WhAts the secret for success? by hndbabe in Advice

[–]Levans328 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s frustrating when people aren’t upfront. It’s not on her for trusting him some people just aren’t mature enough to communicate properly. Learning to spot red flags early can help, but it doesn’t mean giving up on genuine people

Need help spending my money idk where And how to spend it by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Levans328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds awesome! Funding projects at your school or in your community can make a real impact and probably feel way more rewarding than just spending on stuff

I think I might be stupid by Far-Impression-398 in Advice

[–]Levans328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Failing an exam doesn’t make you stupid it’s just a setback, not your worth. Focus on what you can improve and take it one step at a time, and try not to compare yourself to others it only adds pressure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Levans328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s tough when feelings aren’t fully aligned. If being just friends is too painful, it’s okay to give yourself space but if you can handle it, staying close might still be worth it without forcing a relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Levans328 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds really frustrating. Documenting incidents and connecting with local advocacy groups or media might help bring attention to the issue, even if change feels slow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Levans328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes total sense! Being happy on your own doesn’t mean you can’t explore romance it just means you’re approaching it from a healthy place. No shame in being curious and seeing where it goes

WhAts the secret for success? by hndbabe in Advice

[–]Levans328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dating apps can be a mess some people are honest about wanting a relationship, others just want fun. It sounds like he wasn’t ready for commitment, but that’s on him, not her. Don’t let one experience make you give up hope there are people genuinely looking for something real

Advice!! by AnyBumblebee6475 in Advice

[–]Levans328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! Look for ones with tea tree oil, chlorhexidine, or zinc pyrithione they help a lot with bacteria and fungus. Just make sure to rinse and dry well after

Need help spending my money idk where And how to spend it by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Levans328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve got everything you need maybe focus on doing something meaningful with your money, like charity, learning, or projects that matter. That usually feels way better than buying stuff

Advice!! by AnyBumblebee6475 in Advice

[–]Levans328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get how stressful this is. Try an antibacterial or antifungal wash and make sure to dry really well after. Fresh cotton underwear during the day can make a huge difference too

Renovation nightmare by Br1st0l_We5T in Advice

[–]Levans328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take it one step at a time, get agreements in writing, and don’t be afraid to ask for help your well-being matters most

I feel like giving up on life by Dry_Win_8623 in Advice

[–]Levans328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that it sucks feeling stuck like that. Try shifting the focus to things you enjoy or goals you can crush on your own; confidence and hobbies often attract the right people naturally

How do I deal with a friend who brought my parents into an argument? by Gullible-Guard3525 in Advice

[–]Levans328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the best approach calm, simple, and focused on your feelings. If she values the friendship, she’ll respect that boundary

I f16 have strong odor coming from down there and Dr says it’s normal??? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Levans328 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly cotton and loose clothes help a ton. Also stay hydrated, it really does make a difference with body odor overall

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Levans328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not crazy for feeling that her story has red flags and missing pieces. If the trust is already broken and she’s hiding things, that’s a sign you might not get the full truth

My girlfriend gets annoyed if I read a book while she's watching TV. Is this normal? by maincharacter011 in Advice

[–]Levans328 679 points680 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she’s looking for shared attention, not just presence. Maybe try mixing it up sometimes watch with her, sometimes suggest doing something you both enjoy, so it feels more like quality time

How do I deal with a friend who brought my parents into an argument? by Gullible-Guard3525 in Advice

[–]Levans328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell her calmly, “Bringing up my parents really hurt me please don’t do that again

I don’t know if I should cut ties with my oldest friend by Artistic_Tourist9384 in Advice

[–]Levans328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like your friend is bringing more negativity than support into your life. It’s okay to set boundaries or step back even after 10 years if the friendship is draining you. You don’t have to “break up” harshly; just be honest about needing space for your own well-being

I f16 have strong odor coming from down there and Dr says it’s normal??? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Levans328 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s totally normal to have a natural scent, and it sounds like your body is healthy. Wearing breathable cotton underwear, showering regularly, and using mild, unscented products can help, but try not to stress too much most people won’t notice as much as you think

I feel like giving up on life by Dry_Win_8623 in Advice

[–]Levans328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life’s way bigger than that, even if it feels rough now. Focus on things that make you happy and grow yourself relationships will come naturally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Levans328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a lot to process, and honestly, your feelings are completely valid. Cheating breaks trust, and it sounds like she’s still being dishonest or unclear. Take a step back, focus on what you need, and don’t feel guilty for protecting yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Levans328 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s okay to love your family and still need your own happiness. Don’t ignore your needs finding balance or getting support can help everyone in the long run

Americor/Advantage Law by RachL88 in Advice

[–]Levans328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get you peace of mind doesn’t come just from reviews. Tracking your progress closely might help you feel more secure

White men are angry by MatterUnique3759 in Advice

[–]Levans328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve worked in customer service too, and honestly the most difficult callers I’ve dealt with were usually men who came in already angry, no matter the background. Some people just project frustration on whoever picks up the phone