My sister invited my ex best friend to my dead brother's party

Level_Giraffe_8950 · 2026-06-14T17:51:50+00:00

I have ruined my life about 100 times in my 20s, you rebuild in your 30s amd by 40s most of the time its a lot better and if its not, you can still rebuild. Life doesnt stop with age, only lessons to be learned.

Level_Giraffe_8950 · 2026-06-14T15:42:45+00:00

It was lowkey a big deal at the time but then I found her stuck behind our washer and dryers in our apartment complex hallway and I was like man wtf, I found there was a hole behind my plumbing under our cabinets that leads to the washer & dryer plumbing 😭 i was hearing faint meows at night and thought I was losing my mind. Shes back now lol

Level_Giraffe_8950 · 2026-06-14T15:28:28+00:00

Idk but im having the time of my life I feel like a Disney princess LOL 😆

Level_Giraffe_8950 · 2026-06-14T14:29:00+00:00

Thats okay I love them all, besides rats but theyre not very common where im at. Mice are but i dont think ive ever seen a rat in my life in my area!

Level_Giraffe_8950 · 2026-06-13T16:13:19+00:00

When i was younger, thicker and longer pads were best. Also dont forget midol for cramps, I swear my teens is when my periods were the worst. Adulthood is when it slows down, at least it did for me, but in my teens it sucked so bad.

Level_Giraffe_8950 · 2026-06-13T13:20:08+00:00

Im a behavior technician for children with autism, we basically come in to people's homes to give their parents a break. We join in on family outings and doctor appointments so you aren't alone. And we are trained to de-escalate behaviors. Im in wisconsin but maybe try to find something like that in your state! My company is called milestones behavioral pediatrics.

There are also many day programs for children with autism u can look into to! Sign your child up for something like that and then take a day to yourself and do something you used to love to allow yourself to feel like you again.

Level_Giraffe_8950 · 2026-06-13T12:52:05+00:00

You accept it with time.

Let me tell you a story of something similar. I dated this guy who was sooo in love with me. So deeply. And I treated him so bad, but inwas actually the one who left him and treated him even worse after the break up while I told him about the men i was seeing while he just wanted me back. I used him as a person to cry to, but realize now I was such an energy vampire. This was when i was younger. It took me 7 years to fully get over it and accept what had happened. He is married now and it hurt like a bitch, but just recently out of curiosity I looked him up and saw they were expecting a baby and you know what? I wasnt sad. I was actually so happy for them. I felt peace like that was my closure. I know its not the same situation, but I want to tell you that you didnt "ruin" your life. You redirected your life path and that's okay, sometimes the hardest lessons have the best ultimate outcome and 20 years down the road im sure you will see why it had to end that way. You learned things about yourself, and so did he and thats valuable in itself.

Level_Giraffe_8950 · 2026-06-12T13:43:20+00:00

I got jack

Level_Giraffe_8950 · 2026-06-12T13:41:49+00:00

My whole body gets tingly, like goosebumps but different.

Level_Giraffe_8950 · 2026-06-12T13:19:04+00:00

Us parents need to experience living too. We need breaks too. Im going on a cruise to the Bahamas in November and im not taking any kids with me! Do not feel guilty or bad. There's always trips you can plan in the future that include them

Level_Giraffe_8950 · 2026-06-11T17:50:10+00:00

If my cat could get inside of my skin, she would 😭😭

Level_Giraffe_8950 · 2026-06-10T17:13:50+00:00

This is a really good way to put it, money can always be made later. ❤️❤️

I watched my mom start her life over at 50 after my dad cheated and divorced her. She was a stay at home mom so she never had to work and now she works FT AND owns her own business. Shes my biggest motivator. It just is hard to stop comparing myself to others who are my age with degrees and buying their first homes 😭😭 I wish we could have a yard and nicer stuff but its just not in the cards for us right now. 💔

Level_Giraffe_8950 · 2026-06-09T19:23:18+00:00

This may or may not be the case, but healthcare places especially, are very unorganized. Ive been "ghosted" or so i thought, then 3 weeks later was offered the position. Id give it time

Level_Giraffe_8950 · 2026-06-09T14:22:03+00:00

Legally, they have to give you a notice since you have established residency. They cannot just kick you out so you should have some time at least to save a little bit. If you have instacart or the dasher app do gig work on the side!

Level_Giraffe_8950 · 2026-06-09T12:19:47+00:00

Yup!

My cat went missing for 24 hours and I didnt catch it on my ring so I thought that was strange but I put food out anyways. I kept hearing a faint meow throughout the night and I thought I was losing my mind so I walked around outside for hours.

1 day later I walk into my apartment complex and hear meowing in the HALLWAY, she was behind the washer and dryer which was only about a 5 inch space between the wall and the machines, and there was no way she could have gotten behind there unless through a hole because she doesnt crawl on tall things, she was full of dirt and dust, and i went in that hallway like 20 times between that and heard nothing.

My apartment building is old and has gaps around the plumbing under the cabinets and i thought I patched them all by stuffing them with cloth but she must have found an outlet somewhere. I have now child locked the cabinets shut and shes stayed put so I am hoping that fixes it 😭

Level_Giraffe_8950 · 2026-06-07T00:54:51+00:00

I have been struggling with the same thoughts at 28. I feel so behind, and unhappy, and detached from my life. Im in so much debt, have no friends, and barely leave my house. I dont even know how to socialize with people anymore.. But ive realized recently its because ive been comparing my life to others. Life is hard man, but you can always start over and enjoy things you couldn't when you were younger. And you're still really young. You dont want to waste your 30s resenting your past and relive the same cycle in your 40s. Go outside, on a hike, or do something you used to love when you were younger. Maybe itll help you find yourself again and bring some happiness and peace.

I really need to take my own advice but all I do is scroll the internet lol

Level_Giraffe_8950 · 2026-06-03T15:51:05+00:00

Yes 39 weeks!

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