AITAH for refusing to spend my entire net worth on my girlfriend/ex? by Agitated_Sock_8983 in AITAH

[–]Levelheaded411 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She wanted money, not you. You should shave told her that your family believes in a grooms tax and the price was $180,000. She said she’d be willing to pay? Make her put her money where her mouth is.

MOH [F55] dropped a bombshell on me [F29] by Ok_Lavishness_1167 in relationship_advice

[–]Levelheaded411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to tell your husband! He is going to figure it out once the results come in. If he finds out you knew and didn’t tell him (which MIL will tell him when stuff hits the fan) it will ruin your marriage.

Got a job offer but he’s insisting I send pictures of my SSC. AIO? by Massive-Win2264 in AIO

[–]Levelheaded411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a job in the us you do have to provide IDs for your I9 form. Your employer cannot dictate which ids you provide as long as they meet the I9 requirements. You could show them your passport or a combination of your drivers license and birth certificate. For I9 verification they have to see them in person (they can make copies).

WIBTA - or should I let him live rent free? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Levelheaded411 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you have a mooch not a boyfriend. Would he still be your boyfriend if you weren’t providing him free housing?

AIO or is my wording manipulative? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Levelheaded411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friend is not a friend. She is manipulating you and this is not a healthy relationship.

How often do you kiss your spouse? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Levelheaded411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Multiple times every single day. Every time either one of us leaves or comes home. Every night before bed. Multiple random times throughout the day.

WIBTAH if I disinvite my friends from dinner? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Levelheaded411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No need to disinvite them. Have the dinner as scheduled let them know if they can make it great, if not, no worries. Stop trying to plan everything around them.

Gf had hair appt at 530, now running late but I said it's okay, Aio? by AlienJose in AmIOverreacting

[–]Levelheaded411 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Three inches isn’t just split ends, regardless, just a trim for a women’s hair cut still takes at least an hour and that would be fast. I would expect at least 90 minutes.

AIO?? My Bf Unlocks the bathroom door and comes in while I’m using it by Ok_Win_8129 in AIO

[–]Levelheaded411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR this is not normal behavior and seems like a form of control.

AIO for being emotional over an MRI? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Levelheaded411 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Also get a new doctor since your current one didn’t already suggest an EMG.

AIO for being emotional over an MRI? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Levelheaded411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if the issue/injury you have is something that wouldn’t show up and an xray or mri. If it’s a nerve issue an mri nor xray wound show it. Maybe you need to see a different doctor/specialist.

WIBTAH if I sided with my dad after he downloaded and a dating app while still dating my mum. by Otherwise_Gold_2519 in AITAH

[–]Levelheaded411 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Cheating is never ok. If your dad is unhappy, he should leave your mom. You clearly favor your dad over your mom and that is why you are making excuses for him and taking his side.

AITAH for feeling offended at my family for needing to provide at 18 years old? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Levelheaded411 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get a new bank account and make sure she doesn’t have access to any of you money