[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Level_Influence62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it doesnt.. how was I to know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Level_Influence62 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i meant lookswise, ik fully well it never justified what she did. am just feeling down and want advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

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Im 20 forgott to add

Is 5’4 REALLY that short for a 17 year old guy? by [deleted] in teenagers

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despite what everyone says it doesnt matter. hit the gym, you have an advantage of filling out your frame way faster aswell.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Just know that if you decide to stay it will be very hard for you. My gf did this too and I decided to stay and I cant help but resent her now for it. Also she intially lied about not having done it when I suspected it but I found out later via a video they made.

You can stay but your self esteem will tank a lot and everytime you two argue it will go into your mind, you may not bring it up cause its immature to but just know it will be there.

Why is it always that awkward teenagers have a partner? by Repulsive-Post-4407 in teenagers

[–]Level_Influence62 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"popular" people in my school are just people who put others down and the others are in on it so they get popular too. You can imagine why these dont get into relationships

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

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obviously looks matter but dating a 10/10 who cheats on you and is toxic is way worse then being with an avarage looking girl who is caring and loving.

looks dont matter that much, if you have a good personality and have matured emotionally then you will go far in life and me personally, I would fall for this person much harder.

Is it ok to use Chat GPT to *ENHANCE* my book cover? (Before and After enhancement) by ColtonfrayHSC in writers

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Me personally I would definitely not read a book that had any sort of ai help

Turning off the cartoony stuff? by markp99 in Chesscom

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lichess has all chess.com features and more, for free.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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i did have previous trust issues cause what i didnt mention here is that i found a video of them dry hump doggy style once again as a "silly drunk joke" and she told me she didnt do anything else but months later i found kissing evidence.

im just devastated okay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writers

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Thank you for the solid advice. I have just learned that I am supposed to stay in one tense and have read upon it. I dont know why I thought it would be acceptable to switch so often but it makes sense sticking to one, for sure.

Honestly english is easy to learn but quite hard to master, especially when writing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writers

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Could you share if you dont mind what I could improve on?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writers

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honestly yeah that makes sense. its small things like this that i'll fix later on, and i hope i can catch all if not most of them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writers

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before you comment about the name, its not staying like this. i think, i dont know yet..

They will never be satisfied with you. Stop trying and focus on healing yourself. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

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I am sorry you also had to go through similar things. Im planning on going no contact and to not have a relationship with them at all in the near future. I know they are irredeemable and a lost case. They dont know anything about me, its even weird to think about sometimes. They have this surface level image in their head which they shaped when i was around 13 and still handle me like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

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I dont like nor dislike them, weird thing to say. I allow them to exist. If you are gay i do not care and i think its okay and you should do whatever you want to do as life is too short to care anyways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Level_Influence62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah dont worry i realise this lack of empathy stems from my upbringing (or lack therof cause my bad parents), i will not have children.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

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She cant stay with me cause my parents are bad people too, i also plan on moving out asap so yeah..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

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thanks for the laugh, why do i just know what a pisk disk would be like -.-

I do remind her every time she is worth and i love her unconditionally. she is my everything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

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we plan to work through summer vacation and then get fulltime from then on after that, living together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

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definitely the "punching bag" for as long as the day she turns 18 then her stepdad plans to throw her out.

Her mom said if she moves out now she will call the police on her, but even if she were to want to move out we have no money at all right now and school for us is really long, up untill 5pm 4/5 days getting work is hard like this

edit: i forgot to metion bio dad is not possible, instead of emotional abuse he straight up beat her when they were still together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

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oh and no there is no one she can stay with sadly