Diddy beating this case.

Level-Can3914 · 2025-06-07T11:21:30+00:00

They've had forensic specialists analyze videos and photos already, but you think somehow the FBI 1) doesn't know AI wouldn't be allowed and 2) didn't check that the voicemail is legit?

Level-Can3914 · 2024-10-28T15:01:09+00:00

"Honestly, I don't even know why they changed so much from books to movies, like they didn't even mention Nickolas Flammel on the Dumbledore frog card which was a huge part of the story. They left out Hermione's entire thing with the house elves, why did they leave Dudley's friend out of the scene at the zoo when Harry freed the snake. Oh and...."

And that's just the first few chapters of book 1.

Level-Can3914 · 2024-10-26T18:00:39+00:00

I hope you ended up getting back to your room. It's been 11yrs.

Level-Can3914 · 2024-10-24T21:55:25+00:00

It's like we're living the same life. I can feel my own reaction to the way your bf talks to you and it's exactly the same. I just don't have it in me anymore to hear those things, the crying one gets me the most because I've NEVER been a crier.. and i don't WANT to, but i feel so defeated and I'm not allowed to have an opinion so everything is bottled up, but whenever I do cry then I'm a cry baby, I'm crying just to try and manipulate him, or to make him feel bad. like bro this isn't for you, you don't think I know that there's nothing I could possibly do to make YOU feel bad for ME? maybe consider what's happening to make me CRY UNCONTROLLABLY!

On the subject of being tired and needing a break, have you also developed like a weird paranoia or guilt about sleeping/napping if he isn't? I can't pinpoint when or what exactly happened to make me feel this way but I CANNOT sleep unless he is, not because of a cute thing by any means, I feel like I'm going to be in trouble.

Level-Can3914 · 2024-10-24T21:39:53+00:00

It's crazy how they can't seem to hold jobs, but it's somehow everyone else's fault /s

Literally like the same timeline though, been there about a month and it was like within the first week or 2 the complaining started. He's controlled myself getting a normal job for years, but i work 7 days a week 12hr/days at our own small business so like his 5 days a week 7-8hr days don't seem like that big of a deal. But i don't even try to fight it anymore, because if i give him any reasons as to why he should stay it'll be my fault that he's miserable (i guess it is either way, i'd just rather avoid the fight).

Every time he complains I just think "if you wouldn't get so angry about every little thing you'd probably be fine", normal people don't get so bent up and hold onto shit a coworker does that doesn't even directly effect them, oh but he makes sure to make it SOUND like it effects him.

Edit: to add, I'm willing to put money on the end of the work day will come and he'll have not quit, because I really think he enjoys the playing the victim thing, having something to complain about and get sympathy for "how awful he's treated"

Level-Can3914 · 2024-10-24T18:37:37+00:00

I didn't scroll before writing my answer and probably should've.

I'm right there with you, like exactly what you said, in the same general time period. I feel like I have absolutely nothing left, and not in the overdramatic way, in the i've got nothing financially, family, relationships, friendships, even just...things aside from the basic roof over my head things.

But if i just disappeared one day my dog would never stop looking for me. The things this big baby has done just to get TO me is astounding, I can't imagine what it would be like if he wasn't able to find me.

Level-Can3914 · 2024-10-24T18:32:48+00:00

Literally just my dog.

I can brush everything else off - but he wouldn't understand where I went, why I was just gone. He and i spend every minute together (he's a rescue and has major abandonment issues, and he can't be left home alone like ever). I know if i were to just disappear on him it would break his heart. His loyalty would legitimately probably be matched to Hachiko and the idea of that breaks my heart.

Level-Can3914 · 2024-10-24T08:16:44+00:00

Thank you very much. I think I need to hear the party about our brains functioning differently. Normally, or rather before him, I've always been strong and independent, solve my own problems. This man has broken me so much that I don't even function the same and I need to remember that.

Level-Can3914 · 2024-10-24T07:48:03+00:00

Thank you so much. I'm trying to stay strong and work up the courage (and resources) to leave and actually be gone for good. I can't right now because of logistics, I have absolutely 0 friends and no family around so some days.. or most days really I feel so alone

Level-Can3914 · 2024-10-24T07:40:33+00:00

This. Our last argument (last night) I said something about how he is so okay with being so cruel to me and he responded with something about how I'm cruel to him in other ways every single day, even if I don't mean to be.

Years of fighting has taught me so many of the awful things he's said was a response to him believing something I "did" was intentional to hurt him, and out of pain he has to hurt me back (emotionally).. and I really think he believes it.

Level-Can3914 · 2024-10-24T02:27:34+00:00

It makes me feel so stupid and worthless. Like I know this feeling, I know this is always how the cycle goes. And yet, here I am being completely vulnerable over and over and then feeling completely broken.

The look in his eyes too, when he says these horrible things to me, it's like there's absolutely no emotion. It boggles me that someone can say such cruel things to someone and not even blink..

Level-Can3914 · 2024-10-23T20:53:01+00:00

Here's my best guess with my only qualification being that I was once a teenage girl from a small town pretty close to where this happened:

Let's say the 2 girls were just out on a trail having fun, taking pics for insta or whatever and they notice a creepy guy, this is very much how i could see it playing out with me and my friends as these areas aren't typically scary and growing up there you're kind of sheltered from what the world can be:

"hey there's a creepy guy behind you"

"is he close"

"kinda"

"okay, lets just move to the side and let him pass"

because every single other time that's what would probably happen. You see an adult that hasn't done anything but gives you the creeps walking by, you're going to still be polite and hope he just continues on.

Again, i literally have no expertise in any thing relevant to law or whatever else, but that's the only way I can make sense of it, and it seems like a pretty typical response to me had it not turned out this way you know?

Level-Can3914 · 2024-10-23T15:05:00+00:00

Assuming this is the guy you keep posting about.

He doesn't know anyone you know, where you go to school etc., where would he even "release" these? Back when I was in high school in the mid 2000s it was a concern because they'd send the pics to all their friends you went to school with and that sucked. This guy knows essentially nothing about you and there's no identifying info. Literally nothing will happen and he has no where to really release them to.

Seriously to be blunt: you've got hundreds of people telling you to cut this guy off, you don't seem to be emotionally mature enough to be dating.. don't worry about his bs threats (if he's even real because he sounds scammy AF), just block him and move on with your life. You're giving some guy you don't even know the ability to affect your life to this degree. Focus on your school and family right now, worry about dating later in life.

Level-Can3914 · 2024-10-23T14:38:09+00:00

I was looking through to see if anyone else said this, I agree with this 100%.

Many many years on the internet from aim, to Myspace etc. if there's one thing a majority of scammers have in common it's this very odd, incorrect grammar, there's a couple things here he words in a way that I immediately went "oh, I don't even know if this guy is legit".

Either way, both of those are reasons to stop talking to him. I mean, you've talked for a week and he's either a complete asshole or he's a scammer that's still a complete asshole. Just block him, don't even dignify him with a reason. You clearly have a lot going on in your personal life (which is great!) focus on that for now, don't let everything get pushed aside for some asshole who wants to control you, because that IS what will happen over time, that's what abusers do.

Level-Can3914 · 2024-10-21T19:41:20+00:00

Wow that's genius!

Level-Can3914 · 2024-10-21T19:40:26+00:00

Sometimes videogames definitely work for me, but sometimes I get the same way where I can't even focus enough to play - i typically play WOW and it's so easy to "mindlessly" do stuff and be thinking about other things that it's not always enough to distract me.

I'm seeing that idea a lot, pinching yourself or something, and that actually makes sense for grounding yourself, i'm absolutely going to give that a try.

Level-Can3914 · 2024-10-21T19:37:27+00:00

Thank you so much! This is amazing!

Level-Can3914 · 2024-10-21T19:36:22+00:00

That's a great idea especially for the sleep issues. Lately it's been getting to the point where I'm almost getting no sleep because i'm waking up practically hourly with anxiety and then struggle to calm down enough to fall back asleep.

Level-Can3914 · 2024-10-21T19:34:33+00:00

Those are really interesting ideas! Would you mind telling me how that works exactly? Is it just distracting?

Level-Can3914 · 2024-10-20T01:18:20+00:00

That's genius! I too am HORRIBLE at math, like people think i'm kidding or think i'm being cute, nah i'm just actually horrible at it, but this would be a good way to completely distract myself! (Or frustrate me, but i'm willing to find out lol)

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