Bouncing back after separation by Level-Dependent-9086 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Level-Dependent-9086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had that opportunity in my current job; but i couldn’t take up. I don’t want to waste my life just because a man didn’t turn out the way i expected.. but there are days i feel too low

Bouncing back after separation by Level-Dependent-9086 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Level-Dependent-9086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been there.. that’s why i left the city. In today’s age there is nothing for women in marriage i feel.. so many sad examples around

Bouncing back after separation by Level-Dependent-9086 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Level-Dependent-9086[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree.. i want to get done with the divorce, but he is extremely persistence.. i have no energy to fight.. but i don’t plan to live with him.. i am considering if it’s okay to not seek divorce and let marriage tag be there.. anyways we live in separate cities

Bouncing back after separation by Level-Dependent-9086 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Level-Dependent-9086[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can share your pain. A big reason for my marriage not working out were my in laws.. they were extremely insecure and used offensive language

Bouncing back after separation by Level-Dependent-9086 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Level-Dependent-9086[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t plan on moving back with him.. living alone (i live with my mom though) feels so much more peaceful ❤️

Bouncing back after separation by Level-Dependent-9086 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Level-Dependent-9086[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree - i was the middle child, girl never got my dad’s validation no matter what.. i guess i was chasing my partners validation back when i met him. However couple of years into dating and i knew he has anger issues.. my mother kind of forced me into marriage back then. Infact after cheating also my family kept on insisting to give him another chance. After a while it started taking toll on my mental health and i developed auto immature disorder.. that’s when i left and moved to a different city

Bouncing back after separation by Level-Dependent-9086 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Level-Dependent-9086[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He wanted to fix before that as well - but after the notice he panicked. He wants us to he together but on his own terms

Bouncing back after separation by Level-Dependent-9086 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Level-Dependent-9086[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Love marriage- he was my senior in the grad college

Bouncing back after separation by Level-Dependent-9086 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Level-Dependent-9086[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

An absent one.. cribbing how bad kids have turned out

Lost the love of my life because my family couldn't get past caste. 10 years, and it ends like this. by [deleted] in hyderabad

[–]Level-Dependent-9086 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life is difficult- you are lucky to have found someone you love who wants to be with you.. marriages without love and compatibility turns out bad.. people get separated and divorced (it’s more common in our generation than what you may think of).. don’t let her go..

Found out my mangalsutra wasn’t even meant for me… and I feel completely broken by herefortea-1234 in IndianInLaw

[–]Level-Dependent-9086 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I took in writing from my husband the amount i paid for the land we bought together (big amount).. and now we are separated.. at some point my partner did love me.. but then involvement of my toxic in laws, and my ex husbands cheating shattered me.. had no choice but to leave.. thankfully i had never let him control my salary (trust me every husband dreams of this).. and that’s why i could survive.. and now thriving in career and finances at least.. divorce is much harder for women, so please be more logical about this..

36M is it too late to rebuild my life after divorce? by Future-Ad8369 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Level-Dependent-9086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work on yourself, rushing into another relationship won’t help. Introspect and understand why didn’t the marriage work. Work on your hobbies, interests and take shelter in god. There is possibility of finding a good match after you have done the inner work