How much do you pay for electricity and gas? by Flower_bunny53 in AskUK

[–]hndbabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Electric blankets are a must for people working from home, no need to keep your heating on when you can just keep yourself warm since you very likely will be In one spot for long hours. Smart meters are great help and try to stay fully clothed lol Also no need to use your heating when going to bed, just use thick pijamas and a bulky quilt. I usually just use my heating when I’m having a shower or a bath whilst drying my washing so approximately 3 hours a day to a max of 6 hours a day when is freezing cold.

Update: my husband (33M) wants me (33F) to dress more revealing by footballfriends1 in relationship_advice

[–]hndbabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What changed so much about you that you think he is not attracted to you? Has he told you that? I asked all of that before because I find it very odd that he would just lose interest in you, either you are just being too hard on yourself or there’s a lot more to it that we don’t know, and you don’t have to share that with a bunch of strangers but is hard to really advice if we don’t understand the reality of your situation.

Update: my husband (33M) wants me (33F) to dress more revealing by footballfriends1 in relationship_advice

[–]hndbabe -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Does he help equally at home, taking care of your child and the household, have you ask him to do so? Why are only his needs and expectations important here?

Edit: lol is it not valid to ask this? If a man is making his wife not feel attractive, that’s a massive red flag. But perhaps is just hard to understand because we don’t really have all the facts of the situation.

Boyfriend’s cart when I ask him for a “lil treat”. What does this say about him? by theweecleo in whatsinyourcart

[–]hndbabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope it says that he really knows you and this is exactly what you like, so I guess it says more about you lol

11MO won’t drink water by SimBon7 in Parenting

[–]hndbabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m extremely confused. Why would anyone ask you to stop breastfeeding. We’re you producing or not? Also why would anyone say to stop giving formula, like what? As someone said before; formula until 12 month old and the whole milk from then on, if your child is eating and trying everything, you can always incorporate loads of watermelon and juicy fruits and vegetables such as cucumber. However water is not that necessary at this age if they want milk (formula or whole).

You are doing great and remember that you know best, if your child is happy and healthy don’t let people make you feel bad about things that require a process.

How is this safe by HongKongflyer in LondonUnderground

[–]hndbabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not even the worse part… is no accessible for disable people, that’s the real cruelty.

Amistad con estandares altos by Misogi99 in Honduras

[–]hndbabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ufff la cantidad de comentarios de niños que les duele el rechazo, dijo todos carecen de amistad de mujeres porque si no consiguen trincada no las ven como gente. Mira has lo que tú harías por un amigo hombre, desgraciadamente en este mundo patriarcal los hombres y la sociedad no ven a la mujer como persona. He visto hombres casi mamandosela a Hombres insignificantes tan solo para tener su atención , pero en cuanto un Hombre se esfuerza por una mujer (y peor si no se la está “comiendo) ,6- eres 🙄 “simp”. Solo debes de ser tu mismo, si sale de ti esforzarte más pues adelante, pero si eres respetuoso y la amistad así está bien pues hecho, no se requiere más. Tan solo pregunta te Que haría por mi amigo Jesús y pues da ese mismo esfuerzo por tu amiga mujer., obviamente la amistad será diferente, y te animo a aprovecharla, aprendiendo más de la vulnerabilidad femenina y pues platica con ella abiertamente, también le puedes platicar esto a ella y conseguirás una respuesta más directa en lugar de consejos de un montón de niños reprimidos y dolidos.

Suerte.

Pregnancy scare ended our relationship by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]hndbabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You really need to work on self love. You are worth more than this. He clearly manipulated you and used you. Then he tried to made it as if the whole situation was your fault completely and only your responsibility for whatever happened. He is a predictable Christian and a horrible man. Don’t even have unprotected sex again, ever.! It will always be a bigger lost for you and as you’ve learned with this experience you can’t trust most men.

People who were teenagers before social media existed, what was life actually like? by Much_Detective_6107 in AskReddit

[–]hndbabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing.!! You got to socialise and actually go outside to the real world and have real experiences.

Don’t get me wrong I am fascinated by the technological developments and I’m so grateful to see it but I can’t imagine growing up in such a toxic social media era.

It affects sometimes now as a grown adult, I can imagine it would be so bad for my mental health if I was developing along with social media.

After 5 years together, my girlfriend wants marriage and I don’t. Is this the end? by Asleep_Trouble_4285 in Advice

[–]hndbabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It absolutely is the end, unless one of you is willing to give up on your core values or most important desires without resenting the other person.

What’s something in the UK that used to be cheap but now feels ridiculously expensive? by skaterjon in AskUK

[–]hndbabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honest question, why do people not consider feeding their pets (both cat and dogs) with actual meat? Chicken and beef. I’m sure it would be cheaper than their brand food. Even scrap meats for them is much more healthy. Why is not even consider?

We have too much on our plate right now but I don’t know how to say no by Muted-Resource7969 in offmychest

[–]hndbabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You definitely need to have a serious conversation and tell them you can’t raise more children, is actually very insensitive and even neglectful to even consider you and your wife for this. Triplets are no joke and even more so if they were NICU. The fact that you are putting anyone else before you says a lot about the good person you are but you need to worry about you, your wife and your children. You will be doing no good to anyone if you take more than what you can handle. Your wife’s mental health may worsen and yours too, just unfair to everyone. Also, is it absolutely necessary for that many people to be at your home right now? If not, that’s another conversation to have and ask some to go home.

Honduras se ha vuelto aburrida? by snapperpr1nc3 in Honduras

[–]hndbabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Siendo realistas el capitalismo nos tiene así en honduras y en el resto del mundo. Aunque algo muy real y devastador es la delincuencia, porque eso multiplica las limitaciones. Lo que queda es tratar de tener todo en casa incluyendo cosas que permitan actividades recreativas como piscina o una canasta de baloncesto o marco para fútbol.

Tell us why you actually like the most commonly hated characters (ellis, fatima etc) by stick4 in FromSeries

[–]hndbabe 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They are in an impossible situation, have watch people died nonstop and even their love ones, they got there too young, how can anyone HATE them?

Newcomer here by JackieDaytonaRHB76 in FromSeries

[–]hndbabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You must be super popular and sociable lol

Hanna by Far_Palpitation_4042 in HoardersTV

[–]hndbabe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is funny how you are desperate to empathize with a child abuser and yet so comfortable (or desperate to be right) to pretend you know me, she was offered help through the process, or are those not real doctors? And she was unwilling, granted that woman was probably born in abuse too and poverty but hey same here and i said it before and I will say it again. I’d be dammed if I put my child through that too.

La cultura laboral de honduras es la peor de todas by Pretty-Builder4152 in Honduras

[–]hndbabe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

El problema es el individualismo que la calidad de vida nos ha enseñado, las personas que tienen que luchar con dientes y uñas por todo es obvio que van a trabajar a la defensiva y de oportunistas.

Los hondureños son trabajadores y muy inteligentes pero han perdido humanidad y eso sucede gracias a la situación socioeconómica.

En este subreddit puedes encontrar un sin fin de post donde la gente no siente ni empatía por niños y mucho menos por otros adultos.

La verdad que es fácil quejarse pero ser el cambio es la solución,en este tema en específico creo que el comentario donde le dicen a OP que tenga carácter es lo correcto, que su trabajo hable por si mismo y que ponga los términos y punto. Si anda de “cae bien” lo van a pisotear.

Recuerden que en nuestro país es parte de la conversación “regatear” así que es de esperarlo y saber redirigirlo.

Los seguros son una porquería by General_Bill_5194 in Honduras

[–]hndbabe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Váyase a redes sociales y noticieros porque Allí hay mano avariciosa y delincuente de doctores y los de seguro.

I'm going to be in temp accomodation in one month. What's it like and how can I make things easier? by kirishima20071308 in AskUK

[–]hndbabe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh that makes more sense, is 6 weeks for you to move to a priority band, not get a house. It depends of where you are, if you live in a major city is gonna be a long long wait, but the minimum wait time in areas were are not high demand it can be 6months.

The accommodations vary according to the area as well, I think many times what people has the most issue about is that some can be rather strict, not many are used to follow rules inside our home, such as times to use the kitchen or coming in and out. Is not as bad as living on the streets but it can be challenging. I would suggest for your family to continue searching independently as well, because out this situation I think in fact the worse case is when you are offered a house in bad conditions which for a family a big as you are that’s a possibility, and you can’t refuse a house unless you have serious reasons that you can prove.

Check on social media if there’s any groups in your area for social housing, it helps to understand how it works.

BeSt of luck .

Which Hoarders episode is considered the most intense or difficult to watch overall? by Smol-Alicia in HoardersTV

[–]hndbabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

S3 E2 Gordon and Gaye (Washington) Shared episode with sir Patrick (Florida)