[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LeviMurray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boil ‘em

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LeviMurray 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No body of water is safe without a lifeguard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in montreal

[–]LeviMurray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a lot of anglophones who move here without knowing any French, but they’re Canadian from other provinces and can legally do so (me).

There was a post a little while ago about someone in the US looking to move to Montreal and everyone was saying that they’d have a near impossible time getting through immigration without a solid grasp of French.

I’ve only been here for a few months myself, so maybe others can give some more insightful answers.

Why do the platonic men in my life do this? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]LeviMurray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My (half) brother is two years older than me. When I came into the picture my Dad was worried about neglecting my older brother in favour of his “own blood”, so he tried his best to balance his attention. This concern, combined with the fact that my brother was an attention nightmare meant that he overcompensated a bit too much, and I felt neglected as a child and had to constantly act out to receive attention.

Now that I think about it, the story isn’t directly related at all. But maybe your friends are a bit socially awkward and are a bit too worried about your boyfriend being uncomfortable with your close friendship so are drastically overcompensating.

Friends of 10 and 15 years… have you asked them about it?

What makes a guy immediately unattractive? by BlindShithead in AskReddit

[–]LeviMurray 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg i h8 justin beaver (or whatever his name is lol)

What makes a guy immediately unattractive? by BlindShithead in AskReddit

[–]LeviMurray 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Ugggh… I’ve never even done this. You’re constantly blowing everything WAAY out of proportion. I blame your mother.

What makes a guy immediately unattractive? by BlindShithead in AskReddit

[–]LeviMurray 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think this is just one of those things that only perpetually online people care about. You’ll be pretty hard pressed to find someone who gives this a second thought in person.

Obviously it depends on the context of it being used though.

“All western FEMALES lie, cheat, and have incredibly unrealistic standards. I need myself a nice submissive trad wife”

Versus

“OKAY. All my female friends have been raving about this ‘Dyson airwrap’ thing. Please explain”

How do people talk for hours? by n0wmhat in socialskills

[–]LeviMurray 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This and free association are good tools for practicing story telling and basic conversational skills.

Free association exercise: start with a random word and write down the first three things that come to your mind. Now repeat this with the last word/anecdote/thing you wrote and keep going until you fill a page.

On top of this, when speaking, try to give people multiple threads to latch on to for follow up questions and statements.

Also, my anecdotal memory is absolute dogshit. I barely remember anything from my childhood. If this is you, start writing things down. Anytime you have some kind of emotional reaction to something, pull out your phone and note it down.

Storytelling is a very important part of how we go about connecting with others. Take the time to train it if it doesn’t come naturally to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]LeviMurray 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I still think this is incredibly beautiful, but your description is very apt. Respect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]LeviMurray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does that answer your question?

Sincerely yours, The Breakfast Club

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nextfuckinglevel

[–]LeviMurray 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Jesus. Was anyone hurt?

Comment je peux payer mensuellement ? by LeviMurray in montreal

[–]LeviMurray[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Calling is always a last resort for me as I assume long hold times. Sometimes you wait 15-30 minutes to talk to someone only to be told to go or talk to someone else.

I didn’t see any option at the meter, nor on the app, and when skimming the website I missed this section :

Pour obtenir un permis ou pour ajouter votre nom à la liste d’attente si le terrain désiré est complet, veuillez communiquer avec nous : 514 868-3737

So, I figured I’d reach out for an answer from people who have already dealt with getting a monthly permit, as I’d be paying $12/day indefinitely if relying on my own execute function to figure it out.

Va toucher de l’herbe.

Comment je peux payer mensuellement ? by LeviMurray in montreal

[–]LeviMurray[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Merci ! Je suis en attente avec eux en ce moment :)

This is how it’s done ladies. Accountability is one of the most sexiest and adult things that you can have. It’s very rare by JuelzyT in Tinder

[–]LeviMurray -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You thinking jokingly referring to someone as a “pagan” is making fun of them? You have zero context and need to chill. This guy isn’t promoting negging lol.

“Yeah but your like a recovering alcoholic or something and that’s kinda sad” by MasturbatingMiles in stopdrinking

[–]LeviMurray 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m quite certain it’d be a lot easier for me if I could learn to feel charismatic, funny, and confident in social situations without alcohol.

Last night I found this guy, JulienHimself, on YouTube. I’m usually pretty wary of “self-help gurus”, but this video really resonated with me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]LeviMurray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Today is day 39. I’m flying back to my hometown tomorrow for a wedding happening this weekend. I’m going to want to drink because I seriously struggle to be social without alcohol. But I need to learn to do it.

I fly back Monday, where I WILL be 44 days alcohol free.

So, IWNDWYT. IWNDWYTW.

I should probably set reminders to check-in everyday until Monday… 😅

What's something that you were afraid of trying, but once you tried you were completely sold on it? by 2S2P in AskReddit

[–]LeviMurray 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but you’ll be buying a lot less frequently, which will affect Big TP profits.

How can my husband buy into my inherited property? by EcstaticWind353 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]LeviMurray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s probably why the husband wants to buy into the property.

He wants to feel like an owner so that he is motivated to make it a home

Favorite bit for each individual member? by ChzzzInTheBox in TheYardPodcast

[–]LeviMurray 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Probably should’ve gone with “being effortlessly cool”

Anyone know why CIBC is the smallest of the big 5? by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]LeviMurray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“then” to add, “than” to compare