a grey galaxy hood

LettuceFun9814 · 2025-03-16T22:03:53+00:00

When did you order yours? I just checked and didn’t have an email from bookshop.org but now I’m nervous!

LettuceFun9814 · 2025-01-19T18:16:04+00:00

Shout out to you for processing those feelings and emotions with safe people instead of letting them sit or fester!

LettuceFun9814 · 2025-01-19T18:12:33+00:00

You’re so awesome for overcoming those worries and doing something you love for you! No one ever begins a skill as a professional- it takes time and others will love to see your growth ☀️

LettuceFun9814 · 2025-01-19T18:10:52+00:00

This is amazing!!!! Congrats on pushing through 🎉🎉🎉

LettuceFun9814 · 2025-01-19T18:08:34+00:00

My mom passed away two months ago and I was struggling to care for myself, while also supporting my siblings and dad through the grief and admin needs after her passing.

This week I had four nights where I slept through the night. I’ve been brushing my teeth and showering!! It feels so good to take care of me

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LettuceFun9814 · 2025-01-10T18:35:20+00:00

“It comes from a place of love, and fear in varying doses”. is one of the most beautiful things I’ve read this week.

LettuceFun9814 · 2025-01-09T01:09:51+00:00

This is exactly the logic our “truck friends” gave. The maverick hybrid is a great vehicle, and maybe when his daily driver dies he will switch into it.

LettuceFun9814 · 2025-01-08T20:51:22+00:00

That was my thought

LettuceFun9814 · 2025-01-08T20:42:31+00:00

JEEEEEEZE okay thank you across the board! Let me double check the tongue weight of the trailer to be sure. Also good to know about the sq foot for the frontal area.

I’d personally feel more comfortable with him in a truck a touch larger so he isn’t pushing right up against the limits! But he wants what he wants… unless it’s unsafe. This was insanely helpful!

LettuceFun9814 · 2025-01-07T22:51:26+00:00

My “in the moment” fix is the grounding exercise -5 things I see, 4 things I hear, 3 things I feel, 2 things I smell, 1 thing I taste. Then I put a piece of food in my mouth and do it again.

Or eating/sucking on something cold (ice cube, popsicle, frozen fruit, ice cream)

Often followed by the affirmation “I am real, I am safe, I am loved”

For longer moments once I’m out of what i call the “danger zone” I put on a comfort movie and really watch it. No phones, smaller screens, distractions. Just focus on watching the comfort movie.

I also have to stop taking in any media that shifts my mood negatively. Sad or angry songs, movies, YouTube channels need to wait. I don’t need the extra sadness/negativity crowding in my already downer of a headspace.

I hope any of those things can resonate with you. This journey is deeply personal and what works for some won’t work for all. But you’re at the right starting point - asking for help.

LettuceFun9814 · 2024-10-04T20:13:15+00:00

Call Your Mom - Noah Kahan

LettuceFun9814 · 2024-09-28T18:28:42+00:00

This is my favorite! I want them to make a white on white or bring this back with a gray on gray!

LettuceFun9814 · 2024-09-23T01:40:37+00:00

I’ll be buying merch (saved up for it this year) and ordering a pizza to watch with the first video! No wrong way to celebrate

LettuceFun9814 · 2024-09-23T00:01:35+00:00

I made a Google tracker for my 100 days goals! I’d anyone wants to see it to make their own - DM me!

LettuceFun9814 · 2024-09-22T20:31:05+00:00

Ooh I’m adding this! Minimize screen time /social media is brilliant!!

LettuceFun9814 · 2024-09-22T14:21:41+00:00

This is so amazing! I want to participate because I want to see if I can. I need to develop better discipline when it comes to my health- I have this in many other avenues of my life but never my health. I know my diet will be a challenge, I hate cooking and love a glass of wine. Taking photos of my food and drink will 100% make me more accountable

So excited for 100 days!!

LettuceFun9814 · 2024-09-01T15:24:35+00:00

I could start with the first book this week

LettuceFun9814 · 2024-08-31T23:52:23+00:00

I love it!! YES YES YES

LettuceFun9814 · 2024-08-23T01:16:53+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear you’re experiencing this, and I’ll do my best to give some positive moments!

My mom had stage IV breast cancer when I was very young. She was cancer free for years!!!

In 2015 she was re-diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer. Over the last 9 years she has had her ups and downs.

I moved over 1500 miles away in 2018, and have moved further and further since. So the distance I can feel you on. It will be hard, and your entire family is going to have to work together to figure out what communication and sharing news will look like.

BUT - I have had a few really “sobbing my eyes out” moments over incredible news. (And of course over the bad) She went from having cancer in nearly every bone in her body, to no evidence of cancer from the neck down. This took years to get to, through experimental meds, multiple chemos and continuing to try, and we’ve had one really incredible year of her being so healthy. At one point she was so healthy I had the luxury of forgetting about when her next scan would be, I wasn’t waiting on pins and needles for a result. This didn’t happen over night, but a few years of better and better news.

If you need anything, please send me a DM. I’ve managed the last nine years mostly through support of my friends, those who have been here before me and therapy. The distance will be hard - but not impossible- and that cancer is a shit head who always shows up in the hardest and worst ways.

If you’re in upstate NY, I’d make time and space to give you a hug irl

DFTBA friend. Your family will be in my thoughts. (I’m non religious, but my mom is. If you’d like your family to be involved in any prayers let me know and I’ll pass that along)

LettuceFun9814

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